tell this guy that I like him. I am very shy, so please don't just say to go up to him & tell him. I don't really talk to him (like I never talk to him, lol), so it would just be weird. I mean should I like just start talking to him or what? I did catch him looking at me today in Biology, but I looked away really quickly cuz, like I said, I am really shy. What does that mean? I don't really know about stuff like this cuz I have never had a boyfriend & I am a freshman, so I really would like to have one, especially this guy cuz I have liked him for a while. Please help, thanks ♥
2007-08-28 09:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by CARULZ1590 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try flirting in his direction, just show him your best curves and get him to talk to you. Act all innocent and try and look your best. Get some mutual friend to introduce you.
2007-08-28 10:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he looks at you .. do your best flirting with him since your too shy to even talk to him. You should forget the guy thing, stay in your school studies and go far... you need not worry about guys right now.
2007-08-28 17:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by leapfrog44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If you like him you should tell him, But first make sure he don't have a girl friend or boyfriend, Then start slow, Try being his friend first, Usually the ones that start out as friends end up going out together stay together, But don't be in hurry your only in 9th grade and you have your whole life ahead of you, Make sure he has what you want in that special someone, make you a list of what you want in that special someone, dont let them see it of course, And dont jsut go out with anyone because you want someone, andnever put out its not worth it your only 9th grade. ask your self am i going to marrie him. Good Luck I wish I was in 9th grade again.
2007-08-28 17:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by lynnrr38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first- why do you like him? you never even talked to him so i doubt you know much about his personality.
secondly- its not when he looked at you its how many times!
seriously u caught him once looking at you...think about all the people you just looked at for like 3 seconds in class and then they noticed you looking at them. ya see? could be nothing.
third(ly?)- you cant just tell a guy you never talked to that you like him. yea sometimes that works but the sure fire way is to get to know him, its you're responsible to get to know him hopefully a project or whatever.
fourth(ly?)- when and if you want to tell him the best ways are (at that age anyways) :
1- give him a note (not great because i know you'll be afraid that he turns out not to like you then laugh at your note + show all his friends to laugh at, but you never know)
2- get a friend to tell him~! thats how many...many girls do today. because 1- you dont have too (easier on you) 2- you're friend would probably REALLY want too because you know how girls are, we're in love with love and gossip
(best choice is #2)
fifth(ly)- get over you're shyness. sooner or later you'll have too.
oh oh and if you keep looking at him and showing "hints" that you like him (everyone knows if you catch someone looking at you a lot! that he/she possibly likes you)
another way to hint it is smiling at him or looking away when you both have eye contact and hiding you're face.
2007-08-28 17:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by mylan-sama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so really you have to start talking to him that is the first step. a converstaion here and there works wonders. if you catch him staring at you again remember he was looking at you too so smile and then look down, trust me on that, it works. but don't tell him that you like him yet, be friends first
2007-08-28 17:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u hang out with him ever? i hear guys like seeing girls doing things like simply having fun with her friends, laughing, talking, stuff like that. dont make it too obvious you like him, but get his attention. do the typical flipping your hair and smiling thing, make eye contact and give him a cute little smirk. and definately look your best around him!!
2007-08-28 17:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wink at him, smile, show your teeth, wear a ponytail and rub your neck having practiced it in a mirror lift your chest at the same time,i hope he's an A student
2007-08-28 18:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to crash on him or smth u dun have why to be that shy. if u can get his attention and make like he hurt u a lil bit u can just talk to him say thanks and stuff and then just say hi everytime u c him..lol good luck:P
2007-08-28 17:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by crazygal15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop a couple love bombs, flirting, wear a skirt and walk over a street vent so it blows upward :) or sexual stuff like that. guys love it!
2007-08-28 17:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by sk8a_hata 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have a friend tell him. thats one of the best ways
2007-08-28 17:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by taylor l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋