Singles & Dating - 11 October 2007

How do you manage and/or integrate YOUR life with your partner? To what things do you go with him/her, or like them to come with you? What things do you not share together?

Here's why i'm asking... It's hell for me. He doesn't want anything to do with other people in my life, and says that when i am with him and his family or friends, that they all look at me weird 'cause i'm like his shadow or something. I am kinda shy but i do try to be polite. It's like we're good only when we're completely alone, and don't have a life other than being together.

2007-10-11 13:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by jade 2

Although I am so busy but I still call them, leave them messages, send them e-mails, send them messages but they do not even care. Every other day or so they reply to me.
I feel so sad and lonely.

2007-10-11 13:09:37 · 5 answers · asked by andy-mac 3

I have a bf,divorced American guy, 38, business owner, travels very often.We dated 11 mos already. I am Asian, 28 still on the process of my divorce, have 6 yr old boy.
He is very nice and did a lot of sacrifices for me. Many instances that i pushed him & tried to fight with him coz we seldom dont see each other.. but he dont let me go.
There were times we spend together and had so much fun, & all of a sudden he open an issue w/c is about my divorce, asked me when it will be finalize.We dont say we love each other, but Im falling for him. Trying hard to control my feelings coz were both aware that I have to settle all the things goin on with my life.
I found him from dating website, what I did is I pretend to be another girl so I made 2 different profile and message him and he replied,makes me disappointed now. I want to confront him inregards to this but Im not sure if its okay.Do i have to just ignore what i found out & use him (for him being nice)? Or will end our communication?

2007-10-11 13:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by princessqueen 2

I am seeing my boyfriend in a couple weeks... What look do guys like best? The relaxed look? (curly hair down, sweat pants, hoodie) or something a little more dressy? I want to look really nice for him because I haven't seen him in a while. Any suggestions?? (something memorable)

2007-10-11 13:06:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this girl for 2 weeks, and my friend(guy) who is a good friend of her's is telling me im going too "slow"; he tells me i need to start holding her hand and then go for the kiss to "seal" the "deal".
It seems to me like thats too fast. i mean i already know her well, and she is hard to "read", for ME, but i think she diggs me.My problem is I dont know if she, OR I for that matter, is comfortable with going that fast. But i dont want to "bore" her and i dont want to trick her into thinking that there is nothing there by waiting too long.
And im not just lookin to get laid here either, so dont give me that s&*t.
She is 19, Im 19.
What is the "norm" for this situation?
Im pretty serious about this. I dont know what to do. I dont want to mess things up. AND I WONDER IF MY FRIEND KNOWS SOMETHING I DONT. should i ask him?
I was just thinking: just get a little more comfortable with her, you know, a little more open, and THEN when the time is right, formally ask her out.

2007-10-11 13:05:52 · 1 answers · asked by angry youngman 1

k this is kinda of a weird question but from just knowing my name( carissa) what do u think is the name of my soulmate or next boyfriend?

2007-10-11 13:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He broke up unexpectedly last Sunday. Tuesday he writes me an email saying he is exhausted and to understand how he feels, that there is so much going on in his life (wont go into details but its is true) and that he needs time to clear his head at lest til the storm has passed or a little. I have not replied, not knowing what to do, what to say. he hurt me and I would like for him to realize that it was a mistake to push me away. how can I make him miss me? some friends say write him " I see where you come from, I understand and wish you to find happiness", others say" dont write ignore and let him miss you". what do you say? From experience or knowledge please advice.

2007-10-11 13:04:12 · 6 answers · asked by healthylifestyle 2

Well I go with a guy named Curtis. And I also know a girl named Katrina; whom I met through a friend. Over the time, Katrina and I never really got along and recent I told her to back off and just leave me alone. [She has an anger problem and tends to break things when she's mad. Maybe it collaborates with this?] So yesterday I seen Curtis talking with Katrina and she told me he said he didn't want to date me anymore. So I went and asked him and he said he never said any of that and Katrina told him that I was easy && didn't like him && more. So shortly after that Katrina calls and says HE called me easy and I really don't know who to believe.

I tried calling my boyfriend and his phone is off. That, or he's rejecting my calls. Because he told me he got his phone fixed today and he could use it again. I really don't want to break up but I don't want to go through this so can someone please give some advice as to what I could do?

2007-10-11 13:02:48 · 5 answers · asked by °ીીી 2

i like this chick. but she would not go out with me because she is bi. what should i do? help please.

2007-10-11 12:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by EL LITTLE JOKER. 1

that when i see him my eyes would pop???

2007-10-11 12:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. Last night he asked me about a party him and I went to, BEFORE we were even going out which was over a year ago, and if I had done anything with his friend. I told him that I did. He broke up with me. I love him, I would do anything for him. I can't lose him. I have been crying on and off for the last 24 hours, sudden splurges during class and everything. I have tried talking to him, and I know that he loves me too. But he said he isn't gonna take me back.

2007-10-11 12:22:53 · 11 answers · asked by . 3

someone who keep playing with ur feelings... who would scar ur name and backstabs you whenever he would give the chance...and doing things to make lose ur chance with any other man... he acts like he is ur friend while he really is ur biggest enemy... it seems like becoming friend with him was the biggest mistake u made in ur life... and u will end up regretting this for the rest of ur life. but this idiot should have known you would have given up anything to only be with him. He is not giving back ur stuffs and ur dog who raised since birth
why would anyone want to see someone hurt and in pain... and if they really hate being ur friend couldn't they just tell u in the face and move on. after a year it is all over and done he still continuing spreading rumors about u to whoever he gets the chance ... why can’t he just stop!

2007-10-11 12:22:45 · 1 answers · asked by death body 21 1

I asked this question already, but I thought I would try again for some more answers. I am waiting until I am married to have sex but I want to keep things hot between me and my boyfriend. We fool around but I want to keep things exciting. What do you guys like, besides actual sex? (If it helps, I am not a teeny bopper asking this. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 29. Things are going great but I just want some new ideas.) Thanks!

And just to be clear about this...My boyfriend respects my decision to wait. He is not a virgin but is completely willing to wait for me. He is wonderful about it.

2007-10-11 12:20:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am dating this guy named Sunny and we were having some problems in our relationship. I told him that I need some time apart from him and he said, "ok, thanks for your love." and more that I can't say. When he said that, I feel so terrible about that. I bet he hates me now since I told him. We haven't talk for a few days already and I feel so terrible about this. I miss him so much and I really like him. So What should I do????????? Please help me with this!

2007-10-11 12:15:05 · 7 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7

OK my cousins wife died recently she had lung cancer, I herd all this racist **** i have even herd in my life, i mean some were talking about how the hell did he meet her thanks god the charade is over and they wont even waiting after the funeral . that was so mean i mean come on someone just died my cousin was crying like a baby thats so horrible, what do you think

2007-10-11 12:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think this guy is going to ask me out...and I don't know how to say yes without sounding stupid. So...help!! haha. :]

2007-10-11 12:10:47 · 4 answers · asked by Melissa L 2

My 30 year old son still lives with me but he says he wants to get involved in a relationship. However, I think he is too young to start dating. What should I do?

2007-10-11 12:00:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK here's the deal same guy ok? i called his cell to talk to him and he said he had lacrosse practice which i know he doesnt play lacrosse. So i called agian (i know i seem annoying) his sis picks up and i ask her where his is she tells me down stairs playing pool. So then i hang up. I call again and his friend picks up and i ask him where he is. Then i here someone in the background say in a hushed voice "im not here tell her". He;s not here his friend says whatever so i hang up. I know he's there because his friend Josh would not be over if he wasnt there. SO PLZ HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????

2007-10-11 11:59:04 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to know what the different types of boobs are, and pictures would help. and just another question... what do girls fnd attractive in guys. ad what happens when they get horny? like guys getting an erection.

2007-10-11 11:55:38 · 24 answers · asked by dude 1

please elaborate... thanks.

2007-10-11 11:46:41 · 8 answers · asked by jade 2

i like this guy at school, and my friend told him. he said he likes me, but then found out this other girl likes him. he said that he likes me more than her, and that im prettier, but then he went out with her. they broke up a couple of days ago, and he said he still likes me. just the other day, he asked another girl out. should i just forget about him? what do i do? ( i still kinda like him)

2007-10-11 11:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by *smile* 1

ive just stayed at my LD bf for a few days and ive found out his mum had a go at him saying that im rude and i never thanked her for letting me stay. ive been trying to speak to her for 8 months but it seems when i speak to her she gives me a look of dont waste your breath. i was going to say bye to her when i left today but she had company round and i didnt want to interupt. im going again at th end of november to stay one night and im taking the xmas presents and ive got his mum her fave biscuits but is there any way for me to get her to think better about me instead of yelling at my bf about me

oh im very shy so talking is hard for me to do in the first place but i do try my best

2007-10-11 11:36:05 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

need help (guys)&(girls) am i cute
idk ppl say im preatty and some guys like me and i don't like them but i like this guys and he used to like me and i have no idea what to do i need help badly (he dosn't talk to me anymore)

2007-10-11 11:31:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here's the deal. I like him. I think he like's me. We sit by choice next to each other in classes. He's super funny and really cute. He hangs around alot and talks to me alot BUT, when ever im around his friends or anyone else he freaks out and leaves. Was it something i did? Plus i hav a dance this friday and a buncjh of guys already asked me but i said no to every one. That's because im waiting for him to ask me. My friend thinks he's going to. SO PLZ HELP!!!

2007-10-11 11:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

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i need help (guys)&(girls) am i cute
idk ppl say im preatty and some guys like me and i don't like them but i like this guys and he used to like me and i have no idea what to do i need help badly (he dosn't talk to me anymore)

2007-10-11 11:21:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 11:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

cause this guy went up my shirt and almost down the pants.....i didn't know what i was supposed to do and i didn't know what it meant so i let it happen....is that good or bad?

2007-10-11 10:59:52 · 34 answers · asked by jazziqueen8 1

This was on the Kane morning show for 99.5 hot in Washing dc.
Kane the host of the show did not think it would be cheating if a guy slept with his ex wife even if he had a new girlfriend. He said you can't cheat with someone you've already had sex with. It isn't cheating it's ex sex, a relapse. Thoughts?

2007-10-11 10:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by XxAshes2AshesxX 1

I have 4 relationships and 2 are spanish guys! I kept liking spanish guys and I don't know why! Am I spanish-guy crazy or have in bad taste with boys? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-10-11 10:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7

my boyfriend of two years just kicked me to the curb and told me he never really loved me. well my bestfriend (a guy) is coming into town this weekend and i feel like if i..... "do things"..... with him ill feel better but i know that would ruin our freindship cause I dont really have feeling for him in that way and im pretty sure he doesnt either. please stop me!!!

2007-10-11 10:46:25 · 1 answers · asked by ... 4