Singles & Dating - 26 August 2007

2007-08-26 23:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3

I really fancy this guy at work (leaving in a month though) but don't think he likes me. We chat about music and have lent him cd's. It is hard to talk at work coz of people listening in the staff room etc.. I bumped into him in a shop where he was buying his birthday wine to drink a glass of on his OWN, he didn't ask me along, I was hoping he would ask me, so I don't think he fancies me. My friend at work let it slip that I quite like him, but he still chats to me, doesn't seem uncomfertable. He mentioned to my friend that he bumped into me in the shop, if he didn't like me, he wouldn't have been talking about me would he?? Should I do anything else or just leave it. I'm worried that if I do anything else I will look like a stalker!!! He knows I like him, have chatted and flirted loads with him, now what else to do??!!! He sometimes seems in a rush to get away from me though but in the shop we chatted for a long time. Is he just shy or not interested??

2007-08-26 23:30:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my heart is breaking I need advice! I went out with a guy for seven months and when we broke up we hardly spoke but lately we've been really good friends again, for the past month and he's been acting like he used to when we dated. The other night we were staying at a friend's and we stayed together, and he was saying things to me all night, like really sweet things and the next day he asked if we were going to make anything out of it and I said I wasn't sure but I'd like to and he said he thought we shouldn't and I said if I'd known this I wouldn't have done it the other night, because I thought it was more than it was, and he got mad he was like '**** you stop messing with my head' and all this and he only started speaking to me again this morning and he's just been horrible and saying it's complicated and he can't explain it and I just don't understand I really don't. I've been crying since four yesterday afternoon and I said that and he said 'Don't give me that ****.'

2007-08-26 23:20:17 · 18 answers · asked by jsfkil 1

What do you look for in a girl/boy?
Appearance and personality-wise.

I'm not looking to change myself...I simply am interested in what you have to say.

2007-08-26 23:19:14 · 5 answers · asked by Bri 3

2007-08-26 23:01:02 · 15 answers · asked by angel 1

And how many of you ? Do you guys enjoy it ?
Specially for the girl, do you get bored if just spend time at home all the time ? Are you Ok with it, i mean do you complain to your bf/gf to ask you to go out ?

2007-08-26 22:57:26 · 16 answers · asked by AL 1

a ladys other set of lips which turn briter and fill with blood when excited....

therefore lipstick makes women look as though they are sexually excited to the opposite sex

2007-08-26 22:43:04 · 9 answers · asked by Learner 1

I apologized and sort of laughed that I was pathetic cause I didn't want her to think that I was always that terrible. I fought the urge but it just felt to good. She said not to worry about it. I still feel very akward about it.. Any advice?

2007-08-26 22:29:09 · 32 answers · asked by Terry A 2

to have a girl who gives you a kiss to wake you up every morning, have breakfast together in bed, sometimes make love in morning if have mood, kisses you before you go to work, keep the house clean & tidy, looks after the kids (if you want to have kids), prepare dinners for you, have a cup of coffee & watch TV together or have a walk after dinner, have great sex with you, never ask you to buy anything for her, what she wanted is your love.

She is a pretty & lovely virgin and has good personality. She has a good job but is willing to quit the job and stay at home if you want.

Is there anything you don't like or think not enough?

2007-08-26 22:07:10 · 18 answers · asked by Littlestar 3

i am between 12 and 15 is that good or not

2007-08-26 21:42:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Let's try this agian, Im reasking this question because I didnt seem to make myself direct or clear in any way at all.

I love myself, and Im amazingly self assured and know i can do just about anything. My parents dont support my dreams or goals so i do it myself, My friends say Im concieded, but not because i look at myself alot because i don't. They say it because Im completely sure that I can get any guy I want. Not that its hard, all a girl has to do is try. People ask If Im selfish, like could care less about anyone and everyone, but if i say what i want to do with my hard earned cash I sound fake, because i'd seriously love to help get some homeless off the streets, and help the cancer society. Why? Because I had cancer when I was 11, I had hodgkins. Why the homeless? Because Im tired of seeing them on the streets, its sad, and unsanitary, Im not lil miss princess, who wants to be perfect. But I'd like to make a name for myself, Im bent on making a name for myself

2007-08-26 21:30:57 · 6 answers · asked by ahblazamayes001 2

Basically I have an odd fetish in that I like to smell girls farts. Before I got into a relationship I would pay a woman to sit on my face and fart away.

Now I have a girlfriend it is more difficult as I don't want to cheat on her. I tried to compromise by entering the toilet after she had used it but I can't smell anything just air freshener...

To me it is the fact I find her attractive makes me want to sniff her farts I don't want to sniff anywomans butt gas you know. How can I approach asking her to do this? she wouldn't even need to sit on my face just let a few go in bed..... Thoughts?

2007-08-26 21:30:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

they are truly dumb?

2007-08-26 21:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by truth set free 1

I was seeing a guy who I would go down for the weekend to visit. I loved him and he knew it. He suggested we be friends as he couldn't stand my nagging and complaining....which I believe wasn't that bad. Anyway, I'd told him about a guy who came up to see me for the weekend, and told him that he took me shopping and for dinner etc.... A month later, which was a few days ago, he called me up and whilst we were on the phone he told me about an irish woman who came to see him over the weekend, whom he met on a weekend away. He was telling me that she didn't nag or complain and when he'd went upstairs for a nap, she would follow him up there and they would nap together - but I would complain at him napping for 3 hours whilst I was downstairs watching boring s***t on TV. Also he was stressing that she paid for her travel to go see him saying that shes an 'independent woman' - hence the fact that I got him to pay for my travel......what do you think he's playing at? telling me bout her?.....

2007-08-26 21:20:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

get mad its cute.i mean we get fustrated at them then they start laughing!

2007-08-26 21:17:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time my bf asks me to go to the beach with him he invites his brother and his friends.

He would say "come to the beach with me" and i would agree.. then later on he would say "oh by the way my brother and his friend r comin too"

Yesterday we went to see a movie and he msged his brother to see if he wnated to come along.

It annoys the hell out of me. I want to spend time with my bf without his brother or whoeever else there.

Am i overreacting? I don't really want to say anything to him.. I don't want to feel like I'm making him choose between me and his friends...
We have plenty of alone time togehter.. I would just like to be able to share things like movies and the beach with him aswell..

Am i being stupid?

2007-08-26 21:03:07 · 23 answers · asked by jeska102 1

2007-08-26 20:49:24 · 6 answers · asked by Rose 1

Tell me guys if 2 girls were at a club, which one would you approach or would you be attracted to? Skinny or Voluptuous ?

2007-08-26 19:58:11 · 21 answers · asked by rnwtn21 1

This guy gives me clues that he likes me but he turned into a mute after i told him I was in love with him. I am not stupid I told only after I knew he some feelings for me. He was a wierdo b4 i told him but he became more wierd after a told him he started to become like a mute. anybody knows whats up? I asked him what do you want me to do stay leave..and he won't answer me!

2007-08-26 19:21:08 · 1 answers · asked by kobeis_awesome 1

I left my husband of 17 years,because he cheated on me.I moved 600 miles away to my mothers.We were starting a new life together after getting off drugs we had moved to a new town,gotten a place&we both got good jobs&for the first time in a long time I felt like this was it.I thought we were really getting our life back&we were happy.Then after about 6 months I found out he was cheating.I stayed for about 3 weeeks& he was late getting home one day &I decided I didn't want to spend the rest of my life wondering if he was where he really said he was or if he was out f****** someone.So here I am almost 2 months later[I've seen him once] we talk everyday,I love him,he says he'll never do it again,but I don't trust him&I'm afraid I never will,but the thought of getting a divorce&cutting our ties is heartbreaking.Please help me!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-26 19:10:04 · 26 answers · asked by lisa m 1

I have been involved with my boyfriend for about 9 months in this on again off again relationship.
I want out now, but I have used all possible excuses and he still comes back; I even said I met someone else to no avail.
I stopped taking his calls, but he comes over. Neighbours think we are related .
Now I want out of my life for good.

2007-08-26 18:56:05 · 15 answers · asked by field mouse 2

act all sweet and then when you start dating them like the sweetness goes away and they act like jerks?

my bf use to be sweet all the time more before we started dating. now he is a jerk sometimes and hurts my feelings and i tell him and he's like im joking i love u..but why cant he just be sweet like it use to be?

2007-08-26 18:48:46 · 24 answers · asked by Rayray 5

my ex of almost 3 yrs dumped me a few wks ago and said he didn't love me anymore and I got upset and ran out the door he came runing to me telling me he was confused, that he does love me and can't live without me. We have makeup sex. now for the second time this monday he said he doesn't love me and doesn't care if were together. this was a shock because the week before we had sex and he told me how much he loved me. i cried and he sat on the phone yawning. i go to his college and give him his stuff and follow him to his house for mine, the whole time i bravely acted as though life was fine and he kept asking me how long and where i was staying and i blew him off by saying i dunno. and I left his house saying okay, bye. well the next night I just really needed to talk to him and of course i ruined it and got emotional showing him how upset i was and he tells me he doesn't love me like that, and that the last time he took me back he felt guiltly and that makeup sex was a bonus for him

2007-08-26 18:48:15 · 10 answers · asked by heartbroken</3 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years, and for the past 2 he's been having family problems and they're taking a tole on our relationship. He's stopped respecting me and my opinion isn't important to him. We're growing apart and theres nothing I can do to stop it. He knows he's being a jerk and he apologizes all the time. I want to be there for him but I feel like I cant handle being his personal punching bag when hes having a bad day. Should I leave him or just try a trial separation? Im so confused. HELP!

2007-08-26 18:32:46 · 14 answers · asked by Kate 2

He said I wasn't one of his best friends. He said that he might be one of my best friends, but I wasn't one of his best friends. I was somebody he could count on, but I wasn't one of his best friends.

So my question is
How does this happen? And how often?
Two people have totally different views of their friendship.
How did I get such a low status. He had told me he wanted to be as important to me as my best friend is. I gave him that status. One day he referred to me as his co-worker. How can he want me to elevate him to as big as my best female friend...but I don't get the same respect?

2007-08-26 18:24:45 · 1 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6

I was hanging out with my friends when i bumped into an ex date of mine. We then decided to go out for dinner. He kept telling me how much he missed me and stuff. He then sort of like forced me to kiss him and he slipped his hand into my top. I brushed it away and he said,'youre wearing a low cut top...can i touch u there?' I was extremly upset and i left the place immediately. I'm still upset abt what happened. :(

2007-08-26 18:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

.. got drunk and made out with a very attractive boy. Now I think I like him a bit.
But I know it was purely physical with him (I think.. he kept nudging me yesterday and kept trying to talk to me). What should I do?

2007-08-26 18:04:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

By beautiful I mean nice looking with a great personality. Some people told me that I'll be alone forever if I'm fat. Is that true?

2007-08-26 18:02:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-26 18:02:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

What defines a relationship? As opposed to 'companionship', and 'friends with benefits'. It's not all about sex and we're not seeing other people and not really looking, but we're not commited.
We had common friends and I'd met him a couple of times when he was looking for a date for his bro's wedding. I said i'd go with him. We had a great time and continued to see each other, but never in any official capacity. He said about a week in that he was not looking for a 'relationship'.
He's super busy with school and is kinda worried that he'll fail out and ruin his life cause he's almost 30, he's had his heart really broken 2 years ago, he's gonna move away to some work camp thing when he's done in 2 years. I slept with him right after the wedding cause i was real drunk.
We're going to be in school together soon. If we hang out at lunch, watch movies and sleep together for the next long time...what do we have? Is it a relationship by default?
Is this my fault? his?or is it cool?

2007-08-26 17:56:02 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous