Singles & Dating - 22 August 2007

I find this depressing, and hard to believe.

2007-08-22 17:46:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recap: I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We dated for almost 2 yrs. in the past, broke up for 7 mo. (no communication), and now we've been back together for 6 mo.

My boyfriend is transferring over to a new college. I'm transferring as well, but we're both commuting. He needs to take about 5 courses per semester and he wants to work 16 hours a week. He will not give up his crotch rocket, which he's making payments on still. He keeps saying that there will be no time for anything else besides school and work. He's distancing himself from me and he's not acting like himself anymore. He cannot handle stress.

We broke up last time for the very same reason. He started a new job and was freaking out that all his time would be dedicated to school and work. He admitted once we started dating again that he had acted like a jerk.

He's pushed himself away and needs time now. He's "confused" and "wants" to love me. A week ago he loved me. Should I give him space? Last time I didn't and he ran...

2007-08-22 17:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by SuperFox 1

2007-08-22 17:15:27 · 9 answers · asked by da best WR 1

2007-08-22 17:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by powerpuff girls 1

I just started my speech class today [with my boyfriend], and our first assignment was to get to know eachother by introducing yourself and getting their phone numbers/giving yours. but we only had to get 3 phone numbers. I wasn't going to say anything because it's JUST an assignment [although he'd be getting numbers from really cute girls] Well he said "omg I am going to be getting in trouble for this one huh?" and i said "no, just dont do anything wrong and you wont" he was like "uh what" with an attitude and i was like "better not be askin no girls for their phone numbers" and the whole time i had a smile on my face.. After that he got so pissed and said i was controlling and bossy and was trying to make him do everything i wanted. He made the rest of class crappy pretty much cause he had attitude. Then he walked up to me after getting the phone numbers and said with TUDE "there, are you happy? I only asked the fat ugly girls.. I didnt talk to those girls over there" which. CONT....

2007-08-22 17:04:27 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley 3

Is it normal for a guy to like boobs too much? Like constantly looking at sizes and shapes of breasts? Is this normal human behaviour?

2007-08-22 17:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's just IM for now...he's in another state...but the temptation is engulfing me....and him....what to do...HELP NOW!!

2007-08-22 16:58:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy name jonathan but he likes this other girl and he tells me he loves me and everything but idk and then i like this guy name tyler but he acts like a perv sometimes like he asked me 2 take a pic of my boobs and last i like this guy named nathan and he rlly sweet but he doesnt talk alot but he talks 2 me and makes me laugh and tells me he loves me and everything but he lives far away from me so who should i choose?

2007-08-22 16:58:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I exchanged phone numbers with this girl a few days ago. But, I'm wondering whether I should start calling her. We already get along great just with AIM (chatting online), and we chat about every other day or so. Should I just save the phone for important things... like asking her out on a date (which I plan to do in a few days, perhaps... :p)?

2007-08-22 16:58:07 · 12 answers · asked by Stan 3

Ok so I work at a bar and theres a good looking girl who works there too and today was her last day. So some regulars were there and one of them offered her 500 dollars to flash them, and she turned it down. I know that sounds like something a classy girl wouldnt do, but 500 dollars is a lot of money. Would you have done the same thing?

2007-08-22 16:57:28 · 7 answers · asked by D.Z. Carter 5

I am abour 5'2" and have a size A bra. Do guys still look at me even since im smaller. To me it seems guys only like other girls because their breasts are huge..but i know i have nice curves and facial features are nice..but being small makes me feel bad lol

2007-08-22 16:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by Mrs.Blondie 2

I am afraid to reveal my physical defect to my girlfriend. I figure she will dump me when she realizes i have a deformed hand. I have become so good at hiding it that she hasnt noticed YET. should i tell her and show her now and have her dump me, or just ride out the relationship and wait til she finds out. this is eating me up. advice. please.

2007-08-22 16:47:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like a guy, and I told him when we were in Santa Barbara together. He blushed but didn't let on anything. We've gotten in a couple small fights, that all end up with him assuming i'm jealous. It's like he's taking advantage of the fact that I like him! Should I still like him? Make a move? Confront him? Please answer with any help.

2007-08-22 16:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Love_Stoned 2

I'm 21 and not very interested in guys my age. I'm falling for a guy who's 35.

2007-08-22 16:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by ash6529 2

I loved this guy for 4 years. We were like best friends, then he found out i liked him and everything changed. I tried to get over him for 2 years and i just officially got over him like 2 or 3 months ago. I haven't liked any other guys (except for celebrities and that kind of thing, no REAL guys) since then. I have seen girls all over this guy, and i thought it was funny because he didn't even know most of their names, and I've known him since he was 7 and no girls liked him, and I'v seen him become the guy that he's become now (the babe magnet) But the problem is that I just started my first year of High School 3 days ago. and i met this guy that I've known of for a while, but i'm just now getting to know him better. he's really cute, and i really like him. We seem to have a lot in common from what I've picked up, but I'm scared to really like him. I keep telling people that i'm just "in like" with him. I know that i don't love him or anything since i don't even hardly know him.

2007-08-22 16:44:42 · 4 answers · asked by JesusFreak777 2

My best guy friend is really nice and I really like him. How do I ask him out?

2007-08-22 16:42:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Umm ok so theres this guy who I know, I play basketball at the park with him, I met him like...last week. I'm currently a sophmore in high school and hes already graduated. So about two hours I was going to go to the store, but decided to stop by the park to see who was playing there. He was there along with another group of people I play with. He started to recognize I was there immediately and stuff and started talking to me while he was playing. The other day he took my bottle of water and we were sort of flirting squirting it over eachother...hehe. Well I got him one when I ran to the store and came back, we left along with his nephew he was watching. On the way out he says, "So...are you going to the pool tommorow?" I said "umm...idk, I could I guess haha. What time?" and he said "I'm leaving a hour early to pick up some kids to watch, meet me here at 12 okay? Now do you have a cell phone?" we changed numbers and such, now I just want to know if he likes me or just being friendly

2007-08-22 16:40:04 · 12 answers · asked by JustAnotherGirl 2

At school, sometimes when I see other girls, i get you know horny

2007-08-22 16:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was having sex with a guy I was dating. I had never done IT before but I was trying to lossen my morals with him I suppose? With this guy it was the opposite case, he had been in the process of improving himself before he met me, morally where he stood on casual sex I'm not exactly sure............but he had become more religious and had stopped sleeping around. We were unable to really become more serious and eventually I had to come clean. I felt what I was doing was wrong. He felt uneasy about it too for other reasons, I just wonder if I should have let morality guide me or if morality is outdated or what? It was bothering me alot before we talked................we are still friends, that I'm thankful for. I just wonder if I really did the right thing, he seems fine either way but I miss the phisical so much. Alot of people do friends with benies, but I see him as more than just a bed buddy. Do you think our friendship will be better without the phisical?

2007-08-22 16:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by candiecorn 1

Had I of known a broken heart would hurt this much I never would have gotten into the relationship to begin with. I'm just so tired of feeling this way. I'm tired of crying & feeling so hurt all the time. I'm tired of missing him. I think of him constantly. He was my everything. I want to let go & to move on, but this has been the hardest thing I've EVER had to go through. When will it be over?

2007-08-22 16:34:42 · 10 answers · asked by goingxunder 1

I've been with a boyfriend for 2.5 years, but now he has to go to the military for 4 years. Our future is very uncertain, and now I am studying abroad in another country. I just recently met another guy and we are getting along very well. He really wants me to be his girlfriend. I really like him, but if I say yes, I think I would feel guilty. The boyfriend already knows that I am uncertain about our relationship because of us having to be apart for 4 years. When we are together, I feel like he is "the one", but ever since we've been apart, I don't know what to feel. Do you think I should stick with him, or choose this new guy?

2007-08-22 16:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been going out for a couple of weeks now and I want to surprise him. He always kisses me first. So I just want to pull up at his house and when he comes outside spontaneously kiss him. I don't want it to be weird so how do I go about making it sexy?

2007-08-22 16:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

it has happened time and again. i'm pretty sure there are girls out there that have experienced the same.
there are guys who court you but when you turn them down, they keep getting up. it's really bugging me. i feel that i'm prolonging his agony somehow.
what do you have to do or to say to make a guy understand that when you tell him no.. it's final.?
*for the record, i am a girl. i just want to experience having a male avatar, just for a change.

2007-08-22 16:15:18 · 1 answers · asked by sally 1

Okay guys help me out! A new guy friend has been flirting with me, talking to me all the time, sharing lunch w/me, touching me, gave me his number (but we've only talked on the phone briefly twice), looks into my eyes when speaking, asks friends about me,etc. Then we have drunk sex. I am 10 yrs older & was married at the time & we work together. A few days later he says he just wants to be friends & that I'm a great girl but it's complicated-age, work, etc. I'm no longer with my husband-for other reasons- and we've been hanging out here & there. My friends seem to think he's into me & people thought we were having sex way before we actually did. Now that I'm separated, things are weird. One minute he's like he was in the beginning, the next minute-who knows. Does he maybe like me more than he wants to admit? Or was I a one night stand. Help please!

2007-08-22 16:14:54 · 17 answers · asked by baffled 1

I have a guy friend that I've known for awhile. Kind of "sexual" things happened between us at one point. We're still pretty good friends, however, we live far from each other. (Other states)

He calls maybe about once a week, and he talks about coming down to visit me when he gets a chance. He's made comments about having sex with each other. He admits to knowing I care for him, He admits to liking me at one point in time, yet, even when I've asked, he hasn't said his feelings for me.

I'm confused. Does, or Doesn't he like me?

2007-08-22 16:07:01 · 18 answers · asked by tinker_872006 1

2007-08-22 16:01:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well I need a bunch of help. Im starting a new school and there is a guy next to my locker friendly and nice and kind of cute. Then there is this hott but idk friendly cause im too frightened to talk to him school starts in 5 days so please helpme. Do I make the first move? Which guy should I pick? and how long should I wait for me to make the first move? How long do I wait for him to make the first move before moving on?

2007-08-22 15:58:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this man who is 43 never married and we hit it off. We spent an entire weekend together and seemed to have chemistry. He led me to believe we should see one another again and he wanted to be my boyfriend. After our second visit another weekend together(he lived 230 miles from me) he now tells me he is not into A LDR and we have nothing in common or he is not comfortable with me. How can he not be since he had sex with me? I have to feel comfortable with someone to have sex with them.

2007-08-22 15:53:50 · 14 answers · asked by sheilah f 1

football runningback kind of body? football wide receiver kind of body? (terrell owens is a good example) basketball player kind of body? model kind of body (tyson beckford)? Or just an average joe body? haha. I want to know what most girls find attractive.

2007-08-22 15:49:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl i know is talking to some random guy she met on the internet. he seems by how she talks aboutt him.....
pretty schetchy. but she says that shes "in love" with this guy whenn she's neverr met him beforee. and she said taht he said over myspace or whateverr when he turns 18 (he's 17 now) taht he's going to fly to her state and meet her....
i want to convince her taht this is a really bad idea cuz for all she and i know he could be some creepy 50 year old.
so what should i tell her?

2007-08-22 15:48:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous