I was seeing a guy who I would go down for the weekend to visit. I loved him and he knew it. He suggested we be friends as he couldn't stand my nagging and complaining....which I believe wasn't that bad. Anyway, I'd told him about a guy who came up to see me for the weekend, and told him that he took me shopping and for dinner etc.... A month later, which was a few days ago, he called me up and whilst we were on the phone he told me about an irish woman who came to see him over the weekend, whom he met on a weekend away. He was telling me that she didn't nag or complain and when he'd went upstairs for a nap, she would follow him up there and they would nap together - but I would complain at him napping for 3 hours whilst I was downstairs watching boring s***t on TV. Also he was stressing that she paid for her travel to go see him saying that shes an 'independent woman' - hence the fact that I got him to pay for my travel......what do you think he's playing at? telling me bout her?.....
2007-08-26 21:20:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After the call, I texted him saying "Why did you tell me bout that woman when you knew I loved you". He'd called pretty much soon after and was being really really lovely on the phone to me, he was saying things like "I will be in your life until you don't wanna speak to me anymore" & "You'll be in my life my a lifetime"......I don't get him, why do you even think he said that to me?"
Guys, does it seem he wants to be with me? I've known him 2years, that woman has known him a month!
2007-08-26 21:21:00 · update #1
drop that zero, and get yourself a hero!
2007-08-26 21:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK< couple fo things here.
First, didn't you start this? Wasn't it you taht mentioned another guy taking you out shopping and to dinner? What was he supposed to do? Mind you, I think it was pretty childish of him to send a story back your way if in fact it was done out of revenge.
Second, You sound like you already know you tend to nag a bit, and you already know it drives him nuts, why would you continue?
At thsi point he is trying to figure otu if he can tolerate the nagging for an extended period of time.
Ease up on the nagging, you might actually see a change in him just because of that.
2007-08-27 04:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you your self said it! He dosent want to hear you conplane. So stop nagging at him.Or he will find someone that dosent nagg at him. If you like this person so much then why are you buging him? and if you like him so much then take a nap with him .all you are doing is saying(hey i dont like the things you do or the way you do them)(but i love you?)you sound like a pain be glad he even still hangs out with you.
2007-08-27 04:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by imsotayken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get u upset just to make u jealous ///get rod of him if he continues to complain about u ask him why he is trying to hurt u y telling u all those things and ask him if he is trying to get rid of u and why is he so so worried if he did not pay for her visit ask him if he is interested in the other person if so move on cause other wise he is playing gamed with your feelings
2007-08-27 04:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit complaining, quit nagging. You may not believe it was that bad, but he obviously thinks it is.
Negativity is poison. Look for the good.
2007-08-27 04:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rainman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear man need comforts, and yes properbly he didnt wanna hear u nagging but guys really dont understand how boring it could be to see shiit on tv. perhaprs he though u r using his money but i guess u should take to money from him.
2007-08-27 04:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Minnalgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop complaining and you copied this from Victoria. Damn, you just copied and pasted............ I answered to the origional. Your sad, stealing another persons story is just tragic.
2007-08-27 04:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Grimm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just trying to make you jealous and upset.. He is definetly playing a game. certainly.. just dont worry about it and find someone else
2007-08-27 04:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by mryz2502stroke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋