My b/f and I have been seeing each other for about 7 months now. When I met him he had just gotten out of a bad relationship.. Besides that, in the past he's been badly hurt by girls where he's been lied to and cheated on. I love him to death and he knows that I really care about him. I tell him all the time how special he is to me. One day he said he felt like no one loved him, and right before I was about to say that I loved him for the first time, he told that I better not be telling him that again. He said it takes a long time to realize you're in love with someone.
In addition to that, he’s mentioned to me before that he wants to make sure that the next relationship he gets into he does not want to be a failed one. He’s 32 and he knows he’s getting old and he wants kids very badly. He’s not a bad guy at all. He’s get along and he’s very sweet. He calls me everyday, and we spend time together all the time. He’s told me that he cares about me, and I’ve told him the same. I’ve given him letters saying how special he is to me, and how he makes me happy and that I want to make him happy as well. He’s even told me that he’s never had a girl like him as much as I do. For some reason though he’s afraid to commit to me. As much as he’ll deny it, it feels like he’s afraid that I’m going to hurt him like his past ex-girlfriends. My mom even thinks that he may be afraid of how much he likes me.
These are just few theories but I’m almost positive it seems like anymore he’s afraid of getting hurt. Can you guys tell me what you think of the situation and tell me what to do. I knew from the time I started talking to him that he was the one I wanted to marry. What do I do and say to let him know that I’m not going to hurt him, and make him realize that I really do love him?
2007-08-22
21:39:28
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