Singles & Dating - 26 August 2007

I have been in a relationship for the past 2 and 1/2 years. He is a great guy, my only complaint is that the passion has fizzled a bit and he is predictable. However, there is someone else who has been in my life for 7 years. He has been my close friend and we used to be a little more than friends, but we never could work it out to be together. I have always had strong feelings for him which is why we remained friends after I started my new relationship. I couldn't wait around anymore. I haven't cheated at all and don't intend to. The problem is, I find myself thinking of the other guy lately. I have dreams about him. Then, strangely, the other day he confesses that he wants me to be with him. I should not even be considering this because of my current relationship. I care for them both I guess. I don't want to be a bad person or screw my life up. But there has to be something wrong if I can't get it off my mind. Advice? Please be kind, I have had it rough lately!

2007-08-26 13:24:09 · 11 answers · asked by putnam 1

And when you first see them....what color are you hoping for and why?

2007-08-26 13:20:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a bf but there is this guy at my highschool with these big Angelina Jolie lips and every time i see him i picture him kissing me and my breast and i get all tingly is that cheating?

2007-08-26 13:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

a girly girl or a rocker chick, thanx 4 all your answers.

2007-08-26 13:16:13 · 9 answers · asked by joi 2

2007-08-26 13:15:56 · 14 answers · asked by tony s 5

2007-08-26 13:13:57 · 10 answers · asked by tony s 5

2007-08-26 13:13:44 · 7 answers · asked by Cinderella 5

I met this guy and there was a very strong mutual connection between us. Since we met, hes called me everyday and we talk for hours. He tells me all the time that he thinks i am amazing and how much he cares about me. The only problem is, we live in different provinces.He also said hes seriously considering transferring schools to be close to me. His friends are starting to give him a hard time because instead of going out all the time with them,he'll stay home and talk to me or he'll cut the night short with them to call me. He says he doesnt care what anybody says cause they dont understand how he feels about me.Everythings been going really great, except last night he didnt call me until 1:30am, after he got home from a bar and his call woke me up and I got kinda mad that he called me so late. He said that really bothered him that I got mad at that b/c he called me as soon as he got home and hes trying to accommodate me and his friends. What do u thinks about this entire situation??

2007-08-26 13:08:04 · 7 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1

If two people (a male and a female) were raised on a desert island by a mom and weren't taught how to have sex, would they still know? Is there some sort of trigger in the brain that lets guys and girls know how things work down there or do they HAVE to be taught? I mean I didn't even know I had a hole down there until I stumbled upon a porno. Other than that and sex ed class, I probably wouldn't know a d*mn thing about sex. I was just wondering if a human who wasn't taught would still know how to have sex. Would the guy even know a girl had a hole down there? Would the girl know (assuming she doesn't masterbate and there are girls that don't because 'I' don't). What do y'all think?

2007-08-26 13:06:28 · 19 answers · asked by Skyy L 1

I met this guy that I like a lot. I'm 22 and he's 33.We have fun and get along great. But he makes jokes about me being so young, like when I was 22 you were 11. And his friends make jokes too. They really like me, but it bothers me. I told him how I feel , and he says he understands. A lot of the time I do feel young, because some of the stuff he talks about and things like music and shows his friends grew up on; I don't know what they are talking about. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-08-26 13:05:26 · 14 answers · asked by lilyjane_2184 1

2007-08-26 13:04:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that people get emotional about things and in many cases it's justified. However, what I don't understand is why women seem to use their feelings/emotions as a weapon in relationships.

It seems that in order to solicit sympathy and win arguments women will summons tears when they are in a confrontation and especially when they are going through a break up.

Therefore, why is it just expected that women get their feelings hurt and have a right to cry when they are stressed/emotional but if a guy does the same thing he is seen as a weak-a%& male and emotionally unstable.

It seems that too many women use this double-standard to their advantage in order to get their way. Especially in romantic relationships and with their husbands. Come on ladies please tell me why you use tears as weapons instead of just talking through your problems.

2007-08-26 13:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by Enygma 3

i'll ask this guy that i like to go hang out. he'll say he can but then won't call/text back until way later giving me an excuse. we were supposed to do something last night but he calls me 4 hours after he said he would saying sorry he didn't get back to me but he'll try to make it over to my place today. and here we are, today, and he hasn't showed. i'm guessing he's gonna call tonight saying something came up. i've been trying to give him his space (because his ex said she wanted to get together again) but this is ridiculous. what should i say to him when he calls?

2007-08-26 13:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

He also said I am his best friend
only serious mature adults should answer the question

2007-08-26 12:55:17 · 12 answers · asked by rainbow2 1

I'm a girl and 5' 9''! I feel so tall and freakish, is their any chance that this year guys'll be taller than me?

2007-08-26 12:46:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been experimenting with my sexuality for about a year now, and about 6 months ago I befriended a girl who lives in another state. The two of us grew really close, and 15 weeks ago, we began an internet relaitonship. We keep in contact via MSN, SMS and email. We love one another deeply, and for her, I am her first love. Recently, though, she has not been returning my 'I love you's' and I am a little worried. On her Myspace page, some quizzes say I'm not the first person she's been in love with (despite her telling I am), that she's hooked up with someone whilst we were dating, that she's fallen out of love with someone in recent months and so on. I'm trying to think I'm being plain old paranoid, and my friends say I am, but my gut instinct says I have reason to be suspicious, even though I truly trust her. It's more a matter of her behaviour being completely out of character for her! What on earth do i do without hurting her and making sure we don't break up?! I really do love her!

2007-08-26 12:41:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my friends friends (guy) has been casually flirting and kissing this girl at parties. He just asked her out on an official date and wanted an idea of a cute place to take her that would make for a good evening, but not coming on too strong or too weak. Any suggestions?

2007-08-26 12:39:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been talking to a guy. he's really cool and nice. i want to be his g.f. but a while back he made the statement that he didn't have time for a g.f. what do i do??? thanks!

2007-08-26 12:33:58 · 14 answers · asked by Ashe 2

do you prefer love or lust?

2007-08-26 12:32:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-26 12:13:47 · 6 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

ok here is the situation: I started dating my cousin's ex boygriend. They broke up because she cheated on him. We've been dating now for almost 3 months, we talk on the phone almost every day and see each other on the weekends because were too busy to see each other on week days. The problem is that we are not officially bf and gf and the only times we hook up is on parties when were both at least tipsy. Im kind of tired of the situation so i told him that i was bored but the only answer i got was that Im way better than my cousin and that i have to figure him out. i think this is all BS cuz he doesn't know what to do. I just decided to back off because although he is really sweet to me and everything i like to have things clear. I called him some time ago and he did not nswer. Now he is calling but i havent answered. WHAT DO I DO????? Do i keep on trying or should i just let him go?

2007-08-26 12:13:32 · 2 answers · asked by groovybubs 2

The majority of guys will say they prefer 'curvy' girls when asked, but in my opinion, then don't mean what girls think they mean.

'Curvy' can have many different meanings. So when a guy says he prefers curvy, he probably doesn't mean that he's partial to a bit of cellulite on a girl's thighs and a flabby stomach. No, he means he likes a skinny girl with large breasts or girl who's curvy in all the right places, i.e. hips, bum, boobs and has a thin waist, as opposed to a flat chested anorexic.

Am I right in thinking this?

2007-08-26 12:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so there is this guy haha i bet tons of questions start out this way but anyways

so i have known him for seven years. he is so sweet and adorable and handsome and kind and mature. the only problem is we arent friends outside of our church youth group. we go to different schools and are involved with different things.

the thing is he always makes me laugh all the time he knows how to "push my buttons" and just make me burst out laughing. but i dont even know if he has a girlfriend or anything.

the problem is we are having a dance at school soon and id love for him to be my date. i like him a lot but i understand it might be best to be friends. id love to ask him to be my date - just as friends but i am too scared. in my opinion its the guys job to ask a girl out. i just want to go us friends but im scaring myself i mean what if he says no or thinks im too foward or doesnt even like me and takes it the wrong way.

what should i do and say????

2007-08-26 12:10:29 · 13 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1

What should I do. I been seeing him off and on for about 6 weeks now. we havent had sex, but we kiss alot.. I love my husband,but I found out he got a few girls numbers so I lost trust , I am very attracted to him,he knows I have someone.It started off discrete,but Im starting to feel more for him.I think he knows it. Its funny but our kisses is so hot and irresistable.I know Im wrong for this,but I dont trust my husband know more.

2007-08-26 12:09:07 · 5 answers · asked by caramel 2

Unlike other people, I dont want to release my picture in public for many reasons.

I just want a few honest and mature gilrs opinions, I will contact you by email if you answer. The first few answers will do thats all. I just want to ask a few personal questions and thats it.

2007-08-26 12:09:05 · 1 answers · asked by Ge1st 1

My bf of 2 1/2 years and I are taking a break.

he told me the most I can do while were broken up is kiss other guys, but no more than that.

If I do anything I feel like he might hold it against me when we get back together even though he's given me the okay.

If i end up dating/kissing another guy, could it ruin things in the long-run?

2007-08-26 12:07:23 · 21 answers · asked by Candicexx 5

i really want to build up the courage to ask this girl out but i dont no how to so please give me tips thanks

2007-08-26 12:06:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to protect my sister without getting my parents involved.

2007-08-26 12:03:06 · 1 answers · asked by Authentic Believer (SOA) 4

Should I break up the relationship? We were to be married on Palm Sunday.

2007-08-26 12:02:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

im curious! would all guys love to have a three some? (by that i mean 2 girls + 1 guy just 2 clarify!) or would any of u guys turn down a three some? if so..... y?

2007-08-26 11:58:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous