Okay I am bi-curious
I get turned on watching girl on girl action in movies and I think about me and girls touching each other and I get way turned on thinking about these things.
Just so you know I am married.
I have talked to my husband about my feelings and of course he thinks its great. Now for my question I want to know how to take it to the next level like have a three-some with my husband and a girl.
Me and my husband are still young I am 18 he is 22 so we still go to clubs and things and at the club I check out hot girls but how would we "choose" one to go home with us? Do you know what I mean? Like how am I supposed to know if she is in to that kind of thing?
I have thought about taking a girl out to the dance floor and well and I dont know like how would I come up with a subject like that! I dont want to get soem girl drunk and take advantage of her no way I just want to know how do you take it to the next level? How do you find a girl?
2007-10-11 06:36:15 · 17 answers · asked by Saerah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I did exactly what your trying to do.
you can go to gay bars and find bi/sexual girls there. Where we live there is a large lesbain community and there are several girls who hang out with full blown lesbian that are just curious those are the ones that you target.
You are going to have to get them drunk. I suggest you get drunk to or you'll probably be to nervous to go thru with it.
First hang out with them on a friends type situation then maybe the next time you can envite them to your house. We are 420 friendly at my house so I envited the girls over to smoke and drink. My husband would make the drinks and when he wasin the other room I would kiss or touch the girls. when he came back he would be ready to watch
Hope that helps
2007-10-11 06:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by iampricelessru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, u have to remember that in a club alot of girls will dirty dance with other girls to get male atention, so these girls are not nesscarily gay. u have to ork out whether u want a gay girl or a bi-curious girl, okay and REMEMBER YOUR ONLY NEWLYMARIED AND THIS PROBABLY WILL PUT COMPLICATIONS IN YOUR MARRIAGE i.e jealously etc. but anyway. u could try a friend who may want to, i mean i have with a friend and her partner at the time, and we still get on, it werent because i was gay and fancied her it was because i wanted to see how it felt to be intimate withy a girl, im not gay, and i wouldnt say im bi, but if the option came along again with a female i wouldnt turn it down i dont think!!! so u need to friend someone you can trust, getting a girl from a club who is drunk and maybe doesnt understand what your asking would be intimated by ur husband and you, two people she doesnt know and who both want to have sex with her, catch my drift. Try a online dating agnecy or something, a friend is always a good bet, but someone you can trust and make sure your ready for any complications that could happen!!! good luck and have fun ;)
2007-10-11 06:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what part of the country you are in, but there are what they call swinger's clubs in just about every larger city in the country, i would try there, or maybe a gay/lesbian bar. The only trouble i can forsee with this idea is your age. Most places want you to be 21 and over. There is also always the option of running an ad in a swinger's publication
2007-10-11 06:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you start chatting to bi girls in your area on face party or some other site like that be up front and honest with the girl open what you are after no misleading see how you get on then meet and you should bare in mind this can affect you relationship with your husband in long term if you start to get jealous with him joining in etc after all what is good for the goose is good for the gander
2007-10-11 06:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by georgina.turner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably picking up a girl in bar would be the easiest. It will be easier with you there instead of just a guy trying to pick her up on his own. Just talk to her and then casually bring up the subject of being with a woman.
2007-10-11 06:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by naturalhi16 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful what you wish for!! We are all a little curious by nature...Just really make sure you are ready to take this on FOR REAL.... It may be all erotic the moment you and your hubby are doing it..BUT the after effects can be detrimental...
For instance you may be wondering ....
hmm...Did he like her butt, boobs, the sex etc...better with her?
i dont know what kind of person you are...you may not know until you do it...But really think about it first....
Make sure you are ready to share someone else with hubby....The after effect may put a wedge between you and hubby.
2007-10-11 06:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by kakeydec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my girlfriend thru a friend who introduced us. You are rushing things. If you just go pick up a girl and bring her home, things will go badly.. Look for a girlfriend the same way you looked for your husband. Let things happen when they will . Let your relationship with the girl get comfortable, before bringing your husband into it.
Make sure your husband understands that you are not bringing home a sextoy for him....
2007-10-11 06:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should go to a club then find a girl and ask her or tell her that you like her and if she dosent say anything that means that she likes you to and then you ask her if she wont's to have a three sum with your husband.
2007-10-11 06:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask a girl dat if they would want to have a good night with u and ur man cuz if u really wana do it with a girl den u should theirs nuthing wrong with doing a three-some
2007-10-11 06:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
David Shade wrote an entire book on this; check it out at the first link.
His other products are good, too. (second link)
(These aren't spam.... just have found them useful)
2007-10-11 06:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋