Singles & Dating - 11 October 2007

I have been with my bf 4, 3 years. Recently we went on a trip where I met one of his old friends. One night we all were at a large party and my bf was drunk and everyone was dancing around. She went and was dancing on my bf.. Then when my bf goes to get another one of his friends all of a sudden she jumps on the back of his bike w/him. I didnt see them until morning. This girl called me controlling for being mad that he spent the night at his friends house w/ her there. He stayed away from her for the next fews days and then she shows up again. And they talk all the time now, am i supposed to be okay with this? Is it okay? Now it's like he doesn't even care about me.. he says why don't I just leave him when I try to talk with him.. and when he gets mad at me doesn't talk to me for days and does anything he can to try and make me mad. What do I do?

2007-10-11 05:11:34 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 1

2007-10-11 05:10:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel a lil stressed out. I do all the cooking, cleaning, washing, bathing and a whole lot. When the kids go back with their mother its a time for us to just relax and take a break. The other day they came over the house when it was not their week with us. Do not get me wrong I love them to death but sometimes I just need a break. Yesterday at work was very stressful so all I wanted to do was come home and relax. When my boyfriend picked me up, I noticed they were in the car and I felt a lil indifferent. They were fighting and kicking each other in the backseat. I could not handle it! By the time, I got home I was asked to cook but did not want to do it. So instead my boyfriend did. I jumped in the shower, locked the door to the room, and went to sleep. My question is, is that bad of me to be that way? I mean even if you never been in a situation like this im sure there was a time when you wanted to be alone and did not want to be bothered by any one. Ughhhh.... it was just one of those days I guess.... Feed back please!

2007-10-11 05:03:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a girl at a place on my campus (college student) we had ice cream for few hours. She IMed me when i got back, said she had a good time, wanted to hang out again. I called her and asked her to dinner. I definitely think she likes me but she always seems nervous around me and i cant really tell how comfortable she is with me yet. Should I kiss her goodnight on the lips on the end of this second date or would a cheek kiss be better?

2007-10-11 04:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this lad....and im not to sure where its going...ive tryed asking him before but he said he was to busy at work. i dont know him enough to ring him so i just thought about sending him a text. im scared incase he gets scared off if i text him tho........but i want to know if im waisting my time or not!!...ive had enough **** with lads and dont want to be draged along when he doesnt really like me.
should should i text him?

2007-10-11 04:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do men really date by the "rules"? Is there such a thing for men? When do the games stop? How do you tell if a man really does love you and he is not interested in other women?

2007-10-11 04:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by butterflyprincess 1

2007-10-11 04:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by Bob 1

Is this a good gift?

2007-10-11 04:41:08 · 15 answers · asked by KhrisB 3

what would you do stay with the man who has millions or leave for the one who has nothing?

2007-10-11 04:40:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is instant stuff. Say you only have 5 mins to talk to a guy, like a speed dating thing..what are the 5 things you check for to see if you would want to continue talking with a guy?

2007-10-11 04:39:28 · 4 answers · asked by Susan F 4

i like this guy..he likes me..we arn't dating..
he vented to me last night how he made out with this girl and then she played him for someone else. I'm not exactly sure what to do. we've dated before...but broke up..i'm willing for a second chance with him..
he also is a student observer in a class at my high school..
he says nothing can happen between he and i while he's here at my school..yea..
it sucks..
any advice?...i'd really appriciate it
because I like the guy soo much..and he says he cares the same for me as i do for him..idk..ugh

2007-10-11 04:39:13 · 1 answers · asked by trpt110ny 2

Take a girl that you do not know much about her personal life (has a bf or not). You guys are not even close friends. If you asked her out or for her number, and if she WASN'T interested she could of just said "NO" or "I have a BF" (lie or the truth) or any other answer to reject that idea. But if she gives you her number...then it's possible she's interested? Please help and explain. Thank you. I appreciate it.

2007-10-11 04:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are some major turn offs in a women? When your dating and have been dating for a long time? Or even if your not dating? What do you find the most attractive in a women?

2007-10-11 04:36:26 · 16 answers · asked by ♥M♥ 4

I don't want to crush his feelings but at the same time I don't want him to think I feel the same way for him as he feels for me. He tells me all of these cute things like the best part of him going into work is getting to talk to me. We have only been talking for about 3 weeks now and I don't feel the same the best part of my day was talking to my best friend.

2007-10-11 04:36:05 · 13 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2

You could only have one, which would you choose?

2007-10-11 04:35:38 · 43 answers · asked by kellylee 2

be a guy 4 a day? if so y?

2007-10-11 04:31:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

jump on it like flies around the proverbial,while if it's the other way round,us men just laugh it off.Not much of an advert for equality is it?

2007-10-11 04:27:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

As you get older, do you get higher standards of what to expect from new boyfriends/girlfriends? Are you less likely to settle? Are you less likely to put up with crap, (lying, cheating, etc)?

2007-10-11 04:27:46 · 21 answers · asked by Alex J 3

people i reallllllllyyyy need help.....PLEASE HELP......
the problem is that theres this new super cool boy in our school.....hez like two classes bigger than me....im in grade 9 and hes in 11th year.....
I have a huge crush on him......but we never talked......i just dont know how to start a talk......i mean i just dont wanna go up 2 him and say somethin like * can we be frends *......i mean i wanna make some kinda realistic start........how should i start a conversation......
PLEASE HELP PEOPLE!!!!!!
thanx in advance :D!!!

2007-10-11 04:26:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-11 04:24:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

The only places I can think of: Disneyland, Chuck E. Cheese, 7/11

2007-10-11 04:23:19 · 11 answers · asked by KhrisB 3

thers this lad i met in town years ago, i got with him a few times but we forgot about each other untill a month ago. i text him when i was ment to text my sister...anyways we got talking again. i met him in town and stayed at his that night. after that we texted each other all week and i even asked if we would meet up again and he said yes. i went to town that next saterday and met up with him...i couldnt really talk to him because i was with my friends and they arent to keen on him. that night he said we should do something that week like go to the pictures...so i said yes.....but nothin happend...he was being funny with me that week by not texting me back...i seem him again in town and he was fine with me. this week ive asked him if he wants 2 catch up a number of times and he says yes but nothing has happened.

Does he like me or he is a player??...and what should i do about him...because ii do reaaly like this lad!!

2007-10-11 04:17:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a girl flirts guyz say they can read her but girls are always guessing what a guy is thinking and get it worng allot!

2007-10-11 04:16:32 · 11 answers · asked by Linny love 1

i did learn alot from this relationship but i could never imagine being friends/acquaintance with him....Even though we seemed like soul mates when we were together ...He turned out to be a fraud and a liar. I often wonder what i would say to him if i did see him again. Has anyone had a situation when you were so betrayed by someone and you came face to face with them again? how did you react?

2007-10-11 04:11:15 · 35 answers · asked by kakeydec 4

I hear women/girls complain when men look at them, and know in my case it might be because they have a nice body and almost always it is because they are showng it off with tight tops/bottoms and low-cut tops. Why do women wear provocative or somewhat provocative clothing and then get upset if men notice them?

2007-10-11 04:09:52 · 13 answers · asked by Wolfithius 4

2007-10-11 04:07:59 · 7 answers · asked by sahel d 1

But now I want to get out of it without looking bad.
How do I do It? I found out she does this all the time. What should I do?

2007-10-11 04:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by John 1

I like sex alot, and with different guys.i hang out with nothing but guys and there is one guy that i like soooo much, but we have been having problems. so i decided to meet one of the other guys that was at their house at a party one night and i always have sex on the first date and i like it, it feels great. but i overheard him tell one of my other guy friends that he 'hit it like a pinata' . Im nice to them and we have sex together, but i treat them nice, not like they are a piece of meat.I want to be friends with them also. but why do they have to be all macho, and laugh at me, it hurts my feelings/ .Even though im an easy woman ,is it possible for them to have feelings for me, or do guys not have feelings for women who give it up on the first date.I really dont know the word respect i guess. but i do know the words...I love sex....but i dont like being called a pinata. lol

2007-10-11 03:50:07 · 14 answers · asked by bonolarryedge 2

2007-10-11 03:47:29 · 50 answers · asked by Alex J 3

The person im with doesnt trust me, and weve almost been together for 2 years now, and he has became very possessive, controlling we are constantly argueing... and im just not in it anymore.. Im fed up with his crap, and i dont know what to do.. Please help!

2007-10-11 03:45:43 · 19 answers · asked by Tasha Jo 1