Singles & Dating - 21 August 2007

i was with my boyfreind who i have been dating a long time now but this is only the 6th time ive spent time with him but the 6hours went ok we held hands i lied on him he layed on me hugged ALOT its just then.. my freind told me he was going to kiss me before he left and im 15 and nvr have kissed a guy before so i didnt noe what to think. Then he tried to kiss me he gave me a hug and went for my lips and i ducked and like backed away and he tried agen and i just ducked it again.. and then hes like "sorry i havta do this" and he went for my lips again but i ducked! but he still got the little corner of my mouth but my eyes were open like it wasnt even a real kiss on the lips like WHATS RONG WITH ME how come i cant kiss him hes attractive but i feel like i dont wanna kiss him and NO IM NOT LEZ someone help me plzz

2007-08-21 11:35:49 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 11:33:25 · 5 answers · asked by Taz 2

I think he might be. He knows I have a boyfriend. Then he emailed me asking me if I had fun at the movies with my boyfriend over the weekend? It's odd because I hang out in areas he doesn't usually frequent because I know he lives an hour away. He always griped about gas prices and I was always the one to drive out to his place.

He says he often sees me driving on the freeway, or at the mall, and at the movies. I find that strange because I'm a people watcher and don't recall ever seeing him around me.

How else would he know I have a bf? Or that I was at the movies, or what movie I saw for that matter? It's really starting to freak me out. Is he stalking me? Should I get a restraining order?

2007-08-21 11:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I'm going out with this guy. And we've been going out for like two and a half months. We've never met in person. I've talked to him like four of five times on the phone. Other then that our relationship has been over AIM and e-mail. Hes sent me a couple pictures that he says are him but my friends keep saying that hes a total fake!

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2007-08-21 11:23:24 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need ways to make it so it is more fun! help me plz!

2007-08-21 11:23:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right now I can honestly say that alot of women find me attractive. I have muscles, I play division 1 college football, and handsome. There were girls who once teased me or laughed at me in high school when I was an overweight nerd. When I came back home from college they wanted to get with me I ignore them like they did not exist. Is this cool revenge?

2007-08-21 11:23:14 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was recently with this guy who was into choking me during sex. He left a bruise on my neck. Does anyone else think this is a little odd, or am i just naive?

2007-08-21 11:23:03 · 16 answers · asked by Lee B 3

2007-08-21 11:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Marella W 1

2007-08-21 11:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by Joseph R 2

I recently seperated from my partner of ten years, It was my decesion. I wanted some space as I was confused on what I wanted for the rest of my life. Well he went out a week later and met a girl and started seeing her. After a month of being with her we decided to work things out slowly, he said he loved me and the kids and that he was so happy to come back. He said he had to end it with this other girl first as she had fallen hard for him and he didnt want to hurt her. Me and my partner have been intimate for the last 6 weeks and he keeps promising that he is genuinly in love with me and cant wait blah blah blah. But he still hasnt told this other girl whats been going on. As far as she Is concerned, hes her boyfriend and thinks everything is just fine?? They were together 4 weeks when we decided to work things out again.. Its now 6 weeks later. What do I do?? Ive told him I cant handle it I want to leave for good If he cant do it. He says ok then, thats your decesion??

2007-08-21 10:59:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

You work as a clerk at store. A girl customer whom you've only spoken w/a couple times over the course of a year accuses you of secretly contacting her via IM.
Would you be angry and look away and ignore her? Would you be confused? Do guys automatically go on the defensive about an issue like this?
(If that happened to me as a girl, I would just think the guy were nuts but I wouldn't be angry)

2007-08-21 10:57:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

when its nothing wrong he's doing but just your own insecurities..

or could it be him?

I'm confused? why cnt I just believe him and behappy with how he's feeling? why do I always question his love in my head?!

2007-08-21 10:55:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

please keep in mind that i live in a small town with few luxuries

2007-08-21 10:50:03 · 4 answers · asked by eleshiak 2

You're into them. They're into you. You don't want anyone else. Things are great. The words I love you are on your lips, but you don't say them because you haven't known them for long.

How long does it take to fall in love?

2007-08-21 10:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by Teresa Dagger 3

Have you guys heard this expression of having "virgin lips?"
Its a new term for me but it basically means that a person never kisses someone and basically is saving their first kiss for their wife/husband on their wedding day. I'm in that position because I have never kissed a girl and I a male who is his mid 20's. I think it is something I would consider but I haven't come up with a definite answer to do it. I would like to know if other people are doing it and also what would you think if someone told you that they were giving their future spouse the gift of their first kiss. Saving themselves from physical relationships so that their spouse can be the first person to ever kiss them. Any thoughts?

2007-08-21 10:40:55 · 24 answers · asked by birdflg 1

me and my gf fight every time we get on the phone, we fight when we are togeter,
what i need to know is should i just let her go,
but we call each other all the time it is like we need each other, i am lost here, need help.

2007-08-21 10:28:40 · 24 answers · asked by cllns_nrmn 1

This guy that I like (we are both going through divorces) and I want to be friends with kissed and held me last weekend and I really liked it. We talked alot and I told him I wasn't ready for a serious relationship and he said he wasn't either but the body has needs. He'd like to be friends with benefits. No strings attached and no commitments right now. He said no pressure and that if it came to that (sex) it'd be cool but he would rather have me a friend then ruin it with a physical relationship. Do you think this could turn into something good after our divorces and our alone time is over? I really do like him and want him but I'm not sure this is the time. I would really like to get with him when all of this is said and done. I just don't want to scare him off. We both got married too young and need to do things we didn't when we were younger. Please help! What should I do?

2007-08-21 10:13:42 · 18 answers · asked by Lucky 2

A person who works with me has helped me a lot to get together my gears for travel...thus; I feel that I should invite him for lunch or diner. Would it be correct? Thanks for the answers.

2007-08-21 10:11:16 · 1 answers · asked by Casma 1

is it normal to be wanting to have sex with my boyfriend EVERY single night? i mean, we literally go every night, and sometimes in the middle of the day. one time we even had sex on an empty beach, then again in the bathroom on the plane on the way to my parents house. is that strange???

2007-08-21 10:10:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

plz help

2007-08-21 10:09:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently moved into a multicultral city, you see I moved out of the subarbs ,out of my moms house and out of my home town to a new city. I am 20 years old and didint realise how racist in the real world is.

experience 1, walked in the store and the asian store owner is looking at me like a hawk, he isint looking at any of his white coustomers or asian customers but his eyes ar fixed on me


experience 2, i worked at a jewish camp and some of the jewish people asked me if i have ever went to college or university and if i know how to fire guns,

experience 3, a black guy and a white girl holding hands down the street the dirty looks come flying and seem to come from every where.


have you experienced any of the situations i have experienced
and how did it make you feel

2007-08-21 10:06:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 10:03:45 · 40 answers · asked by NYBlonde06 1

My cousin keeps on getting her friends to ganging up on me, and that's all over family related buisness, she calls me a whore, when she's the one that wears see thru shirts! It isnt fair, and i have scratches, bruises, and end upp crying myself to sleep, tell wht to do, and y they keep on ganging up.

She was the one who started the fight, i just blocked her.
I know it doesnt blong here, but if i put it anywhere else, i wont get answers.

2007-08-21 10:00:18 · 14 answers · asked by Meh. 3

2007-08-21 09:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by Reo 5

Why do guys like going out with strippers??? They don't mind that they are all over all kinds of other men at there job... From what i've heard they are in to drugs and sell there body for extra money on the side? I went out with this guy and he was all proud that his ex was a stripper? That was a big turn off for me...

2007-08-21 09:53:51 · 19 answers · asked by No way! 2

2007-08-21 09:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by help! I need advice!! 1

MOST guys are better than girls when it comes to approaching and hitting on a desirable stranger. And until a relationship gets underway, guys usually are better at initiating sex. It'll be really nice when ALL girls get to be just as good at these two things as the guys are!

Studies have shown that the female sex drive is JUST as strong as the male one. It'll be great when society in general is clearly able to observe the evidence of it.

(And -- just as girls enjoy getting hit upon, most of the time, guys, too, find it DELIGHTFUL when girls act that same way toward them! **Really** delightful!!)

Back in the BAD ol' days, before the Sex Revolution of the '60s and '70s, much of society moronically criticized sexually-liberated girls and women. But it's the 21st century now, and -- fortunately! -- most such critics these days are very properly regarded to be laughingstocks & busybodies. So why aren't the gals, on average, as likely to be as openly assertive as the guys are?

2007-08-21 09:48:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have only made out once and he sad i needed practice what should i do???????

2007-08-21 09:45:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I prevent my girlfriend from seeing someone else? I am not sure if I am insecure. I just don't want to lose her.

2007-08-21 09:44:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 09:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous