Singles & Dating - 28 August 2007

my boyfriend constantly thinks ive cheated on him and i talk to other guys and i dont at all i have completely cut out everybody in my life for him so he can trust me again i understand his reasons ive been promiscious in the past and yes i have cheated on bfs in my past but that was my past and with him he doesnt give me reasons to cheat.. i went to india for about 3 months and my dad past away and i vowed to change and not be the person i was in the past and now im older and i know i was stupid back then and that person isnt me and i never wanna be that person again, but now he thinks im cheating on him and i tried talking to him but he wont listen and all we do is fight and im tired of it cuz im the one crying and going crazy but ive been 100% loyal to him this entire time and he still accuses me how can i prove to him that i havent cheated? is taking a lie detector test a good idea? all i want is for him to trust me and believe in me that ive changed how do i do that please help

2007-08-28 12:25:02 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been going out with this girl for a month now, but she doesn't live near me. We talk every single night on the phone for endless hours usually, but recently her family has been getting really really annoyed by it. Also, she can only call me past 9 because her cell phone plan sucks.

School is starting for both of us in a few days, and staying up late talking to her every night isn't really gonna fly with either of our parents. I've heard of like these little things that are made specifically for texting, and you don't need a plan for them. I think that this MIGHT help us so that her mom doesn't know that we're up late talking, and so that she doesn't keep her little sister up all night talking on the phone. But, I was wondering if anyone knew of any other ways of communicating that are like this.

Also, I wanted to know like ways of coping with a long distance relationship....because with school starting so soon I'm not gonna be able to focus or deal with this

2007-08-28 12:13:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 12:13:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

wtf. ok i see when i look at the questions there is this girl who is 17 and is dating a 22 year old and she wanted to know if this is wrong! well on one response she got it said age is just a nuber it also said it doesnt matter what the age difference is it only matters if you are truely in love! im 12 and my boyfriend is 17 now do you people think that **** is wrong? i mean for a 12 year old to be dating a 17 yeaar old?

2007-08-28 11:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 11:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by Liberal City 6

Again this evening I'm sat on the fence. I can see both sides of a delicate argument. Clearly in the case of rape then it's no, so don't state the obvious. Where do you sit on this one?

2007-08-28 11:38:47 · 97 answers · asked by Stripper 3

ok, guys, have you ever left a girl you were dating for another girl, and what were the circumstances?

I'm wondering what are the chances that a guy I like leaves his girl for me:) seriously..he flirts with me whenever we meet, I'm sure he likes me, and knows I like him back..but I'm in fear of looking like a desperate idiot if I make a direct move..
please give me some advise:)

2007-08-28 11:36:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my girlfriend have been dating almost 11 months now, and she recently came out and told me that she got raped 8 months ago, but kept it a secret, out of fear of how him, me, and my parents would react.

now, she's acting like it just happened a week ago, depressed, crying alot, and now she's considering dropping out of school because she cant deal with the stress.

I feel like I ruined her life by getting her to tell the truth. I also feel like its my fault because I might've been able to stop her from being alone with the guy. I'm helping her as best I can through this, but it's kind of effecting me too. whenever I get idle, i cant help but think about/imagine it.

I just have so much bottled up inside right now. I cant talk to her mom because she's abusive, cant talk to my parents about it, its too late to go to the cops, and I dont want to throw my life away by killing him myself.

What can I do to help her more, while coping with it myself?

2007-08-28 11:21:38 · 33 answers · asked by Han 2

I've asked this to myself...and ive come to the conclusion that i dont have much experience in this lol..so what is it for u grls..?

2007-08-28 11:16:07 · 4 answers · asked by *Cali Sweetie* 3

im going out with a girl but dont like her friends and i dont wont to haning around with them wot should i do

2007-08-28 11:11:41 · 18 answers · asked by adam w 1

2007-08-28 11:10:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, if I lost weight, would I get more attention from men?

2007-08-28 11:08:30 · 10 answers · asked by Liberal City 6

and that I lack common courtesy and am uneducated. Hmmm. That's a lot for a girl to take in on one hit. Does anyone else have anything to add? Are people really that offended by strippers?

2007-08-28 11:06:33 · 29 answers · asked by Stripper 3

My boyfriend is very into the sensual/love making thing. Slow, easy, and very gentle. How do I get him to play a little rougher with out hurting his feelings?

2007-08-28 11:02:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 10:57:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . A single person has to like living without women, and I HATE not having a girlfriend ! I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .

2007-08-28 10:56:47 · 4 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3

to tease your partner at night

2007-08-28 10:56:07 · 3 answers · asked by ryan_meyer2323 1

My boyfriend and I seem to be so happy together. It's been about 6 months and we are totally in love.

Here's my question...

He has been looking for a new job which will require him to relocate. Every time I tell him to stay close to home so he will be near me and he says -every time- "or you could move with me". I think he is serious. He isn't the type to lead me on and say things that are sweet but he doesn't mean. I would move with him, no doubt, but...the question....when you move in with someone or something like this situation do you think it would be more normal to get married first or what? I would be afraid that if I moved with him he would feel off the hook from marrying me.

What do you think???

2007-08-28 10:51:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

do we ever think it could be love, and its not? and why is feelings so strong if its not love?

2007-08-28 10:37:24 · 6 answers · asked by Josh's Girl 4

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and its starting to put a damper on everything. We are starting to get in stupid little fights etc..and theres always the jealousy issue. I DO trust him, or I wouldnt even be in a LDR, I just miss the day to day contact of having a boyfriend. We do care about each other a lot and talk on the phone for hours each night. I am going to visit him in a week and hes coming out here 3 weeks after I get back. About a week ago he brought up the idea of him moving here to be with me. The only thing that really sucks is that he has to make a decision in about a month(because he would have to transfer schools), which is making him feel really pressured. He said last night that he really wants to make this work and he thinks the only way it will is if he moves. He said hes 99% sure he wants to, he just wants to make sure its the right decision,and that hes worried about the little fights weve been having. Do u think he'll end up moving?

2007-08-28 10:26:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I admit that i AM slightly overweight. I've taken the "It's not what's outside that counts, but inside" phrase to the test, i've failed miserably. I'd just like to know what percentage of women are attracted to chubby guys.

2007-08-28 10:18:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 13, in 8th grade. so theres this guy, i thought he was cute last year, but i never really liked him a lot. this year when i saw him some reason i like him a lot, this weekend i spent most of the time thinking about him. but heres the thing, i never was sure if he had feelings for me. and this year a new girl came and she and my group of friends became really good friens. but on the second day of school she told us she liked him the gossip got to him so he knows. now when he looks at my table its hard to tell if hes looking at me, or her. nothing really did happen between him and me. we havent even talked to each other. but idk its confusing. and no one knows i like him cuz if i tell they might say im coppieng my friend. What are your opinions? how do i become his friend?(cuz i really do want to) but i only take one class w/ him and its only twice or three times a week , and one week its pe then the next week its health

2007-08-28 10:15:10 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 3

ok so my gf broke up with me about a month ago. im positive theres no chance of us getting back together so thats not an issue. so i just have a couple ?'s for the masses to answer.

why when i go out, im looking over my shoulder for her like shes going to appear out of nowhere?........she dont even live near me.

why do i have thoughts about her and i know we are done? no chance of a get together. it is what it is, i should just let it go. but i just find myself having random thoughts about her whenever.

also, why when i go anywhere i find myself comparing other women to her? in my mind im always like, "she aint nothing compared to her", "shes better looking". u know the usual stuff.

why do i have thoughts like this?..........opinions please.

thank you

2007-08-28 10:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by btk200569 2

OK, I have been with someone for 15 months now and we have never met. He has been sick with cancer and his best friend has been taking care of him 24/7. I live in CA and they live in VA, we met through a mutual friend. Yes we love eachother if you are wondering, Matthew and I that is. Well, his best friend J keeps telling me that he is the one for me but doesn't really have a reason as to why. I love them both deeply and am so confused. I'm thinking his friend loves me cause I am the only girl in his life....remember he takes care of Matthew all day and doesn't get out much at all. My question is this....should I give J a chance or is he just wanting me cause besides Matthew I'm all he has?????????

2007-08-28 10:12:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 10:01:11 · 5 answers · asked by William G 1

tell this guy that I like him. I am very shy, so please don't just say to go up to him & tell him. I don't really talk to him (like I never talk to him, lol), so it would just be weird. I mean should I like just start talking to him or what? I did catch him looking at me today in Biology, but I looked away really quickly cuz, like I said, I am really shy. What does that mean? I don't really know about stuff like this cuz I have never had a boyfriend & I am a freshman, so I really would like to have one, especially this guy cuz I have liked him for a while. Please help, thanks ♥

2007-08-28 09:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by CARULZ1590 2

2007-08-28 09:58:09 · 7 answers · asked by preety girl 1

i work with this man... we are both attracted to each other.,.. but i just cant do it... i think if he was to make a move.. i would sleep with him..honestly i dont want or expect a relationship.. just really to fool around.. please help my lusting heart...

2007-08-28 09:48:55 · 34 answers · asked by shejam6 2

We had a mutual breakup where we both decided to move on but it still hurts. Any tips for getting over it?

2007-08-28 09:48:24 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious what you think would be a great opening line to use on someone you see walking on the street?

2007-08-28 09:48:22 · 20 answers · asked by Steve C 7