I'm asking this question regarding a very close friend of mine. She likes the guy she is with who treats her much better than her ex and she knows he loves her, but she doesn't feel the same kind of love for him. She thinks it may be partly because she's still getting over her ex (they broke up 2 years ago). Will she love him eventually? She wants to break up and give it a shot with other men, but doesn't know if its the right decision because the guy is really good to her.
2007-08-28 20:23:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ih he's really good to her, she should reward him with the truth. She's wasting his time and he's using him just because he's a nice guy. Tell your friend to be good to him by telling the truth.
2007-08-28 20:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Carlos Mal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isnt feeling the needed spark. She shouldnt put herself in a relationship with him, like that. It wouldnt be fair to the guy either. She should tell the guy what's she's going through. Maybe she needs some time to herself so she can figure things out. But I dont think she should jump into a serious relationship. She should figure out what she wants and if she's ready of it. So she doesnt put another guy in the situation as well. Things dont have to end so badly, maybe the to of them can still maintain a friendship. But if it's to hard for the guy. Let things go. At least the man showed her what she could have and what she deserves...
Every one deserves true love.
Si-Lynn
2007-08-29 03:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt love him them she shouldnt be with him. I think she should go out with him like 1 more time to make sure she doesnt love him. she might still love him but she still cares for her ex. if she really really doesnt love him then she could let him down nicely and say they could just be friends but i get that if he is rteally nice that would be hard i recomend jusht going on a couple more dates and act normal. maybe if she does something different he wont like it and will brake up with her. if she really dont want to be with him she could make him or buy him a friend ship bracelet or something and brake up. Hope i helped. Good Luck!!:)
2007-08-29 03:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lithuanianchick02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to be treated as such. It seems like they have issues to be resolved. Talk to each other and solve the problems together. Issues that are not resolved can fester and can affect the quality of the relationship ;-)
2007-08-29 03:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend just like that, in the beginning they were friends, then know there lovers. right now she feel as if she doesn't need or want him. but later she'll come to realize, a great guy is hard to find. she just need to look inside and not outside... good luck..
2007-08-29 03:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by nandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest she look for another man that she can really love because why keep going ina relationship that is just ok? longterm she isnt gonna be as happy as she could be. but i would suggest breaking up before cheating. she could talk to and meet other people whilew still with him, but before getting involved in anything she should break up.
2007-08-29 03:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be unfair to stay in a one way relationship and trying to like the guy bec. your friend needs to get over an ex..
the guy is good to her of course bec. he loves her so much..she need to set him free to find another woamn worthy of giving him love the same as he give.
2007-08-29 03:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should not drag the other guy along if she does not have the same feelings, thats always a hard situation to be in,good luck to her
2007-08-29 03:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by miss fetch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she should leave him...if she already tried and cant , she cannot force her self to love him because of sympathy or loneliness one day it will hurt both of them ,tell him with the right way..it will be hurt now but will worse if to late.
2007-08-29 03:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by lets talk-now w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a two way street
it's brutal but if it's going to work both parties have to be in love
she should leave him :(
2007-08-29 03:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Shady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋