Singles & Dating - 28 August 2007

Ive been dating my bf, for more than a month. within the first couple weeks he had already cheated. Ive given him another chance and its been going fine. until lately. hes been acting strange. he talked to his ex for an hour last night on the phone. when he barely talks to me for 15 minutes on the phone..when we do talk. He says there's nothing between them...well..He has a lot of 'friends' that are girls..and i joke..but now i wonder. There are just alot of signs. He is stand off-ish lately. and i feel like hes going to break up with me. His reply to this was that he just was tired and cranky..and that hes never felt like breaking up with me.ever. and said that he wouldn't for a while. He always says that he's been brutely honest with me(when he told me he cheated)
so why would he stop now?
I dont know what to do. my insticts say that hes distancing himself and that he will break up with me soon. but then when i talk to him..its all smooth talkin and i start to beleive him.

2007-08-28 17:08:06 · 12 answers · asked by mranda34 2

My g/f and I currently live 1100 miles apart; we both have kids and other family things to deal with at the holidays, and although I do PLAN to be moved closer to her my Christmas, there's no guarantees it will happen by then.
Any good ideas for gifts? Let's assume we'll be together; what sort of cool gifts are appropriate for a first Christmas together? If it helps, she's 36 and has been divorced about a year. She's into the Dresden Dolls, Evanescence, Plain White T's, Alice in Wonderland, agnosticism and questioning authority, Happy Bunny, reading in a WIDE variety of subjects, and anti-authoritarianism.

2007-08-28 16:53:48 · 5 answers · asked by Bryce 7

I found porn advertisements in my boyfriend's email. At first I thought that they were just spam, but then I found some that confirmed his registration or whatever, and it gave his username and password. I logged onto the website and found some very disturbing things about him. We are in a heterosexual relationship, but I found that his "favorite videos" included both gay and straight porn. He also uploaded very flamboyant pornographic pictures of himself. In addition to this, I saw comments left by him to another male user suggesting that they should get together. We've been in a relationship for 1.5 years already, and I don't know what to do. How do I confront him about me finding this stuff? He's told me before that he doesn't mind me going through his email because he's got nothing to hide, but I still don't like the idea of him thinking I'm snooping on him. PLEASE HELP!

2007-08-28 16:50:58 · 24 answers · asked by anon 1

I'm back in a relationship with my daughter's father, we got a new place together under the impression he would be paying his part. Well, now I'm getting ready to go back to school and I'm scared he won't help more. He hasn't been paying his half of all the bills and rent. He hasn't put money towards the food bill so by the end of the month we are almost out of food to the point that my mother has to give me food. My electircity is getting ready to be cut off and when I ask him for money for the bill he gives me excuses as to why he can't. I end up having to pick up the slack for what he's not doing. I was doing it on my own without him I can do it again. He says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. So why isn't he showing me. I know I should just get rid of him but that's easier said than done. What should I do in the mean time? Someone help and don't just be judgemental.

2007-08-28 16:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by LaLa 1

2007-08-28 16:40:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 16:38:06 · 10 answers · asked by gwenfan113 2

im positive i still love my boyfriend but he stoped liking me because i was depressed and he felt bad because he couldnt make me happy...and we broke up and now im not sure what to do....help please

2007-08-28 16:27:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were going out with a guy, and found out he had six-pack abs, would that gross you out? I've heard a lot of girls say they don't like them. Would that be something that would make you consider dumping him?

2007-08-28 16:26:27 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 16:23:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 16:18:07 · 1 answers · asked by FRENQUIAZIOD F 1

tired to join an organization not too long ago, an organization I had longed to be a part of,and got accepted, but didn't go on to fully become a member :( I know bummer.Well anyways, so a few months go by and I meet this guy, I mean he's handome, smart, a prominent leader, but he was three years younger than I plus he happened to be the brother and best friend of one of the members of the the organiztion I almost joined. We started talking, and there was some chemistry, but not enough to feel like I wanted to be in a relationship with him,(if you catch my drift)so he starts calling me late hours of the night, he invited me over, we got drunk, and had sex, I felt some guilt but we talked it over and he assured me that there was nothing to feel guilty about, he wasn't involved with anyone in the organization and everything between us would be only between us, so a few months go by, and we really didn't talk that much but we hooked up again, and I called him, he called me afterwards

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(sorry for the long details) but yeah we were talking and I told him that I didn't want anyone to know about our sexual realtionship, I told him this because I didn't want people to think that I was a **** and put me in that category, and plus I told him that I might want to one day try to rejoin again, and he was like well, we do have a relationship, and in the midst of everything he was accusing me of playing on his phone, and all this stuff, but yet we got intimate, and we talked that night and he told me he thought I try to hard, and he started playing footsies, but then a few weeks goes by and I call to see if I left something at his house and he gets upset and tells me to never call him again and he'll tell everyone about our relationship, so now when I run into him, he doesn't speak, and the members sort of shun me as well,my question did I do anything wrong in your opinion and should I rejoin even though I might run into the same people, and why do you think he acted the way?

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58 minutes ago
What was really crazy...is the fact that after he threatened me and told me not too call him anymore, his best friend calls me out the clear blue asking me to come to one of his events..and I'm thinking oh yeah" somthing is up..

2007-08-28 16:17:24 · 3 answers · asked by Peaches N'Creme 1

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5ykhjef

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4v7w60h

i think the engraving on the outside and inside is cute.

Would it be okay for a promise ring for him?
maybe a diff engraving but something similar

2007-08-28 16:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rayray 5

im so open with her about everything this is the only subject thats vague what should i do. im nervous i hate lying to her ive been lying for the past year! help

2007-08-28 16:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my buddy went to a party got really drunk passed out and he smelt baby making juice on his face can he press charges if he finds the guy because that is wrong , my buddy is an a hole he dose diss girls sleep with other guys girlfriends, but this was very mean what do u think

2007-08-28 16:05:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 mths. and I really love him, and we have talked about sex alot, and we both are only 14.....but I am still a virgin and he's not, and he has been talking about how he wants to have a baby by me, so do you think that I should wait or wat??

2007-08-28 15:58:35 · 56 answers · asked by Shan_Shan 1

I understand (even though it doesn't make me happy) that guys look at hot girls all the time even if they're with their girlfriend or even if they just have a girlfriend. But what does that mean - exactly? Like, I know I would look at a hot celebrity crush if he walked by but I wouldn't think like "Damn...I'd definitely ditch my guy and date HIM!" Do you guys think like that? If a hot girl walked by would you say, "She's hotter - even hotter than my girlfriend, I think I'll dump my girlfriend because there are CLEARLY hotter girls out there!"?

Another question, I've heard a lot of guys say they don't do serious relationships and some think marriage is stupid. Is it possible that there are actually guys out there that won't give in to a serious relationship ever and keep moving from one girl to another? Can guys really, really like one girl only (non-married/engaged obviously) and only want to be with her - ONLY?

2007-08-28 15:51:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i only find myself attracted to people who are the same race as me, and im find with that, but does that mean i'm racist?

2007-08-28 15:43:25 · 16 answers · asked by alexandra<3 1

2007-08-28 15:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have two little girls is that something that makes guys run the other way?

2007-08-28 15:38:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked my ex boyfriend to be my friend today and he said okay. I thought it was a good idea since both of us have the same best friend, and he told us how akward it was to have me on one side and my ex on the other and having two conversations. It wasn't a really bad breakup, were both in high school, and neither of us have other relationships so no risk of jealousy. We were each others first loves and it was a very short but sweet 4 month relationship. Given this it seems like a waste to lose a perfectly good friend. So is this a good or bad thing. Seems some people might think against it...

2007-08-28 15:37:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

why

2007-08-28 15:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by L'expressif 1

I think we are begining to like each other a lot. Younger by eight years - is that too young?

2007-08-28 15:28:28 · 27 answers · asked by sweethoney 2

If a guy has a certain preference as far as race, but ends up dating one who isn't his preference... as far as race, should his girlfriend feel a little insecure?

2007-08-28 15:27:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need cologne and I don't know what to get, I've gotten pretty good with Fierce and Very Sexy...what else do you guys love to smell on a guy?

2007-08-28 15:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by -Detroit- 3

One week we were talking about marriage & Family then three days later we had a silly arguemnt & he says he doesnt know what he wants and he isnt happy. He says he still loves me but is not happy and needed to stay away from the house for a while. he was gone for a day staying with his dad when he came home he said he was still confused and just needed another night to think and he would be back the next day. He never came home and didnt answer my phone calls or called. its all so confusing we have been together for 6.5 years and from one day to the next its over. we have a home together and i am going to move out tomomorow i dont know what to do i love him so much but he obviously doesnt care anymore cause he hasnt even called. this is just not like him at all so I have been confused and heartbroken. why did he do this? Was he scared or could he really fall out of love from one day to the next? I miss him so much but feel pathetic cause he hasnt called meaning he doesnt miss me,right?

2007-08-28 15:17:58 · 25 answers · asked by TexasGirl 1

I've been holding off sex for a while because I wanted to know how to please the girl rather than please myself- but I still don't get it. LADIES! Please, tell me from personal experience what worked for you and what didn't. What are some good positions and good foreplay techniques? I really want to give this girl the night of her life- really blow her mind so that she'll always remember me as "the guy noones ever come close to", so I really need some tips and pointers. Please! All comments appreciated! Except the sarcastic ones.

2007-08-28 15:16:59 · 21 answers · asked by TheJasonProject 1

I'm just curious lol cause i get alot of flirts and stuff and wonder what it is they like

2007-08-28 15:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by Alex 1

2007-08-28 14:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a dirty blonde, and I'm very skinny. Why do guys not seem to like blondes anymore? And I'm 14. So, I can't die my hair darker, as I would look very pale with anything darker. So, am I wrong or what. What do you guys like?

2007-08-28 14:41:41 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole. 3

So I work with a boy, and I really like him. I'm almost positive this boy knows I'm interested in him.. for example when doing something i do to him to someone else, he made a comment; "oh she's doing that, she likes you".. etc. And I'm frustrated because I really like this boy, and clearly he's not into me or else you'd think he would have already made a move or something. And he's always flirting back to me and is so nice.. it's like he knows, doesn't want, but likes to play. It really sucks.. I want him to be my boyfriend but don't see it ever actually happening.. and I try to just ignore my feelings but just can't. Do you have any good advice for me?.. ie) how to find out discreetly how he truly feels... how to move on.. how to "make" him want to be my boyfriend...etc.
Thanks!
I will vote best answer for the best answer!

2007-08-28 14:38:59 · 0 answers · asked by candita 1