i have a bf but there is this guy at my highschool with these big Angelina Jolie lips and every time i see him i picture him kissing me and my breast and i get all tingly is that cheating?
2007-08-26 13:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's only cheating if your partner considers it cheating? Every person has there own opinion on "what is cheating". So I just go by what my partner considers cheating. But fantasizing is something you cannot really control, just as long as you don't act on it. I wouldn't tell your bf of this little fantasy it would only hurt his feelings.
2007-08-26 13:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Noooo!!! Fantasizing is a perfectly normal, natural and healthy thing... and is also a fun thing (in moderation...)
Just because you are with someone does not mean you are dead or blind... Its whether the fantasizing is in your head or beyond that you can get a problem...
The only time fantasizing is a problem is when you do nothing BUT fantasize about someone else... If you can't be with a person without thinking of someone else, then you better look into your relationship....
But daydreaming while you are alone or bored in class... Hey.. Why not...!!!
2007-08-26 13:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by CheyMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is just that, fantasy. It's perfectly healthy, knowing what you like and what turns you on. Fantasy is a way to be creative and explore new things without having to commit to it. Say you fantasize about an S&M relationship. You may never actually want that, but in your fantasies, you can explore the lure without regret. No, fantasy is not cheating.
If you find yourself thinking about actually doing what you fantasize about, it's time to talk to your boyfriend. It means something is lacking in your current relationship and you need to work them out.
2007-08-26 13:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not cheating, but why would you want a guy with Angelina Jolie lips?
2007-08-26 13:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Video_Production 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
nooo not at all, altho every1 has a diffrent definition of cheating...i believe its only cheatin when u actually go thru with the act with the other person soooo No its not
2007-08-26 13:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Diana D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless this guy with the lips actually has them on you its not cheating.
2007-08-26 13:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by AMF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are normal, and they aren't wrong.
Just always remember that when we act out on our fantasies, we're often left disappointed. So keep these feelings in your daydreams!
2007-08-26 13:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by T the D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do guys fantasize about girls? yes they do your boyfriend is probably fantasizing about other girls so dont worry about it and its cheating if u actually act on those fantasises
2007-08-26 13:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, no! It's natural for you to do that. Cheating would to actually phsically do something to/with him or flirt with him.
2007-08-26 13:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fantasize about me anytime.
2007-08-26 13:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by colt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋