I like sex alot, and with different guys.i hang out with nothing but guys and there is one guy that i like soooo much, but we have been having problems. so i decided to meet one of the other guys that was at their house at a party one night and i always have sex on the first date and i like it, it feels great. but i overheard him tell one of my other guy friends that he 'hit it like a pinata' . Im nice to them and we have sex together, but i treat them nice, not like they are a piece of meat.I want to be friends with them also. but why do they have to be all macho, and laugh at me, it hurts my feelings/ .Even though im an easy woman ,is it possible for them to have feelings for me, or do guys not have feelings for women who give it up on the first date.I really dont know the word respect i guess. but i do know the words...I love sex....but i dont like being called a pinata. lol
2007-10-11 03:50:07 · 14 answers · asked by bonolarryedge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, Guys often misinterpret your hedonistic pursuit or benevolence to be your weakness exploited by them , and they pat their own backs for making you a fool. You have invited it by your behaviour. They think they have wooed you searlity to infection, relationship rtrauma dnd teenage preso well that you parted your legs on the first date. they will fail to understand that you LIKE it.
Sorry, but you have invited such humiliation by your lifestyle and behaviour, and exposing yourself unnecessarily to infection and relationship trauma.
As a grandma who have seen enough of life, I cannot endorse your lifestyle, as it will never NEVER get you find a fulfilling longstanding relationship. But it is YOUR life anyway.
2007-10-11 03:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by sexy grandmother 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because sex is something more than "feeling great", (obviously it isn't to you, but to the rest of the world.............)
Time and experience will show you that sex is an expression of love, you've used it as a throw away by confusing love for lust, ("I do it as ofter as possible, because it feels so good" is a paraphrase of part of your question). They are treating you how you treat yourself, sex has become a tool to feel good, so the guy was telling his friend, "it's a sure thing, go for it, no cost, no risk, she likes it so much, use her, she wants it".
My intentions aren't to be offensive, or to hurt your feelings, you did ask. But tell me if you think I'm wrong?
Sex is not for "feeling good", (that happens to be a wonderful by product that we all enjoy, Yes, everyone I know enjoys sex), but it's a Private thing, with ONE PERSON, (usually in a married relationship), EXCLUSIVE!!!
Has anyone told you of the consequences of mis-using this? (Disease, becoming a mommy?)
I know it seems impossible, even using protection it's not 100%, how many guys will have to be tested to find out who's the father? Have you considered you may have a serious pshcological problem, (nymphomania)?
Sorry
2007-10-11 03:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but you give it up on the first date so how can you be respected when you do not respect yourself? You obviously don't care who or what you sleep around with. Sure, sex is great. We all like it. But sex is more than just for fun. It is suppose to be about love and feelings and making love to someone really special to you. The way you are acting, you deserve whatever you are being called. I hope you straighten your life up before it is too late.
2007-10-11 04:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't respect girls that all their friends have had. They might like you for 30 minutes but when you've served your purpose they don't care about you. I bet they don't talk about their real girlfriends like that...And if you were hurt by that pinata comment, believe me, they've said worse things than that!
I'm not trying to be rude to you, I'm just telling it to you straight because you deserve better. I'm not saying never have sex again, but make sure the guy you do it with respects you and cares about you. You have to first respect yourself before anyone else will.
2007-10-11 04:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to get respect for giving it up on the first date! They don't think of you as a girlfriend...they think of you as a toy. You need to close your legs and try waiting until you are in love to have sex or at least until you have a boyfriend. I don't know any guy that would date a girl that sleeps around like that....especially with their friends.
2007-10-11 03:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So a Nympho speaks her mind. Of course there's nothing wrong with that unless you like to be the center of attention, which is exactly what you are doing, mind you, you're getting the WRONG attention, these guys have absolutely no respect for you or your feelings, to them you're an easy lay. Don't you know that men love a challenge? There's no challenge with you. "Hit it like a Pinata" would mean that he BANGED you good You have absolutely no respect for yourself, so why should men have give a crap how you feel? You're TRASH, live with the insults or change. I don't feel bad for you either. Ha! TRASH with a conscious, ain't that a hoot!
Get a life
2007-10-11 04:04:51 · answer #6 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have set your value very low. What man would want a woman of such little value? No matter what you may have heard or been told or seen in movies etc. men do not respect women who have no self-respect.
Your sexuality is a precious gift and you treat it like you are no more valuable than a tissue. This is very self-destructive and demeaning. You are far better than this. You must learn to love yourself if you want anyone else to love you.
Imagine that you had a new car. You let anyone who wants to, drive it. After a while, what to you think that car will look like? Most likely, it will be badly soiled, dented, scratched and have internal damage from abuse. Why? Because it had no real value to those who drove it. Now, offer to sell it to one of them. What do you think they will say?
You are a precious, unique person. You deserve far better than this.
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2007-10-11 04:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pinata...
WTF do you think? Do you have any parents? Did they not inform you of the consequences of doing dumb sh*t like that? You think somebody is gonna take you home to meet his momma? Honestly honey.... if you're going to be a HOE, do it outside of the area you live in! You're not a pinata, you're a dumb a s s smut. Sorry for the vulgarity, but you are nasty.
2007-10-11 03:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man i wudnt let them call you a pinata........your more a slag or slut.........possibly whore...........sex on the first date???? its not a date if the only talking is moaning and groaning you idiota......how bout you stop using your babymaker as a means to grab guys and grab a good one.......pendejo!!!
2007-10-11 03:57:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you're going to be treated this way,if you continue the way you are...
You have to be selective and make them work for it to gain respect first....
2007-10-11 03:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋