If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . A single person has to like living without women, and I HATE not having a girlfriend ! I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .
2007-08-28 10:56:47 · 4 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have that attitude, then you will probably remain single.
I think that most women are attracted to someone who already has a full life, and could live without her if he really wanted to, but he doesn't.
No one wants to date someone who seems desperate, and no one is flattered if she thinks that you are going out with her simply because you have no other friends, and you have nothing else to do.
Find a hobby, go to the library, take a dance class (usually the ratio of guys to girls in these classes is in favor of the guys by a long shot), join a softball league at the local Recreation Center, take a pottery class, sign up for a martial arts school, exercise, or check the Internet or paper for free local events. Get a life, enjoy your free time, and you will find it easier to get a girl.
2007-08-28 11:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, my friend im right there with ya, i dont do drugs, no idea what bars are, im not into sex with anyone besides the girl i will love, and alcohol is just stupid. So well you may not see it now but what is left is A. a wonderous relationship with true meaning in the future B. security that you wont be cheated on C.Truthfullness and innocents with your wife D.Being able to see past those who blind themselves with false love. And E. You can make what you wana make outta life untill you find her.
Well have fun and realize you will win in the long run. Just dont do anything you will regret.. or you'll... well.. regret it lol..
2007-08-28 18:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by neohnecrosis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While being single isn't my preference either, I find a great deal of freedom in finding my own inner knowing, beliefs, preferences, and ways to improve. I know that I could hook-up easily enough but I will wait for the right guy and the right time rather than making another mistake. I believe that it is true, to have the best, BE the best, so I spend this time being the best of who I am, and becoming better every day.
2007-08-28 18:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K.I'm female but I'll answer anyway.lol.
It has its drawbacks but for the most part its ok.I'd like to have a friend but not at the expence of risking them cheating,or hurting my youngin.Then I would have to kick his ...... .Anyway.
You pretty much describe me above.But I'm a real card(from what my friends tell me)outdoorsy tomboy type,love to horse around and joke.So theres life outside the bars.Just have to know who to spend it with.
2007-08-28 18:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋