Both my boyfried and I are working and am pregnant for him but he is insisting that I terminate it.?

Answer 1

Tell him that if he doesn't get on board with his pregnancy then you're going to "terminate" your relationship with him, and to be expecting to pay child support for the next 18 years! Tell him you weren't the only one there that conceived this child, so he can either be there with you and your SON or DAUGHTER and experience life, love, and happiness even in the hard times like a real man would do or he can go live his life somewhere else but the government WILL find him to pay child support.

That's the tough love route. But really, that's how you gotta do it if you want to keep your baby. Which is more important to you, a heartless man, or your baby?

Answer 2

I would break up with him an keep the baby, he may just be telling u this because he's not ready to be a father...if that is the case tell him that u are keeping the baby an he can choose when the time comes weither or not he wants to be in the childs life. if not then just let him go it will be hard rasing a baby on ur own but eventually u will find another guy that will not only love u but be willing to help u raise ur child an maybe even have more children with u

Answer 3

Termination is the easy way out and it's unfair to your unborn child; be responsible for your actions. If he does want to be around, once the child is born--that's on him. You won't be the only single mom in the world. Being able to conceive is a gift that not every woman gets to enjoy. Good Luck and I hope you make the right choice.

Answer 4

Swati read the question properly. She is not in an abusive relationship!

Sheesh some people! It's your body and you can do with it what you want but you do have a major decision to make.

You can either go ahead, have the baby and be a single mum or you can terminate and mourn not only the loss of a child but the loss of a relationship.

Answer 5

no man is worth killing your child for,if he is not ready to have a child that is not ur problem.u can raise ur child without a father so many kids out there grow up without a father so do the right thing don't terminate this pregnancy it is unfair to an innocent child and i am sure u don't want to terminate it,the reason u asking is the fact that u love your man and u were hoping that u can raise the child together,so forget abt him and concetrate on or pregnancy,everything will work out fine!

Answer 6

Oh shame on him, not much of a bf is he. i personally do not believe in termination yet respect others wish to do so. At the end of the day it is your body and your baby regardless of what he insists this is up to you no one should pressure you into feeling as if you must do something.

Make the best decision for you not him as he well sounds like he is not worth the ground he stands on. honey if it were me I would pack his bags for him and call as cab to see him off. Do what you believe is best for you and your baby, good luck darling.

Answer 7

i'm very much against abortion...remember you are killing a helpless and innocent life....and most especially it is your baby...a baby born out of your loving relationship....if your bf won't take responsibilities for his actions...it means he doesn't love you enough to be with you at this point in your life...knowing that is really painful...but you have to think about the baby and yourself...going through a pregnancy alone is difficult...but at least it will save you the guilt that you killed your own child...if you cant raise the baby on your own...put it up for adoption...there are so many childless couples out there who will take care of her...don't correct a wrong act with another wrong one...two wrongs can't make it right...

Answer 8

Tell him no, it's more of your decision anyway! You are the woman and what you say goes! And if he won't listen to that tell him I said If he was a big enough boy to lay down and make a decision, he should be man enough to stand up and follow through. You created a life, are you going to let him kill it because he is scared? Throw a tampon at him and tell him to man up for me! Bunk Pitch!

Answer 9

Repriortise ur life, its very painful n may take some years but to be in an abusive relationship is neither good for u nor for the child

Answer 10

What do you want to know exactly?

You're the one carrying the child. If you want it at all, keep it. It will be difficult to raise the child, but I'm sure you can find a way to make it work.