i'll ask this guy that i like to go hang out. he'll say he can but then won't call/text back until way later giving me an excuse. we were supposed to do something last night but he calls me 4 hours after he said he would saying sorry he didn't get back to me but he'll try to make it over to my place today. and here we are, today, and he hasn't showed. i'm guessing he's gonna call tonight saying something came up. i've been trying to give him his space (because his ex said she wanted to get together again) but this is ridiculous. what should i say to him when he calls?
2007-08-26 13:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said he needed time to think about what he'd do with his ex but it's been a week. it's time to decide. he's said he likes me and i like him and i understand if my ex wanted to get back together and i could choose btwn him and another new guy i'd have a hard decision to make. i'm glad he told me what the deal with that is but he seems to be holding off on telling me what the real deal is.
2007-08-26 13:05:20 · update #1
Tell him that he needs to make up his mind. Tell him you deserve better than making you wait. Or mak plans and change on him and see if he likes it. But this should be a good look at how you relationship might go if you get together.
2007-08-26 13:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by AMF 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well we dont know if its 3 strikes yet, if he doesnt show and calls you be firm and tell him you dont wanna hear another excuse, than say ill talk to u some other time, if he persistently begins to call you then he really did want to be with you, if not he's just like what you said OUT.
2007-08-26 20:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Diane D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. This guy thinks his time is more important than yours and you'll always be waiting on him. I'm sure you have things to do, so just go ahead and do them. By the time he finally calls or shows up, at least you'll have done your thing.
2007-08-26 20:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by BooBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he needs to meet a friend of yours.....Miss Dial Tone...and hang up on him.
2007-08-26 20:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, this guy is a real non-starter and a rude one to boot.
2007-08-26 20:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need all the drama? Find a guy who doesn't have any issues.
2007-08-26 20:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already have your answer. He is just not that into you. Move on. Tell him Sorry buddy you lose. Byebye
2007-08-26 20:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Dorothy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"OOOOOOOOOOOOOUT!!!!" then hang up
2007-08-26 20:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋