Singles & Dating - 28 August 2007

I've been dating this person for a month. and i recently checked his text messeges without his permission. i found out that his ex kept on sending nastie sexual comments. i was so hurt. (i know i shouldn't check his phone without his permission)
He caught me doing so. What should i do? i know he's upset!he hasn't called me as of yet! =( And i feel so bad. what should i do??

2007-08-28 04:47:08 · 4 answers · asked by james 1

i acted like a total idiot..judge
after class he wanted to walk me to my car but i would act so stupid and act nervously and say "no..no..go that way your car is over there..no i dont want you to walk that much..ahhh...well ok" but i would like say it so dumb..all the time every time he tried to walk me somewhere and then i called him and he would sound sleepy or something and i would go "oh nooo im so so sorry i woke you up i'll call you later ok? byeeee" and i wouldnt even let him answer...like an idiot! or he would call and ask something about class and then i'd make a long boring conversation just to keep him on the line but i think thats why he stopped calling me... i just messed this up...right???

2007-08-28 04:44:41 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 04:43:29 · 23 answers · asked by lostworldforever 1

I got into deep conversations with this guy and he said the following things (he told me if I ever told anyone he'd be so mad at me but I have to know):

1. I'm afraid I'm going to get attached to you as more than a friend.

2. I'm afraid I'm falling in love with you. I can't do that.

3. I don't want to open up to you. If I don't close myself off completely to you you're that girl I'll tell everything to and regret it later.

4. I can't have feelings for you. I just can't.

5. I don't like how I feel about you right now. It must be wishful thinking because there is no way logically speaking that I can feel this way in this little time.

6. I'm afraid if I take a chance with you one of us will get hurt, but I'm also afraid if I pass it up I'll be making the biggest mistake of my life.

7. This can't go anywhere. I won't let it.




I really care about this guy, pleaz give me advice on how to handle him.

2007-08-28 04:40:26 · 9 answers · asked by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2

In And Out The House

2007-08-28 04:39:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

"the greatest lesson learned is to love and be loved back"

my bf wrote this in his myspace but i dont get what it means...
(dont ask me to ask him because i cant)

but it DOES NOT mean he is not loved back, im very sure of that.
apart from this...what do you think??

2007-08-28 04:38:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up two days ago. He stilll loves me and we still communicate with each other...It wasn't really on bad terms. I think some of it was contributed to my actions while around him. I think he got tired of the ways that I behaved. I had made changes before the break up but we had a arguement and that is when he broke it off...I am willing to make changes because those changes will be good for me, rather or not he and I get back together..but I love him and am willing to do what it takes to have a successful relationship with him. Should I give him some time or should I still communicate with him so that he can see the changes I have made in my life?

2007-08-28 04:36:01 · 16 answers · asked by amack00 2

2007-08-28 04:35:15 · 21 answers · asked by Ryan I 1

wot if you were one of the last people on Earth, who would you want for company, and where would you be?

2007-08-28 04:32:57 · 15 answers · asked by lostworldforever 1

ok my boyfriend and I talked ok on saturday, but on sunday he didn't call me at all I would call him up and all i would was the ringing thing ok then I called him back at 11 at night and I would just get his voicemail yesterday called him and heard ringing he got me a cell phone and it was working till yesterday at 8 he suspended it....I don't know if that counts as canceling....because if he did wouldn't it say "sorry but this number is not a working number?" well I was worried so I talked to his cuz and his mom, but they wouldn't get a reach of him...i called his mom and she answered her house phone and asked her if she know's whats up with him she kinda sounded like if she did know, but she told me not worry he will come around he needs to cool off....oh and before all of this on sunday he always plays baseball and this past sunday there was no game at all....so I don't know what to think he just stoped calling me..didn't brake up didn't give me any reasons!!! What should I think??

2007-08-28 04:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 04:24:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to date this girl, she was super uber hot, but then dumped all of a sudden. Everybody says i was too nice to her. Then I received advice from a player-pimp-womanizer type of guy, he told me If i treat a girl like crap, she will love me for it. IT REALLY WORKS!!!! :) Im dating a super hot hot girl now, I answer her calls when i want to, i yell at for no reason, but i will never lay a hand on her, cuz shes mah baby. Basically im an ****** to her, but she keeps coming back for more loving. Lol women can be dumb sometimes, and yes i have come to believe that nice guys do finish last. So i am just askin if this advice works out there for you guys?

2007-08-28 04:23:28 · 18 answers · asked by xcuriousjorgex 1

What's even more strange is that my bf had a dream of his past. A girl was trying to take him away from me, and he kept saying no.

In my dream his xgf (who used to be a best friend of mine) took him away from me.

I keep having dreams like this. She'll be kissing him in front of me and he's willingly kissing her back. I'll push her away and hold on to him and he's like a rag doll he won't do anything to hold her back.

Why am I dreaming about the past?
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Lemme provide you with a little history. I've known my boyfriend 8 years. He and I went out for a few months in high school and we broke up when I went off to college. My best friend went out with him after me.

Now 5 years later, he's out of the Army. We've been together 3 months now. We're inseperable, always spending time with one another. Let's just say we are very much apart of each other's lives, and plan to get married in the next year.

2007-08-28 04:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been going out for 5 years and we were supposed to talk about how our relationship needs to be improved and he completely stopped talking to me, this has never happened before. I used to not pick up for him for weeks when I was mad at him, but he's never done this to me. We had plans to talk on Wednesday so it has been a week since we talked. I called him 4 times throughout the week and I left a message asking him to call me back on Sunday. He still hasn't. Do you think he's over me?

2007-08-28 04:21:50 · 10 answers · asked by JTOdapizzLE 4

2007-08-28 04:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by mitch m 1

Hey Ive liked this gal for the past 4 years we have been good friends but we just tease each other alot as in hell alot and she likes stepping on my toes......
then i played truth or dare and found out she likes some chinese named bastard but have nt met him for like 2 years and running.......
I dont know what to do.... somtimes she come over on mons and fris and im going to join her tennis lessons on sats....
i realy like her... i tried to get over it but i just cant!!
She invites me over to her birthday every year and starting from this im gonna invite her EVERY YEAR!!!
is she the one for me?? or izznt she.... WHAT SHOULD I DO!!
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im losing it.................................

2007-08-28 04:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

One that takes more than an hour to drive to?
One that takes more than half an hour to drive to?
One that you cannot see someone on a regular basis?

Just out of curiosity...

2007-08-28 04:09:33 · 11 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5

And I mean really over, not just when you started dating again, because that doesn't mean you're over it.Just when you got over the person who you've had the most meaningful relationship with to the point where it didn't affect you and you really thought to yourself 'Wow, it is better now."

2007-08-28 04:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is my teacher flirting with me?!?

1. At school in geography my male teacher opened the door to let us in the room and i was stood with my friends and as we walked in i looked at him and said 'hi' and he nodded his head and winked at the same time and said 'hi' to me, i smiled at him and he smiled back.

2. Me and my friends were stood in the dinner line and my male technology teacher walked past and he nodded his head and winked at the same time and smiled at mme so i smiled back.

I do like them a lot - they are very good teachers, but are they trying to flirt with me or something?!?
What are they trying to mean? Whats happening? lol

I do get along very well with these two teachers and i am very good at those subjects. I am 13 and slightly confused. I would never do anything stupid with them because i know the consiquences and what would happen if i did, so i wouldnt do anything stupid.
Thanks for your help..x

2007-08-28 04:03:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’ve liked this girl for some time now, and it was recently her birthday and I went beyond what normal people would do (like write on her myspace blog) and I sent her an ecard. She wished me happy bday 3 times (text/wall/free gift) so I thought this would be okay. I haven’t told her directly I like her but she did tell me few months ago that she just wanted to hang out as friends, but even then I sometimes got the feeling she may be interested, even a tad…or it was friendly. I rarely see her.

I sent her a great ecard for birthday last week but I haven’t heard from her, and I think she is ignoring me now due to this action. I heard actions speak louder than words, is it real bad that she knows that I most likely like her now? Some people tell me if she never knows you may regret it later. Thanks.

Ps we went 1 month without talking before her birthday so its not like I’m ‘chasing’ her like I’m obsessed, I’m just attracted to her personality.

2007-08-28 03:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy but he lives like two states away from me. I think about an 8hr car ride away from where I live. I don't have his e-mail (I want it) and I only get to see him once a year? But I want his e-mail now! Will I have to wait?

2007-08-28 03:52:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 03:50:40 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

She wanted to have sex with me but I refuse I'm waiting on the woman that I will marry. Am I wrong for that?

2007-08-28 03:50:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this girl for a few months. She's funny, very nice, pretty, in general just amazing. Some people (Kittana) may already know my situation, but the problem is, she has a bf, and her bf is my cousin...albeit, distant cousin...I am still not sure how we're related. When I first met her, I didn't know she was going out with him...in fact, I didn't even realize he was my cousin at the time.

We talk on the phone or on MSN for hours everyday. She's stated that she wants something more, but I can't bring myself to hurt my cousin...blood being what it is. So we're had the "I like our friendship now, lets not change things" talk about 3 times in the past month.

I really do like her...but again today I told her that I just want to be friends (lie). So what do you think is going to happen to this little triangle? Someone is going to get hurt aren't they? I've tried not picking up her calls, then she's all teary eyed, thinking I am mad at her; and I can't stand to see her sad.

2007-08-28 03:50:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy, about a week later we went out, talked on the phone about 2 times after the date. Then about the 3rd day aft. He text me & asked me for a hug. He said he needed a hug cuzz he was homesick I said well least you have a new friend he says does my new friend give hugs(to persistant) Now I have come to the practice of not being physical early or talking about it.. I told him that he says he understands but i have not heard from him why not!!! Has he not called cause i made a big deal out of nonthing?? Or he was slowly trying to get in my pants??

2007-08-28 03:50:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 03:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by Mariah♥ 3

It happened in the heat of battle, as well it happened at 4:30 in the morning.
I worked in a bar and had to stop a fight.
All anyone wanted was for the fighting to stop, (so that we could all go home). I was extremely tired and dead on my feet, and the last thing I needed was some fight starting.
So, I Rabbit Punched him, and it was easy (and a little bit fun too.)
Now, I have to live with him coming in all the time and calling me names like "dipshit" and saying "Only one per customer", or, "wait till I get you alone", or "wait till 5:00", ....it is so tiresome.
I even told him if he wasn't careful I'd "do it again". So now he comes in everyday and says I'm gonna get it.
And the funniest thing is : get this.... since then, one of his eyes is more open than the other, now, since that fight. He is in a band poster and looks like that, on there, too.
(Did I really do that? I don't think so, because I only hit the back of his head, not the front.)

2007-08-28 03:45:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have plans to move over there and i want to make some friends, any body mind?

2007-08-28 03:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a junior in High School. I have 2 longtime friends. Ive been great friends with both of them since childhood. Let me tell you about the first one. I've known her sine I was like 2. We've always been great friends. In the 8th grade we kinda talked about ogin out, but that was the 8th grade. We've both grown up alot since then, and I'm and she is both lookin for something serious. She says she likes me alot, but she also likes this other guy, too. She can't make up her mind, but I think i'm slowyl winning her over, this morning she gave me one of her cheerleading pics to keep in my wallet.

The other girl
I've known since I was 5. We have always been great friends, last summer , I fell in love with her. She said she didnt want to mess up a good thing, ( or friendship), and she said she hadn't thought of me like that. So its now a year later, and I still like her, but I know right now I can't have her. Were' really close, and litterally like best friends.

2007-08-28 03:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by robinson z 1

I keep thinking of my ex- and it dosent help at all. Im still in love with him but he was not serious with me, which was why i decided on the breaking up. I still cannot forget him and i still miss him... is this bugging or is it because i still love him? how do i get rid of it? >.<

2007-08-28 03:38:09 · 15 answers · asked by Eslaena G. 2