2007-08-21 10:03:45 · 40 answers · asked by NYBlonde06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've never had sex and I told him I wouldn't be ready to have sex with him for a looong time.
2007-08-21 10:14:24 · update #1
he has alot of feelings for you and he dosent want to have the ( WAM DAM THANKA MAM ) sex with you. he wants to feel yhe love you and him share
2007-08-21 10:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've heard this line.
The two most likely situtations are:
As others said, he's in this for long-term, meaningless sex. He may mean he wants a hot partner to keep around for a long time, and invest very little time, energy, and money on dating.
It's easier than dating, and much cheaper than a hooker.
The other possibility is that he's in it for a long-term real relationship, and might be interested in marrying somebody soon. You might be a candidate.
To figure out the difference, look very hard at the way he treats you and the way he leaves you feeling, after you've seen him.
Pay less attention to his words than his actions.
2007-08-21 10:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he really like and respects you. When I had sex on the first date, I usually never had a second date. Just because I would think how many times has she done this?
So it was quick and meaningless for her also.
2007-08-21 10:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by pdarcy1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he IS looking for Quick Meaningless Sex..
2007-08-21 10:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he wants quick and meaningful sex?
That he wants meaningless sex, but it should last a while?
What is "this" anyway, your relationship?
Seriously though: call him on it.
Say, "ok" then don't have sex with him. If he sticks around for other stuff - like doing things together, going on dates, doing fun things (besides sex) etc. If this is a line he's using to get you into bed, then duh!
Actions speak louder than words.
2007-08-21 10:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Phil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be one of two things.
1. He's into meaningful relationships first that lead to romance.
2. He's saying what he thinks you want to hear.
Unfortunately, he's either telling the truth or he's lying.
If he's telling the truth, he's much less likely to cheat on you, because sex has meaning to him. And by meaning, I'm talking about his feelings aren't in his lap, they are in his heart.
He doesn't want to have sex with anyone who would give it to him, he wants a relationship before sex.
If he's lying, then he's a player of the worst kind.
You should be able to tell by talking to him which side of the woods he's from.
Good luck,
BaldTom
2007-08-21 10:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by BaldTom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is mature enough to know that after sex things change ..and he wants to get deeper emotionally than slam bam thank you mam. Unless YOU are looking for meaningless sex too, he may be worth hanging out with for a while.
2007-08-21 10:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on when he says it. If he says it before sex then he just wants the cheap meaningless sex if he says it after you have had sex then he probably means that he really wants to have a relationship with you.
2007-08-21 10:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kissafatbaby'sAss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything he says means he IS in it for quick meaningless sex unless he proves otherwise with actions.
2007-08-21 10:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to make you think he doesn't want quick, meaningless sex. But does he stare at your chest all the time?
2007-08-21 10:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, he IS in for quick meaningless sex. But there are exceptions to the rule. Not all of us are dorks and he may mean it. Use your discretion.
2007-08-21 10:07:11 · answer #11 · answered by blklightz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋