i did learn alot from this relationship but i could never imagine being friends/acquaintance with him....Even though we seemed like soul mates when we were together ...He turned out to be a fraud and a liar. I often wonder what i would say to him if i did see him again. Has anyone had a situation when you were so betrayed by someone and you came face to face with them again? how did you react?
2007-10-11 04:11:15 · 35 answers · asked by kakeydec 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES i know exactly what you are talking about. my ex turned out to be the same way to a fake and a liar. it seemed like he wanted to talk to me but i just didn't acknowledge him and tried to stay as calm as i could.he's the only one of my ex's that i have not remained friends with to.
2007-10-11 04:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by breee♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my first husband was an arsonist, I have no idea why they released from jail in the first place. My second is just a control freak about what I looked like. And my third husband is a recovered alcoholic that I felt sorry for, married, and soon discovered that his new way of taking out his feelings was to take it out on others.These were all bad experiences, but even the the bfs I broke up pleasantlly with I just don't want dealings with. I say let bygones be bygones. I suppose I am just not that nice.
2007-10-11 04:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've come face to face with the one person I never wanted to see. I had even moved as for there to be no way. Turns out he moved to the next town over. I freaked out the first time I saw him and just let the store. Since then I've been able to say hi and ask how things are.
*I know his current girlfriend and it helps knowing she is nothing great and he has made it known he lost out on something amazing by doing what he did...
2007-10-11 04:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Little Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt betrayed once. We just lost each other, no communication, nothing. But the relationship never really had a closure. I resolved then never again to make amends with him in this lifetime.
Many many years later we met again in the internet. We both have married, not to each other though. We talked and resolved our issues and we became good friends who truly care for each other. We have not yet met in person as we live many miles apart in different continents. But we both agreed to meet next year.
2007-10-11 04:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rhythm of the Falling Rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband left me for another woman after 6 months of marriage. At first I was devastated and couldn't sleep, eat or function. When I was done feeling sorry for myself I made a plan....I knew he wouldn't last with this new girl. He showed up on my doorstep one day.. I had lost a lot of weight and looked hot. He professed his love for me and to please take him back (did I mention he hadn't broken it off with this other girl yet, what fricking nerve!?). I reeled him in good for the next couple of weeks. I finally slept with him again. He assumed we were back together after that. He called and asked about our relationship. I told him that the sex wasn't what I had been used to since he left and told him I couldn't live the rest of my life with a man who couldn't perform very well in the bedroom. I then apologized and hung up. I got my revenge on a cheater who thought he was the greatest lover in the world and liked spreading it around. I really didn't sleep with anyone the year we weren't together, but I just had to hit him where it hurts! So! That is how I reacted when I saw my ex again!
2007-10-11 04:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Paula D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When that happens you should not aknowledge their existence,pretend you can't haven't seen them,if they approach you just say "Oh it's you" and just continue on your way.It shows you are stronger than before and you have no time in your life to listen to their bullshit anymore and you've moved on.Be strong if someone has hurt you, they will never be the same again they become an enemy,someone who never valued you in the first place,remember how you felt when he hurt you.Do you really want to pull at that thread again?He is an ex for a reason,there are good men out there who will treat you well.When you meet one,you'll kick yourself for wasting your life on such a loser. Believe me i've been there and now i have a great man,because i refuse to settle for less.
2007-10-11 04:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by jojo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I avoid seeing my ex as much as I can lol, for example if I'm going to buy a bottle for me and my frreinds I would go to a farther liquir store, I'm more aware when I'm around her way. So I never run into her, but if I did I would act like it's nothing, I'll talk to her but cut the convo short.
O yea and for the ppl on yahoo that are going to tell u to ignore them, u can do that if the ex doesn't say anything to u, but if they say hi or heyyyyy and u ignore them it pretty much shows ur still hurttttt and ur a little b*tch, beleive me don't ignore act as if they where nothing, and talk and leave
2007-10-11 04:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mike luc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a son with the one ex I wish I could never see again. our son will be 12 in December and after he gets out of school , I hope to never see his dad again, ever again. ( When he and I were together he cheated on me with my own cousin, besides countless others .) I am now in a relationship and my son's father makes drama with that. I don't want to rush my son growing up, but not seeing his father when he is grown will be a huge plus.
S1212, you and I have the same feelings, in the same boat!
2007-10-11 04:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by kellylee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care to see any of them. The last guy I was with, we were together for 7 years and engaged. If didn't work out...he was a jerk...I'm just sorry it took me so long to figure that out....anyway, he is married now to some chick that has two kids...and I hope I never run into them....it would be really weird.
2007-10-11 04:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no their was this one guy who i was in love with all through high school we did the whole flirty hang out kinda thing but we never dated, mainly because we were in totally different social circles but now looking back at it i'm glad i didn't and i don't think i could ever be his friend without changing who i am and that's not going to happen.
2007-10-11 04:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋