Singles & Dating - 11 October 2007

2007-10-11 19:19:20 · 11 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6

2007-10-11 19:16:17 · 12 answers · asked by rajeev r 1

The other night we were talking about us. She said "i just dont know waht i want and stuff, and i sure dont want to hurt you or anything so i dont want to lead things in a direction that would hurt you" Tonight i told her that i was not trying to pressure her into anything the other night, and that if and when she wanted i would be there, and no matter what she is and always will be my best friend. She responded with "i dont want you to wait on me at all id never ask that of anyone bc like i told u im not sure what i want or anything so i dont want anyone waiting on me bc i dont know what i want". What I want to know is should I wait or should I forget it and just be her friend?

2007-10-11 19:16:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Name is Rob, Im 5'4 and a sophomore at high school and i noticed that i really need to think about a relationship. I however am the farthest thing from some girls think is "hot". I however am one of the sweetest guys someone can meet and i will always put my girl as my top priority,i also treat them much better than what i see my friends do with their girls. Here are some of my issues that i need working out

1st, im overweight and i believe thats a major turnoff im trying to lose it and im down 20 pounds already.
2nd. Im the guy all girls love to be friends with but would never go out with. HOw do i change this?
3rd.I talk with girls alot and most consider me "sweet" but thats the most i get. I have no problem talking to girls and i even help out with their problems, but when its time to start talking to a girl i like about that subject i completely shut down.
4th. i have a fear of rejection even though i never have been rejected.

Someone please give me advice. Ty

2007-10-11 19:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so that he would never think or have seconds thoughts to cheat on me?

2007-10-11 19:05:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months and we don't get to see each other a lot because we live kinda away from each other, we get to see one another at least once a week (sometimes more if we're lucky) and we get on IM every night but sometimes I feel like i'm the one putting in all the effort in this relationship! I feel like I talk a lot and he says one or two words. He used to really talk to me but now it's just simple words and he takes a long time (sometimes an hour) to respond. I don't want to hurt his feelings, I hate pushing things onto him because I don't want to be selfish or hurt him, but how can I get him to open up more to me? Should I keep talking like I do, talk more like he does, or ignore him more? Thanx!

2007-10-11 18:58:15 · 15 answers · asked by Jamie 1

so if you've read my previous questios u'll know there's this guy who there's been all this drama with. well at my schools homecoming i went kind of crazy. i tried to dance with him and he preteded i wasn't there. so then when he walked off the dance floor i followed him and said "If you want me to f*** of then just tell me." and he said "i didn't even know you were there." i said "yes you did you're just choosing to ignore me." then he stomped off all pissy. on monday i gave him a note saying "i'm sorry i blew up at you at homecoming. i was just really stressed and i took it out on you instead of talking calmly. If its possible i hope we can still be friends." now its been a week and... nothing. what should i do?

2007-10-11 18:57:19 · 6 answers · asked by iluvb'way 2

I went to my crush's job wed night to work out and he seen me and was smileing from ear to ear the whole night. And coming up to me and touching me on my shoulder and jokeing around with me. Well after class ended I went to the woman's locker room and changed and was on my way out the door when he stopped me and was like " when did you get here?" smileing and laughing and I looked at him like he was crazy then I figured out he was teaseing me and went along with it. Every time he sees me he smiles from ear to ear and is always asking me to start comeing to that gym where he's at and is all the time teaseing me could this mean he is interested in me and likes me?

2007-10-11 18:54:32 · 5 answers · asked by sweetbutshyangel 1

I have been thinking about transferring for my spring freshmen semester, because I don't like my current school. Now a girl that I met a year ago, is telling me I should transfer to her school, and now I am deff thinking about it. My scholarship would transfer, so i would be in the same situation money wise, but at the same time I realize that the biggest reason for transferring to her school would be because of her. (I was thinking of transferring b4 this situation)

2007-10-11 18:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex girlfriend cheated on me (Iv'e heard of 4 different times from my BF's) and i broke up with her,but her boyfriend (the one she cheated on) wants to fight me ~( I told him about her cheating)~ cause i treated her bad `( I wouldn't talk to her and when she came up to me i told her to F off or get awayand leave me alone or I just ignored her pretended like she wasn't there...I didn't want anything to do with her).....Now he wants to fight, but I don't...I don't want to stand up for her or anything....i just want nothing to do with her like she was a mistake and sometimes i wanna feel like it never happened...What should i do cause i live in a small town and he doesn't leave me alone...PLZ tell me what to do i will really aprrecaite it....

2007-10-11 18:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by I wanna go fast kid 1

2007-10-11 18:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Slide♥ 3

there is this guy I like but he is 4 years older. what should I do?

2007-10-11 18:46:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 18:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 18:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by sunsetst 2

I mean if it's your first time and it's not his how is that special? I mean you've saved yourself for someone who truly loves you but he's already given that part of himself away.

2007-10-11 18:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

im 23 now but when i was younger i took girls to prom , homecoming,balls for jrotc .but they always seem have problems like miss their ex boyfriends,
sad when with me.or say they just wanna be friends.the same thing happens now. i really scared i might get my feeling hurt again and again over and over no what i do. is just me or what. why ?im shy bit of a loner and dont much talk to girls.

2007-10-11 18:37:17 · 14 answers · asked by truedragon1984 1

i've looked, i still cant find just a nice innocent girl, its worrying me that time goes by and maybe there just arent any left? or here at least?

2007-10-11 18:35:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a virgin and I think sex should be shared between two people who love each other. I would only share this with someone I love and someone who loves me back. He however has had two partners, never been in love, which he cared about. So he believes it should be shared between people who care about each other. To me there is a huge difference between caring about someone and loving them.

2007-10-11 18:33:29 · 27 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

me and my b/f are the cutiest cupple most everyone says but were so different i am 5' and hes 6'4 i sked him one day and he just said because. chh ( like that helps) so guys why do you like shorter girls?

2007-10-11 18:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a modest guy. I was raised to be humble and I find modesty to be a good thing. But I've also noticed women seem to never go for this kind of guy (as if being modest means you have no self-esteem). They always go after the overly-confident, cocky guys.

So ladies, if you were aware the guy you were with was modest (for example, will downplay a compliment, and never seek reward for his kindness), would you find that attractive, or would you want a guy who's assertive side is more visible?

2007-10-11 18:25:08 · 16 answers · asked by Fun1 4

I asked a girl a out a few times the first times were on weekdays and she was to busy. I never actually planned times just tried to catch her when she was free. We never actually got to make plans. I dont rember why we never planned it just tried to catch each other. Finally we decided to do something on the weekend. We ended up not meeting up on that weekend because she never called back to clarify the time. I have not talked to her much since. it has been about 4 weeks do you think it is weird for me to try again or should i forget about it.

2007-10-11 18:22:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

the background: we have been friends 10 months. we see each other once a week for an hour, we'refrom different schools, hardly have a chance to talk in class. he does stuff like, gaze at me in class, and when i catch him, looks away. he changes his bus route for mine.

talks v easily to girls but mumbles alot to me and doesn't dare touch me as well. he made like he wanted my no on that bus trip but he kept his phone. when we're alone, he'd come up to me to talk, tell stories, jokes, and ask lots of stuff about me. if he's at the road junction and he knows i'm a distance behind, he'd turn right round to wave.if we don't talk, he just waves hi/bye, stuff like that.

he's still staring (up to a week ago) but when i texted him asking how is he. he takes like 2 days to reply.(i only text him once a month) he usually takes long, but not this long.he's usually like that ard exams. is he "giving up" or is it just exams? thanks

2007-10-11 18:14:09 · 4 answers · asked by Nat 2

I have a girlfriend and I want to kiss her. I'm in seventh grade. Am I old enough? If I am how do I know if she's ready to kiss?

2007-10-11 18:11:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a freshmen in college, and I had to go home for my schools big yearbook thing were all the graduated seniors come back home and get their yearbook and have it signed my everyone. During this whole signing business, I ran into the girl whom I have liked since the freshmen year of high school. I know she liked me but I only found that out the last few months of the year, but anyways, she wrote in mine that she still has a crush on me, and Then she gave me her phone number and wrote to call her anytime. HELP ME! We both go to college 7 hours away from each other. And I know that she is just far to popular for me. I mean she was in the homecoming court. And well, I really not that popular. Should I even try to start a relationship with her. And sorry for making you read my whole crap story. I jsut don't know what to do : (

2007-10-11 18:06:55 · 6 answers · asked by Mr.Blonde 1

2007-10-11 18:03:09 · 18 answers · asked by Daniel L 1

this guy send me text messages,one day he is interested in me and the next day he is not,so i dont know if he is that inmature or what,in our first date he was nervous ,im crazy about him...should i ignore him .??

2007-10-11 18:01:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have this little problem, it seems when I have sex I take a bit of time to blow my load. I have actaully only orgasmed a few times, most of the time I just go and go until the girl oragsms, or gets tired, or I get cramps. One of my friends said it is not a bad problem to have, some girls actaully would like that I cant go off earlier. I am just wondering why it takes so long for me to go off, is there any way I can make it shorter?
Any advice would be helpful...thanks

2007-10-11 18:01:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, today a male gay co worker said he got a text during work and it was from someone at work. I am assuming the guy I dated because he would normally tell me these things. So, it said and I am not sure what it means, something about if Uncle Jack couldn't jump off the roof, could you help Jack off? Is this a gay flirtation? Am I totally oblivious to all that is going on? He showed me the text but covered up his name, almost *****-like, like he liked the guy I dated as well. OMG! I feel now like I am on gay territory? Is this a gay flirtation? Thanks, signed stupid *** co-worker who DID use protection. Is he Gay??? Bi????

2007-10-11 17:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by Jinx 5

are looks everything? are you beautiful... and dumb as a box of rocks?
id date someone super dumb cause they are entertaining and hot as heck what about you?

2007-10-11 17:58:52 · 33 answers · asked by Mase 1

What should I do?

2007-10-11 17:56:09 · 48 answers · asked by bstar407@sbcglobal.net 2