Singles & Dating - 11 October 2007

This guy used to give an eye contact to me since 2-3 yrs. I approached him and we r friends now. But at first he hesitated to talk to me..i dont know why. Then he talked nicely. My problem is....sometimes he talks very nicely,...he makes me laugh...he shows that he cares.. But sometimes he gives very to the point answers to me...and converse as if hez just doing a formality. Not only this...sometimes he completely ignores me.I m so confused becoz of his mood swings. What do u think...why is he behaving this way??Are they really mood swings or do u think hez just being nice?Should i ask him directly whether he really wanna talk to me or not?

2007-10-11 07:16:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 07:14:01 · 6 answers · asked by Baby i 1

My gf is having a wild night as we speaks. It is her friend's birthday so she went out for dinner and having a karokee night , it is 2am already. I spoke to her and she is quite drunk. She even mention about this guy "Alex" is living close by, and she said she will call him even at 2 am.

Her behavour bothers me........I asked her to go home, she said she will spend the whole night. I then have no choice but to tell her be careful and take a day off work.

Would that bother you?

2007-10-11 07:13:50 · 4 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7

Ok, I've been going out with my current girlfriend(Miss A) for a while and she introduced me to her friend(Miss B). Miss B and I really hit it off and I'm starting to like her more and more, So much so that the prospect of a relationship with Miss A seem dull and unhappy. Miss A and I have been great friends for a while and i don't want to ruin that by that asking her best friend out after i break up with her. What should i do???

2007-10-11 07:13:35 · 7 answers · asked by Drifblim 1

Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for awile now but he wants me to be on top but Its kinda awkward when I even think about it cause he would be looking at me when im up there and I don't even know what to do if im on top of him? So my questions are: How do I be on top without feeling awkward? What do when Im on top?

2007-10-11 07:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Megan♥ 1

Last night i went to the casino. Won some money and then desided to go play bingo. As I was playing i was looking around the room and spotted a hot chick in the back. With the bingo cards and the dabber i wrote my name and number. I wrote to cross two pages. I wrote it in advance on the cards i wasnt going to use,cause i was bored and going to leave early. The intermission came up. I walked over there and set the two card down right in front of her, and just walked away. When I was out the door i looked back at her, and she looked really confused. I went to a different door and was still watching her She still had that confused look on her face.Her mom came back, she went away to get something during the intermission. she handed the cards to her mom and her mom started laughing. The mom showed the bingo attendent and he started laughing. She took them back and took out her phone. She didnt call me right away. about 2 hours later i got a text message from her and then we talked all nigh

2007-10-11 07:07:11 · 5 answers · asked by Jon G 7

I been talking to him recently and he seem really interested how do I ask for his number??

2007-10-11 07:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Mrs.SweetLove♥ 6

my son told me to day that the same girl asked him to b her body guard im worried my son gona get his heart broken

2007-10-11 07:04:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz I'm describing physical... Here goes: Girl, 15, Long Blonde, Blue eyes, 5'6" ,120 lbs,D boobs, Many say I'm hot, last week, three guys asked me out. So would you?

2007-10-11 07:02:56 · 24 answers · asked by Lily_Evans 2

good,they refer to him as trash,they judge him for his past and consider him a good for nothing thug.Knowing him as a person,I know he is none of those things and is truly a great person at heart and treats me like a queen.I am truly happier than I have ever been and it's because of him.Well, he has tired of all the bull***t that is said about him and is determined to speak to my father man to man about our relationship.He plans on telling my father that he is not what everyone thinks he is and that they shouldn't judge him without even giving him a chance and taking the time out to talk to him.He also plans on saying that although he would love to be accepted because he knows how much it hurts me to be at odds with my family. I asked him not to go talk to my father,mostly because I'm afraid of his reaction and of my relationship with my parents getting worse. I'm just so eager to please my parents and to have their approval I've a few times considered breaking up. Any advice? Thoughts

2007-10-11 06:53:03 · 8 answers · asked by ConfusedHMD 2

Is it okay to have a "fun" relationship? Where there is a lot of chemistry, but you pretty much just make out and have sex? Cuz I broke up with my bf and there's this guy and we have really good sex, but that's it. He's really hot! But I don't know if it is okay? Help!

2007-10-11 06:50:56 · 47 answers · asked by Lily_Evans 2

how do they act afterwards

2007-10-11 06:50:45 · 16 answers · asked by HerR 2

No matter what you or anyone says, someone who dies a virgin is STILL gonna wanna do it even after they die and are in heaven. There are so many sexy women in this world and the guy will still want to do this even after he dies, virgin or not.


For example, what about all those kids who went straight to Vietman ot Iraq just out of high school and died in combat before they had the chance to make out with a girl?

2007-10-11 06:49:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

most guys says that "kindness" and a "sense of humour" is imp in the personality... but what is it that really makes a guy like a girl?

2007-10-11 06:48:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I am bi-curious
I get turned on watching girl on girl action in movies and I think about me and girls touching each other and I get way turned on thinking about these things.
Just so you know I am married.
I have talked to my husband about my feelings and of course he thinks its great. Now for my question I want to know how to take it to the next level like have a three-some with my husband and a girl.
Me and my husband are still young I am 18 he is 22 so we still go to clubs and things and at the club I check out hot girls but how would we "choose" one to go home with us? Do you know what I mean? Like how am I supposed to know if she is in to that kind of thing?
I have thought about taking a girl out to the dance floor and well and I dont know like how would I come up with a subject like that! I dont want to get soem girl drunk and take advantage of her no way I just want to know how do you take it to the next level? How do you find a girl?

2007-10-11 06:36:15 · 17 answers · asked by Saerah 4

We have been wanting to go run together so how does this sound:
We go for a run at a park and then maybe walk for a little bit and/or shoot hoops(we both like basketball), then go out someplace for lunch. do you think that it sounds like a good idea?

2007-10-11 06:32:02 · 13 answers · asked by iLOVEJESUS 4

did you go to your prom ? was it truly the best night of your life ? ....I can't wait for mine !

2007-10-11 06:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by heartthrob 2

2007-10-11 06:22:13 · 14 answers · asked by ace 1

she love me.

ok!it goes like this,she is beautiful and im not at all.she used to talk with me very closely but when she came across that i love her she stopped talking to me.now im other college.on a holiday i went to their college and she saw me and made a smile at me.she will see me all the time whenever i go there.buti dont whether she loves me.she's is a girl,if any body even scolds her she will go and complaint to higher authorities,but even knowing my love she did not say to anyone except her friends,some times she gets away from me and sometimes she only comes and talk to me.does she love me/

2007-10-11 06:17:04 · 6 answers · asked by srinu710 4

In high school I was an overweight nerd who wore glasses but as I went to college I became the man. I used the weight room to get big toned muscles and even got so good at what I do that I made my division 1 college football team as a walk on. Some of those same girls who teased me in high school now wants me and I reject their offer every single time?

2007-10-11 06:02:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

hmm..there's this girl that works at an ice cream place called coldstone, and for the past few weeks, i've been talking to her...a lot.. because i work next door at radioshack. she seems interested,but my friend says she has a b/f and i don't wanna just be like "hey, break up with your boyfriend and date me." what are some ways i could let her know that i like her without being over conspicuous? i don't wanna come on too strong

2007-10-11 05:40:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i dated this guy fro 2 months..tha begining of summer and to the end of summer i know it's stupid but i felt like we really had a connection and me and his mom still talk about everything and anything but me and him hardly talk any more and i like to be friends with my ex's. ok so i've tried to move on and date other guys but since then i've dated 1 other guy and it didnt work well at all because all i could think about was my ex so..i need some help. what should i do to get over him and move on??

2007-10-11 05:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor D 1

1. Do you prefer a face over a nice body or vise-verse?
2. Short and pettite or tall and slender?
3. Plays hard to get or confident and straight to the point?
4. Confident or shy?
5. Nice girl or Naughty?
6. Not answering the phone when you call us does that really
make you want me more?
7. Girly or Natural?

I know being yourself is the best which that's what i do but some of these questions are natural to me so i dont know how they really apply in real life to men.

2007-10-11 05:38:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 weeks ago...My m8 told all her m8s in college thats im shy and it still speading across the college. Im really scared....aready 12 girls came upto me today, I don't even know them but they very friendly. 2 weeks ago i only known 2 girls but now i know alot and i don't want to know them. They keep askin me questions...e.g "Hw old are u, u k,wt course do u do, can i have ur number, do u like me, do u want my number, are u single...etc?

Girls keep telling me tht they never met someone like me ever.

They make me feel really really nervous specially when i walk they keep chattin about me...i only can hear "oOoH this the guy, hello"

Every 5 mins a girl(s) says "helloooooooo"

I have't went college for 3 days...Im nervous.

do u think i should move college? or wait for a couple of weeks and the go bk 2 college?

2007-10-11 05:38:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm taking out a girl I knew in highschool tomorrow for our first date. I Really like her and I know flowers are a big no on the first. What can I do to show her I'm excited about her and suprise her tomorrow, without getting carried away?

2007-10-11 05:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by Nate 6

Hi,
I have been dating this Japanese banker in Hong Kong for a few days now. I finally felt it was time to move to the next level. We did it in a hotel to ensure that no neighbours not ideas.
He carried lots of goodies for me. Once we were in the room, he stripped but stopped me from doing so. He presented chocolates, wine, inexpensive jewels, etc, to me in his birthday suit while I remained dressed. He then asked me to go to bathroom with him. We had a shower and he washed my hair for more than 10 minutes. Only then he peeled off my wet clothes. During the act, he spoke many times "f*** me like there is no tomorrow". I don't know what that means. After it was over, he gave me more gifts. Overall I have no complaints.

I have been out with him once again and again he offered me gifts, all wearing nothing. Again he gave me a shower. Again he spoke the same things.

I want to call off the relationship if he is abnormal. Any shrinks or therapists who are reading this?

2007-10-11 05:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever i have great sex... my best orgasms always make me cry afterwards. I'm not sad, or hurt, or upset... i'm completely at ease because i just had the best feeling in the world. So why do i cry?

Does anybody know the scientific and biological reasoning behind this?

2007-10-11 05:21:54 · 48 answers · asked by Jenna C 1

I am polite, soft spoken but it is hard for me to express my feelings. It seems everyone finds me boring . What should i do?

2007-10-11 05:20:30 · 11 answers · asked by Rip Van W 3

I have been dating this girl on and off for about a year now. Right now she is showing interest in me again and I don't want her to lose interest. I am grounded now so I will only see her once a week at church and I go to church for God first and after church I can hang out with her for a little. we say we love each other everytime we get off the phone, is this a bad idea? How can I keep up her interest in me?? I really do love her and from what she's described about me she really does love me. I understand love is a verb not an emotion. I am 17 years old I need some help.

2007-10-11 05:18:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

see my ex cheated on me 2yr into the relationship and got the girl pregnant and well the ***** had the baby. well me and him dated for almost 5 yrs and i still hate him, the baby, and her. I wished all of them would die especially the baby and her. I mean if ur going to cheat at least use protection. Well me and him broke up like 6 months ago when the baby was 3 months old b/c the more it was mentioned the more i thought about killing the baby. i know its the baby's fault but thats how i feel. I still haven't gotten over it people tell me that i should be over it by now but i'm not . It still upsets me b/c i loved him dearly he was my first love and i can't figure out why he would do this to me. He still wants to be with me but theres no way i'm taking him back. I feel like i have been betrayled b/c i was here first and him and his mom who i was really close to should not accepted the baby. what do u think? how do u move on from something like this happing.

2007-10-11 05:11:37 · 50 answers · asked by bluedevilsgirl07 2