Singles & Dating - 21 August 2007

When I lost my virginity, I was in my Sophomore year in collede & trusted a so-called "friend", & she went & made a big issue about it & overexaggerated the situation, telling everyone I was raped, when it was 100% consentual. Also, they called the police & took me to the hospital. She called me nasty & said I was naive about the situation. & then it was publicized in the school newspaper. I felt so embarrassed that I had to resign for the rest of the semester & transfer to another university.

& the doctor at the hospital gave me a pap smear & he acted like he was upset with me & said, "You know, for everyone you sleep with, you've slept with everyone they've slept with for the past 10 yrs." But if it was my 1st time, how does that make me a whore?

2007-08-21 14:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious because that's what I'm doing now, I decided to go date and guy free last week and now I can't seem to keep them away from me. It's a little confusing so what's up with this?

2007-08-21 14:54:16 · 1 answers · asked by jamie kat 6

She said something to me. I froze up and said something dumb, I couldnt even look her in the eye when i said it. So I think she might of though i was ignoring her. (I did blush though when she asked me the ?). After that the whole day i would catch her looking at me and she would turn away fast. What do you guys think she thinks of my nervous breakdown when she asked me the ? Does she get the idea i like her or is she upset with me

18 we both know each other but not well. I really didnt mean to I just kind of froze up the last thing i want to do is hurt her

2007-08-21 14:39:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

his mom lives like 20 miles away from the school so y did he came back to MY school wen there is a couple streets down his moms house?
if you want the whole story:::
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjWauos0uTsEVIwu73MgbBfsy6IX?qid=20070821174800AA5wxje

2007-08-21 14:33:17 · 1 answers · asked by brownlocadia 2

2007-08-21 14:30:41 · 14 answers · asked by cidyah 7

I am serious. My guy is fanatical about NOT getting married, how do i get him to change his mind and in what suttle ways can i do or say things to persuade him to get over hiscommitmentphobia

2007-08-21 14:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by jen mcg 2

what dose it mean when your ex"s calls you and talks to you he said he got what i send him but i did that a while back it was a note to say sorry about my family they told him to stay away from me because they said he was trying to use me and was leading me on he told them i was grown and could talk to him if i wanted to they told him i had to do what they say i am 30years old was 29 when this happened what do you think that means he called me tonight and he said i could call when ever i wanted to and i told him same thing even throw my mom heats him just because he lied to me but i forgave him for that my mom liked him at frist until he lied to me help please dose it mean anything do you think he may want me back i sure would take him back thanks tell me the truth now please.i have tryed to get over him but i miss him alot we had alot in commed and i was happy with him could not wait for him to come around he wanted me to go to his house my mom said no because i did not know him well

2007-08-21 14:23:22 · 4 answers · asked by betty m 6

I love someone so much, but they claim they dont love me. But its obvious they do because of how they talk and how they say they love me. They believe they are fooling themselves. They have a crush on someone else, but i want to be with them. Im lost confused and feel so very alone. What do i do? I believe you can only love once, and i cant move on. Im lost. Please Help!

2007-08-21 14:17:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 14:17:45 · 3 answers · asked by sarah 1

my friends tell me that i cant flirt. the way i flirt is just talking to the guy and like laugh at his jokes, and smile and stuff like that. my friends tell me that i make it to obviouse that i like the guy. but i really dont kno any other way to flirt! so pllllzzzzz help me out!!

2007-08-21 14:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by chocochic101 1

2007-08-21 14:11:12 · 2 answers · asked by morning p 1

I went to my neighbors house yesterday and we hung out and talked for a while. We had been trying to hang out for a while. On the bus she asked me what i was doing that evening and i told her nothing, i asked the same question and she gave the same reply. I asked if she wanted to hang out for a while, she said yes, until her mom got home because she wasnt supposed to have anyone over. So i went over there and we sat on the couch and talked. She asked me a few questions about my dating life and asked if i'd ever kissed a girl( dumb question) but i thought it showed interest. When i left i asked if she wanted to give me a hug, she did but seemed apprehensive about it. She told me we would start hanging out every monday when i left. I don't know what to think, help me out.

2007-08-21 14:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by Manwtf 2

I just became friends with this guy about 3 weeks ago. We started hanging out a lot. He and some of his friends would come over to my apartment and we'd just chill and stuff. i was sure he liked me, after all we would both really flirt with each other.

Recently (past 3 nights) I've been hanging out with just him in his apartment watching TV at night. (we are both in preseason for soccer so that's about the only free time we have.) last night we were sitting on his couch laying on opposite sides so my ffet were by hi chest and his feet were by mine when all the sudden he takes them and gives me a foot massage . Keep in ming I'm a soccer player and my feet are gross.

But to my suprise he hasnt tried to kiss me or anything...WHY??

2007-08-21 13:58:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He seemed very interested, so when I became interested, he became scarce (although we work in the same building). Then, he seemed interested again and was asking me my work schedule so that we could talk "if I wanted to". However, this time, I acted less interested and told him that I was unsure of when I could talk with him (which is true because I am extremely busy) and now he seems hostile. What gives??

2007-08-21 13:54:50 · 7 answers · asked by traveller 3

why is this happening?! i just got in2 school and my crush who usually flirts around me is now purposely trying 2 embarass me and make me blush!!!! he mostly tries 2 embarass me when everybody is around and i dont know wat this means!!!! do guys think its cute when girls blush or sumthing?!

2007-08-21 13:53:02 · 15 answers · asked by iluvasia 3

I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago. We didn't end up fighting or anything but it was awkward and we don't talk to each other anymore. I just don't know what to do when we see each other when school starts. It's his birthday soon... What should I do? Should I congratulate him or should I just pretend I forgot? He hasn't done anything to be friends so I don't know if I should...No rude comments! Thanks!

2007-08-21 13:51:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is intercourse etiquette? Have you ever heard this phrase?

2007-08-21 13:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by Missy (aka: La Tigres) 5

There's this guy. The first time we saw each other we felt a strong connection. Whenever i was around him i always felt deja vu...i've actually dreamt of him and it came true. I've had other signs too related to him and it was freaky. Sometimes i cant imagine living without him.

Him too he's been feeling quite obsessed with me, barely talks on msn, but never ignores. Asked me out 3 times but declined cause i feel so comfortable around him that scares me so much...he's still a stranger to me. I feel like i've known him forever, althought we just met 3 mnths ago. Even after i declined, it was nothing to him he kept on talking to me like nothing happened. Whats going on?? How can I overcome my fear??
He didnt show his feelings, but he always looks like he's gonna faint around me. I'm soo nervous around him, fearing to loose him.

2007-08-21 13:41:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

They have boyfriend after boyfriend, some already on their second husbands. I am 32 and can't find a guy to show any interest. I am told all the time I am very attractive(although I don't feel like I am). Average size, not skinny, but not fat, long hair, good features. Always good hygiene, have a good personality, am smart, hard worker, don't act too desperate or look TOO hard.....why can't I find someone? Like I said, everyone I know has a boyfriend or a husband, some very unattractive, some attractive, some with horrible personalities some with good. Yes I am picky, but I went to a speed dating thing and got 0 matches, and only 3 out of 40 that said yes. Not even unattractive men were interested. My friend who is very plain got 14 matches. Nobody approaches me,nobody seems interested after we go out. Some like me at first glance but then lose interest. I stay positive, try not to put myself down, am a good listener. Could it be that they sense lack of self confidence?

2007-08-21 13:39:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend has a lot of friends that are guys and when she see's them she hugs them.. also whenever my best friend leaves to go to class or whatever he always asks my girlfriend for a hug. is this bad or anything to worry about?

2007-08-21 13:35:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 13:16:33 · 2 answers · asked by aurora546 1

Okay, so my first period class went to the computer lab. I got to a computer and this guy in my class sat in another seat leaving one seat between us. This was the first time any of us had set up our computer passwords for the year, so I got mine set up but I saw the guy two seats over keep looking at me and my computer screen. I got the internet set up for our class assignment when he came over and said,"can I work with you, my computer is not working." I said sure and we started to do the assignment. He only talked to give me the answers because he was going so fast. After that, I went on the website for our next assignment, and he looked at the screen and started reading his book. He didn't move back to his original place though. He looked uncomfortable the whole time. He kept moving around in his chair, and he looked like he wanted to say something but he never did. He looked slightly annoyed. At the very end of class, he got up to sit in a chair at the front.why did he pick me?

2007-08-21 13:14:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK so there is a guy that i really really like but he is very shy. he doesn't talk to me much and usually sounds uncomfortable when talking while i'm around, and doesn't make eye contact. Sometimes he'll linger in the same room i'm in, but won't say anything. Do you guys think he has feelings for me? Or do you think its coincidental, or thats how all guys act? sometimes i blow things out of porpotion, and i'm shy myself, so i'm not really sure what to do. any sugestions will help!! i don't want to make things any more akward! thanks!

2007-08-21 13:06:17 · 1 answers · asked by Kristen 1

Over and over i've been in so many it seems....
Everytime they start off so great then months go by then they dull out.........
but when i leave them i relize how much i love them...
but by then i relize what i have lost... and it's to late...
help me dont let this happen again im in one now and it's all dulling again what can i do? and advice, tips something im doing wrong? please help

2007-08-21 13:03:56 · 6 answers · asked by inuyasha403 2

Does anyone know who I can ask someone that I don;t know that much out online?I know its not that safe, but i know them enough, anyone???

2007-08-21 13:00:09 · 2 answers · asked by cougarsam456 1

my friends tell me im a bad flirt, so how do i become a good flirt??????? plz help me!!!

2007-08-21 12:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by chocochic101 1

am igoing to want to run into the streets in front of a bus. the reason im having thest is cuz my ex cheated on me several times and although i never had intercourse with him we got nakes and he rubbed his private down by mines for the last 5 yrs. and light french kissing. im just worried that he rubbed so hard maybe his pre fluid entered me. we must of done this at least 100 times.

2007-08-21 12:45:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 12:45:53 · 28 answers · asked by ivy 1

how can i show my boyfriend that i care....what i do is not enough for him....!!!! please help me!

2007-08-21 12:43:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

what r some things that you might do to hint to a girl that you like her. what r some signs that u give a girl, that u like her(txting her alot, long talks on the phone, etc.??)
do u just tell her flat out.

2007-08-21 12:42:41 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5