So, if I lost weight, would I get more attention from men?
2007-08-28 11:08:30 · 10 answers · asked by Liberal City 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, sweetheart, you are beautiful no doubt, and most guys i know love beautiful women regardless of size, besides, alot of guys i know, including myself, like thicker women. Who wants a stick figure....I like curves and thickness, and with your face, I cant understand why you aren't getting attention from men, maybe they just are intimidated to approach you, be yourself and don't worry about all that weight stuff unless you just really want to for yourself, stay up.
2007-08-28 12:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well if you lost weight then I wouldnt pay you any attention. I suggest you visit some websites geared towards African-American BBWs(big beautiful women). There are plenty of men who love big women! You have to separate yourself from those skinny girls and really know that there are men out there who only date, sleep with and marry big women. Stop thinking that you have to look like a Top Model or a movie star, because in reality there are a lot of men who love a girl with meat on her bones!
Professor you are wrong, all women are different and have different preferences and the same are with men. He's is right tho, if you really like a guy the best thing to do is to let him know first, thats a gaurantee winner, unless hes really not interested or turned on then you know he's not the one and you can move on.
2007-08-28 18:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by dnrage 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You might, but the right guy will love you regardless. Do it for yourself, because you respect and like yourself. And yes, the guys will give you attention. Rather than "weight" loss, I prefer to think of it as "fitness." A fit person is naturally healthier and will have a higher quality of life, whether hooked up with a guy or not. A fit person has a better body image. A fit person has more fun buying and wearing sexy clothes.
2007-08-28 18:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You'd get more attention from typical men. OTOH, some of us, like dnrage, will be less likely to notice you. Many guys have a 'type' they're particularly attracted to - sterotypically, 'thin' is part of it, but lots of us break with the stereotype.
IMX, though, Love doesn't care what your type is.
2007-08-28 19:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by B.Kevorkian 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's almost a gurauntee but there are still some guys that like bigger girls. You just have to find the one for you. If you want to lose weight do it for yourself and your health. Not for attention from guys.
2007-08-28 18:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
that's not true.Men feel attracted to fat women too.But if u lost weight the attention would get bigger.
2007-08-28 18:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by WalkTheLine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are happy why try to please any one else. if some one loves you they will love you for who you are. i'm no spring chicken and have changed somewhat over the years but my husband still loves me as much today (if not more) as he did when we first met!!
be happy within yourself and be confident in who you are and people will love you regardless. remember the old sayin' never judge a book by it's cover! that is some thing to live by in every day life!
2007-08-29 09:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by TA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you look at guys which ones catch your eye. We know the answer. It is the tall white guy that is slim or has a 6 pack, and had a bad boy look.
Well the same concept is true when guys look a women. They are looking for a woman that looks sexy, a little skin showing, a Small tattoo, but no big tramp stamps - they are out!
But to get around that Here is the Secrets and you can't loose:
Remember when your dealing with guys, you have to let them know that your interested in them. You have to draw big bold red line for them, because we are usually shy and it kills us to make a move on a girl. Reject!!! So make it easy for him, do the little things and the big things...
2007-08-28 18:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
well yes, sexual attention but not real attention. You see the reason why most guys dont like fat women is because alot of them have a bad attitude to them. I personally dont have a problem with fat girls it just alot of them are mean and bitter.
2007-08-28 18:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by neohnecrosis 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
if it boosts ur confidence, go for it =]
i wouldnt say that u would get more attention, but u would be more secure when conversating and all the other stuf like that...trust me...i was in the same situation.....mine is still worse, even now..good luck and god bless =]
2007-08-28 18:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by ill make music to you 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋