Singles & Dating - 22 August 2007

I have/had a crush on a guy at work. The thing is we used be close friends and I started liking him as more than a friend. I got the since that he liked me too since he always flirted with me and cracked jokes, etc. But, he has a gf in the Phillipines whom he is engaged to since I helped him get the ring for her. He only gets to go back there once every 2 years and I think we started experiencing sexual tension since we had a convo about doing it. I called him a dog since I thought he was comin on to me but then he denied he was serious bout it and said he was kidding. Iwrote a letter apologizing to him but then he started ignoring me. He said I should focus on someone else and it's best that we no longer be friends since I was too weird & obsessive. I emailed him saying that we were both wrong for talking about sex, he blamed me for being weird. i got mad and told him not to b my friend. He told me not email/talk 2 him unless work relatd. I'm ignorin him and he's not doing anything

2007-08-22 07:04:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

HE IS CHECKING AROUND FOR PLACES but has not found any everyday he begs for me to come back to him but i cant my friends tell me i am mad but i cant put him on the street cause we bought every thing together and when he eventually leaves he is not takin ant of the stuff what should i do and what is wrong with me

2007-08-22 07:01:16 · 43 answers · asked by ABBY 1

I posted a question a couple hours ago about how to makeout, & I did get some very helpful answers-thank you, but I need all the help I can get. Me & my friend figure that if you know all the wrong things to do, you won't do them, so if you don't do anything wrong, there's really no way to suck at making out, right?
This might sound crazy, sorry :P

2007-08-22 07:01:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy online for about 3-4 days now. but i added him to my s/n about 3 months ago. and i really enjoy talking to him, he's really nice. but here's the problem...we are four years apart. i'm 15 he's 19. And from what he's been telling me, he's like in love with me. is that even possible when we haven't even met? that brings me to the next thing. he want's to meet me. and i just dont know what to say to that. cause i know my parents would freak. 1. being he's four years older than me. and 2. being we met online. i don't know what i should feel. and if this is okay or not. helllp please and thank you :]

2007-08-22 06:57:14 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 06:49:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have fallen in love witgh a girl and she also claimed she loves me. I bought her a car although the amount was all I had in my savings and right after that she just left me.
what should I do now?
should i insist in my love feeling or should I get back the car somehow?

2007-08-22 06:45:25 · 2 answers · asked by prodigy73 1

2007-08-22 06:37:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please share your wisdom and experience of signs that a relationship is not going to work.....

2007-08-22 06:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 06:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have no desire to stop smoking unless i plan on having a child. My boyfriend of 2 years keeps demanding i stop just because he is not a smoker. In your opinion who is wrong in this situation?

2007-08-22 06:24:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ariel 5

I met this guy a year ago when he was bartending at the local bar,we seemed to have a connection,by the end of the night he asked for my number,i gave it to him and left to go to a friends house,he is also freinds with that person and found out I was there and came over,i ended up crashing on the couch and him on the floor,he drove me to my car the next morning.The past year I have gone in the bar about once a month and he sometimes gives me a hug,always says hello right away,usually is real flirty,and sometimes gives me free shots.he invited me over his place one night right before closing and i had to deny because i did not want to come across as an easy afterhours hookup.we are now myspace friends and i sent him a message asking him to get together sometime,he replied with okay and gave me his number to call,so i called and left a message,no return call but a myspace message two days later apologizing for missingthe call and that we will make plans later in the week.I did not reply.

2007-08-22 06:14:53 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1

I have heard before play hard to get but do you believe this is true? My husband and I have a very stale, boring relationship. We have been married 5 years and we have really lost interest in each other. Any tips of "playing hard to get" to get a spark back in our relationship?

2007-08-22 05:56:02 · 6 answers · asked by allie s 1

he has your number and still never calls you? but when he sees you he is all about you? why are guys like that?

2007-08-22 05:55:04 · 13 answers · asked by kelly k 1

I met this guy a year ago at the local bar where he bartends,we seemed to have a connection and by the end of the night he asked for my number,so i gave it to him and left to go to a friends house,he is also friends with that person and found out i was there and came over,i ended up crashing on the couch and him on the floor,he drove me to my car the next morning.For the past year I go in the bar about once a month,he will either give me a hug,say hello,give me a free shot,always flirty towards me.once when i was leaving he yelled'i love you'but i kept walking out.I dont want to be another girl to him that hangsout there.escpecially considering i gave him my number a year ago and he never used it,but yet he acts like he likes me when im around.He invited me over his place late one night right before he was getting off,i had to refuse because i dont want to seem like im easy to give it up,how do i get him to pursue me in taking me out besides the bar or afterhours at his place?

2007-08-22 05:52:04 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1

I am 5'3
a brunette
wears glasses
I am nice and caring.

2007-08-22 05:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by peace.live.love.laugh 4

It is always me sending the
e-mails and making the phone calls to my girlfriend. I always have to initiate everything. How do I know if she doesn't like me and just feels bad? it's kinda weird that she isn't putting effort into her half of the responsibilities that there is when being in a relationship.

2007-08-22 05:50:28 · 15 answers · asked by avalentin911 2

There is this guy who i've known for 2 years. He and i became best friends. After a while he started to like me and he then told me. I sort of like him. I like his personality a lot and hes truly is a wonderful guy. It's just in the past month and a half he has had two girlfriends. two girlfriends in less than 2 months is a lot. the things he tells me he hasn't told his other girl friends like you are beautiful, time stops beacuse of you and so on. during both of those relationships he has liked me.
He broke up with his second one last weeks and keeps on flirting with me. He and i click well. Yesterday we went out for lunch and he bought me roses. then last night he and i talked about his fantasies with me.
I overall sort of like him. there are just a few things i don't like about him. i really don't. and suggestions on what to decide?

2007-08-22 05:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-22 05:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by ZOI 1

good guys get overlooked all the time. Why is that?

2007-08-22 05:17:56 · 23 answers · asked by Sk8rboi 1

2007-08-22 04:53:19 · 11 answers · asked by Cady B 1

Does anyone have one of those? You know someone that you really would have liked to see where it would have gone but never got the chance. If so, what is your story?

2007-08-22 04:50:50 · 1 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

Girls: Just wondering what your opinion on Skinny Guys is. I am 21, 5'7'' 125lbs. I am totally aware that I am very skinny/slim. I have a fast metabolism making it extremely difficult for me to gain weight.

1. Do you view skinny guys as weak? Less of a man?

2. Would you have a skinny guy as a boyfriend?

3. What nationality/race and Age are you?
Thank you very much for your input.

2007-08-22 04:45:31 · 26 answers · asked by BerlingBurg 1

im eileen grace..

2007-08-22 04:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by lynch_ladyblue04 1

Im 32 hes 25 I look 25 and him 32 I feel 23 I look VERRY GOOD i still get carded for i.d. people think my daughter is my sister we're together EVERYDAY (i work from 8-5) we sleep in the same bed EVERY NIGHT if hes cheating its while im at work cause when i get off of work we are together from then on been together for 10 months I tell him i need sex and all and he still dont give it to me but he gets angry if he thinks ive played with myself (masturbated) I know im small but not that small 5'3"120-125 lbs. I have put on lingerie slept naked im all over him while we sleep i even gave him oral sex he doesnt even hold or cuddle me at night We have sex twice a month I know the sex is good when we do have it after we're done he always says "see it wouldn't be that good if we did it all the time If we space it out it will always seem like the first time." but DAMN twice a month come on now Im 32 and my sex drive is bigger than ever hes 25 where is his sex drive? WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM?

2007-08-22 04:34:23 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love going to afghan parties and wedding they are the most best and crazy fun!

2007-08-22 04:30:37 · 1 answers · asked by -->MaRiAm<-- 2

When she gives me a Brasilian she goes above and beyond the call of duty - thing is I love it. Is there any harm in this do you think?

2007-08-22 04:29:49 · 8 answers · asked by Sunset 3

My boyfriend and I have our 4 year anniversary today. I bought him some really expensive sporting tickets to something he has always wanted to go to all his life and has never been before. And I made him a dvd with our pictures and our song on it. I gave it to him the other day because I couldnt wait any longer. He promised me he was going to work an early shift so he could be off early to go out to eat. Hes still in the bed!!! And he has to be at work at 12 so that means he wont get off until late! Plus, he never buys me anything for special days. Birthdays...anniversarys...nothing. So I know I wont get anything today. Should I be pissed?

2007-08-22 04:29:13 · 17 answers · asked by ModelSmile 2

Men...I know most of you like to chase the Cat - (the women you are trying to pursue, or the ones you really like) if you do what is your game plan? Women v.s . Men- i'll tell you if you tell me!!!!

2007-08-22 04:28:51 · 1 answers · asked by J* 1

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years. I need advice on where to go from here. Problem is, we jointly own a home together, all our bank accounts, etc are in both our names, etc. etc. (We were on the way to getting married... ) How can I get over him and not walk away from OUR stuff that I have worked so hard to get too... Also, any tips to keep me busy so I can quit thinking about it!! Must be CHEAP things to do and perferably something my wonderful dog can join me in, as I don't want to leave her home everyday so I can go sit at the bar or whatever... Thanks for your help.

2007-08-22 04:27:16 · 9 answers · asked by Em 2

If you knew a guy while he was with his ex girlfriend and you knew for a fact he cheated on her multiple times (he is a bartender) would you believe he would cheat on you also? Or does it depend on the relationship itself, and what it ia lacking? Being a male bartender would also be tricky because you would have buzzed up woman flirting with you a lot, right? That would be har for a male to trun down night after night. Would you still give him a shot or no?

2007-08-22 04:26:40 · 9 answers · asked by kelly k 1