Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for awile now but he wants me to be on top but Its kinda awkward when I even think about it cause he would be looking at me when im up there and I don't even know what to do if im on top of him? So my questions are: How do I be on top without feeling awkward? What do when Im on top?
2007-10-11 07:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Megan♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men are visual that's why he wants you on top...personally i love being on top it's more satisfying to me of course my fiance has a little dic*** so its the only way i orgasm..OOPS did i just say that :)
2007-10-11 07:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by gracey 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The top is the best.
I dont know how descriptive I can get here BUT...
When your on top you slowly grind into him and let him watch you. It's erotic. You are the one in control now, he can feel good OR really really good. Its all up to you, you'll have a better orgasm up there too.
You shouldnt' feel awkward if you've been dating for a little while. Your sharing a special part of yourself when your the one in control. He will love it, I promise.
2007-10-11 07:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, sex isn't about thinking. You are not supposed to be thinking about anything while having sex, just enjoying what it is. You first need to let go, completely, ejnoy it, get into it. Being on top is amazing, you are in control, it feels amazing. So just get up there and start moving, you'll get the 'feel' for it real quick. And don't worry about what he's thinking, cuz he's not thinking anything but really good thoughts ;)
2007-10-11 07:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I more or else am uncomfortable with body parts flopping up and down. My guy makes it a point to tell me how much he enjoys seeing and feeling me on top. The look on his face when I'm on top gives me all the encouragement I need. Try and start out with wearing a tshirt while on top, then switch to a tank top, then a bra....sooner or later....you'll be totally naked and riding him hard!!! You'll love it. Plus, being on top lets him hit you in places that don't get hit when in the missionary position.
2007-10-11 07:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 12:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by lepeska 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be the ugliest girl in the world and as long as you were on top he would love it. Fact is...if he's looking at you wile you are on top then he likes what he sees (if not his eyes would be closed and he would be pulling a memory picture out of his mind) just know that you maybe fulfilling one of his fantasies and that he is not judging you while you are on top....he is thinking "wow this girl is hot and all mine - just look at how devoted she is to me - she will do these things for me!
Also keep in mind that if you don't do these things for him....someone will.
2007-10-11 07:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWKWARD? whats awkward about it? stop thinking so much, and just enjoy yourself, lots of guys like this position, (I know I do) it puts the woman in control, and appeals to my basically lazy nature(lol)
2007-10-11 08:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rob M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys like this position as it lets you be in control......once up there, you will get the feel of things, just ease yourself up and down and he will help by moving also....
2007-10-11 07:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes and ride him like a horse. Playing with your breasts will be a turn on for both you and him.
Or you can still be on top but laying on his chest and kissing him.
2007-10-11 07:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what he likes. and no, men don't like women on top because it puts them in control, we like women on top because its less work :)
2007-10-11 07:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋