Singles & Dating - 28 August 2007

I need big help.
I thought i was in love [[Haha!!]] with this guy but last night i found out he's a cheater. thing is he didn't cheat on me.
...He cheated on his girlfriend, with me.
I found out from a reliable source that he hadn't broken up with his girlfriend so i told him i knew and he didn't deny it atall. he admitted it smugly and then just ignored all my calls and texts when i was trying to verbally kill him. lol.

Anyway today I'm seeing him today but just as ""friends"".

How do i get my payback...??

Need Help This Is Soooo Important xx

Cheers x

Nikki <3

2007-08-28 23:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

right i hang around with alot of lady freinds we all ways usually meet in a bar /club or somwere public there very very beutiful woman indeed and have dated one myself which we are now just freinds coz i ****** up the relationship, apparantly although thats in the past what i would like to know is .

i was told by my lady freinds that woman only hang around guys which are very good looking and attractive in public is any of it true i took it as a compliment but i meen is that actually a true statment or is it a load of crap

2007-08-28 23:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by GG 1

ok guys...heres the deal...im 22, smart, well educated, cute, & many have told me that im really beautiful...the thing is whenevr a cute guy approaches me, tries to talk or smth im like literally shaking! i dunno what happens to me, it must be Me geting really shy & my hands just shake!
it also happened to me when i met my bfs for the first time, or when i go to a blind date...thats normal i guess, but when u r at the mall, & some1 approaches me or act all cute, i get so anxious & i dont think thats normal...whys that? even at school when i meet a new guy i get that anxiety! although i was brought up in a very healthy environment & my parents didnt raise me to be like that whatsoever!
it the sexy guys syndrome? what can i do?

2007-08-28 23:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been broken up for a while, but i've had the worst time since, going out with some real losers, and I was talking to him for a long time about everything, and he really made me feel better, i know now he's the best guy out there, how can I let him know that, breaing up was a mistake, I want him back

2007-08-28 23:36:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this woman for 2 months and at the beginning the e-mails were flowing in from her and now she is not emailing me anymore as much. It was always her sending the first email and then I respond. Is this normal? We still see each other 3 or 4 times a week.

2007-08-28 23:35:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

actually i am going to be married in few day but i am really afraid to have sex i mean does it hurt or its kinda enjoying thing to do.what usually happens on the first night of marriage.can girls have sex durning periods or it is forbidded

2007-08-28 23:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question Details: i know about it, i see it on these questions on yahoo and they talk about liking someone who dosent like them for YEARS. some even claim 6 years or more. What would posess someone to do that? I mean, if you didnt have a relationship how could they waste their time for that long with their mind on one person?

2007-08-28 23:33:38 · 12 answers · asked by broz215 5

I have been in a relationship with a really great guy for about a month and a half. In the beginning we really clicked and I was realy happy and into him. Now, although it has only been over a month, I feel like it is not really going much further. I am having my doubts whether I am ready for a relationship, especially one where the sparks have stopped flying already. Do you think I am being impatient and should give the relationship a fighting chance, or should I get out and end it before either of us gets too attached?

2007-08-28 23:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by Liv 1

I'm thinking male body hair here, to be more specific. Hairy chest good to run your fingers through or gross? - you decide.

Please note: The questioner wishes it to be known that there is nothing implied or inferred in the above, as to his current body grooming regime.

2007-08-28 23:29:12 · 34 answers · asked by Frankie Baby 2

2007-08-28 23:26:46 · 20 answers · asked by The Asker 4

my man asked me to go to the strip club the other day , and once in a while he will ask to go with his friends and i jus feel like if he needs to go see other women i aint enough for him is that true i don't know

2007-08-28 23:25:43 · 12 answers · asked by a529 1

2007-08-28 23:21:00 · 10 answers · asked by Sugar_Flip 1

i am confused right now if I'm going to follow my heart what wants or not. We met each other in chat and so far we're doing good and we're planning to move forward; he can't come in my country because of some problems cause his dad is ill and very old to travel and he can't his dad alone because there's no other person can watch and take care of his dad so we planned I'm the one to go in his place just to meet him in person. We are more than 1 and 1/2 that knew each other and we keep our communication daily. Our age gap is 17 years actually i am confused if i am going there to see him and if it fine to marry a man who is older than the girl. i do really love him but is it really love or infatuation? Guys i want to know what can all you say about age gap...

2007-08-28 23:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

You find out that the man you have been 'dating' online for about 3 months was chatting with you and another 'female' at the same time. He wrote you a message completely irrelevant to the course of your conversatioin at the time and it was addressed to a female.
Although not too personal in nature but nevertheless, it's apparent that he knew her well enough to want to share something with 'her'. Would you dump his sorry a**?
He texts three times immediately afterwords first pretending to be 'surprised' by my reaction to 'our' conversation - which he repeated - but, . . .without that 'line' that was sent to me ( by mistake ) with the 'other' woman which only confirms my doubts.
Second text: " I love you and want you to be my life partner and I am happy and contented with our relationship. Do not throw away everything that's between us, for no apparent reason.
Third text:" I beg you to reconsider if you intend to leave me, because it's not fair; at least answer my call(s)"- all 3

2007-08-28 23:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by nutcracker 2

Right now you have told of your turn offs, but what about what turns you on in a man!!!

2007-08-28 22:56:18 · 18 answers · asked by Rich 3

Okay so me personally, I'm tired of the typical and over-used stuff when it comes to dating. I like to make a good impression on first meetings and I've done a lot of stuff differently when it came to the first date. I even took a girl out for painball once!
That rawked.
Now though I seem to be running out of ideas.
What would you suggest as a day 1, other than the standard "care to join me for a coffee?"

2007-08-28 22:47:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 22:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by Rajabu H 1

What is your biggest turn off in a man, now be honest?

2007-08-28 22:44:02 · 24 answers · asked by Rich 3

2007-08-28 22:40:52 · 12 answers · asked by No use for a name! 2

If you get regected by a co worker when you ask them out how do you approach them if you need their help on a work project and can your social life with them ever recover if their still acting like their in 7th grade and ignoring you?

2007-08-28 22:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by rawfodog 1

2007-08-28 22:40:09 · 15 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3

There is a guy who has just started at work, and I cannot work out whether he is being friendly, or is interested?

He sends me emails, which seem to be kind of flirty, but when i see him never says much to me, and he is not particulary shy either.

Am I reading too much into it? x

2007-08-28 22:30:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it when women are young, they tend to be attracted to the effeminate "pretty boys" like Zac Effron and Jesse McCartney, but when they get older, their taste changes to older , "more "rugged", less "girly-looking" men like George Clooney, Brad Pitt, and Harrison Ford (who is pushing 70). Why this change in taste and what causes it?

2007-08-28 22:26:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I txt my fella last night to see if he wanted to come around and he txt me back and said no and I asked him what was wrong and he replied I ain't accountable.If I say l can't get, then I cant't get. I will be intouch.

2007-08-28 21:45:47 · 32 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3

This question is directed to the guys, though girls' responses are also appreciated. Whenever my crush notices me looking at him, he looks away. This happens about once or twice a day in a 40-min. period. We don't really know each other, but see each other in the halls often. Could it be because he likes me too, and is nervous, or is it more likely that he looks away because he's weirded out?

2007-08-28 20:58:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anita 5

2007-08-28 20:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by honey 5

I was thinking of letting go... what if I had would he be where I am now... wanting me more than I want him?

Why does regretion hurt so much? How can someon that was so into you suddenly change his mind in hours, keep you waiting a week before telling you not to call.

I want to SCREAM what did I do, talk to me. But I haven't heard his voice in 9 days when he left my apartment with me one Monday morning.

2007-08-28 20:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by duuh 4

I'm asking this question regarding a very close friend of mine. She likes the guy she is with who treats her much better than her ex and she knows he loves her, but she doesn't feel the same kind of love for him. She thinks it may be partly because she's still getting over her ex (they broke up 2 years ago). Will she love him eventually? She wants to break up and give it a shot with other men, but doesn't know if its the right decision because the guy is really good to her.

2007-08-28 20:23:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 20:22:00 · 8 answers · asked by teena 1

In relation to a previous question of mine, my girlfriend (whom I love) has been with many guys for her age. She's 20 and has been with 14 guys, none of which were real relationships that lasted more than a month. A bunch were one night stands.

I see sex as something special to share with someone you love, and it seems to me that the more random "sexcapades" you have had, the less special it will be when you find someone you love.

So my question is, from a woman's point of view, does sex with multiple people change the specialness of it? If it does, how?

On a more selfish note, that just has to do with my insecurities from being such a hopeless romantic, do your experiences with these past partners pop into your head when your with your current partner? Do you compare him with your past ones? What about during sex? I feel guilty asking these ?'s, but I want to know.

2007-08-28 20:04:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous