ok theree is this guy (of course). and we were "talkin" earlier this year then we stopped then we tried again but he told me he couldnt be with me cuz he didnt wanna hurt me and i could do better. ((he also was like "ima regret forever i couldnt be man enough for u)). so now...its sumthin about him that i cant let go. so i tried talkin to him again. and i told him how i felt. and he said sumthin about when we were talkin before we went on seperate pages. and so i asked him did he care for me..he asked me what did i think. i said no he told me that was a negative..but he didnt look at me the whole time...so yesterday he told me he was gonna call me so we could talk and i waited up for him but he never called. i texted him like 4 times and he replied once...so i asked him..was i wastin my time carin for him and he texted back "idk" so i asked him y..and he didnt reply....i care for him so much but im about to just say **** u..and move on.
2007-10-21 13:41:35 · 24 answers · asked by LuvaBaby08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys aren't even worth time, y wud they be worth the trouble?
2007-10-21 13:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! He doesn't know how to answer a question, he doesn't look at you when you talk to him, he doesn't call you back, he says he can't be enough of a man for you. What more do you need to get the picture??!! And how can you possibly care for this guy if all you have done is talk to him on and off. If that's what you really meant by "talkin." You need to spend some quality time with someone to really care for them in my opinion. It doesn't sound like you have done that. I think you should let him go and find someone else, i'm sure you deserve better. Good luck!
2007-10-21 13:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clue 1-- He said that he didn't want to hurt you... implying that hurting you is a possibility.
Clue 2-- "I regret forever I couldn't be man enough for you."... implying that he thinks he's a looser.
Clue 3-- He says you were on different pages... implying that the two of you have different goals, different values.
Clue 4-- He wouldn't even look you in the eye when addressing important things like feelings.... afraid of what he'd see in your eyes?
Clue 5-- He said he'd call and he didn't... Liar!... or flake- either way, do you really want that??
Clue 6-- He says he doesn't know if you're wasting your time with/on him.... yup- flake.
Move on!!! When a guy says you can do better than him, take his advice and do better!
2007-10-21 13:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a douche and definitely not worth your trouble. That said, he told you from the start that he didn't want to be with you, so you should not feel disappointed that he still doesn't want to be with you. You can hardly describe him as being inconsistent! Take the hint, stop embarrassing yourself by messaging him (really, it's never a good idea to send him a fourth text message when he hasn't extended you the courtesy of replying to your first text message) and grab yourself a copy of 'He's Just Not That Into You' by Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo. You will see just how worthy you are of being with someone who truly deserves to be with someone great like yourself & stop wasting your time on guys who are just not that into you. Good luck!
2007-10-21 13:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Richos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 'care for him so much?' You don't even know the guy - and he doesn't sound very interested in you. If you ask a guy if you're wasting your time and he tells you idk, that's about as definite a turnoff as you can get.
You've been chasing him 'way too hard. The best way to get a guy interested is to let him make the moves. If you go after him as aggressively as you have, it really makes him run for shelter. It may be too late for this particular guy, but keep it in mind for next time.
2007-10-21 13:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-09 03:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Say it with me...Screw him. He "idk"...You got to be kidding. But respect due to him for letting you know that he is not worthy of you. So you know this now. You cannot change how people think. Instead find someone that likes you automatically. It is more fun and less work. You should not have to beg someone to love you.
2007-10-21 13:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by badchasity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u honestly cant help how u feel for someone. try talkin 2 him one more time...if hes acting the same then forget about him. its gonna take some time 2 get over what u feel for him but if u really want 2 then stick it out and move on...
NO FLIP FLOPPING!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-21 13:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by TriniBeauty. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and move on. He's just stringing you along. He won't give you a direct answer, and he didn't even call you when he said he would. Just forget about him. He may not even be the right guy for you.
2007-10-21 13:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
good for you babe, move on. this guy isnt worth the trouble...he seems confused. as soon as you really let go and move on he will probably want you but by then it will be too late and you will have moved on!! and found someone who apprechiates you and knows how lucky they are to have you. i think this guy is playing you. he may care for you as a friend and not know how to tell you he doesnt want more? maybe he is havign deeper problems than you know and he isnt ready to be in a relationship...but you wont know cus he wont talk to you about it.
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2007-10-21 13:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by 47skittles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him y hes no good enough 4 u again. and tell him that u at least want to try goin out. tell him only u know if someone isnt good enough 4 u.
2007-10-21 13:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋