it's just IM for now...he's in another state...but the temptation is engulfing me....and him....what to do...HELP NOW!!
2007-08-22 16:58:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, first of all, the whole "I need him" sounds kinda creepy lol. Just relax. I know how easy it is to become caught up in IM romances (I think most of us have been there to a certain extent), but what you are lusting over is an image. It's completely unrealistic. It isn't him. Sure it will be close if he isn't lying, but he is taken. Obey the same rules you would if he lived 5 min away from you. Him living in a different state is a problem regardless of whether he is single or not. If I were you I would take some time off the computer and go outside and meet some real guys.
2007-08-22 17:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa.
Need is not the same as want.
Electronic crushes are easy, simple and deceptive.
Don't confuse them with the reality of living with someone or seeing them daily and knowing them fully.
If he's taken, then he chose to be taken.
Temptation is not need. It's just desire.
Get up, go read a book, take a nap, do something constructive for yourself.
2007-08-23 00:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get involved in the relationships of others! he's taken. Set your status to show you're invisible to him or block him as a contact. You are playing with fire...
2007-08-23 00:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by rmdybles30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit talking to him if he's taken. First of all, you don't want to "the other woman" do you? Secondly, if he will cheat on his wife/girlfriend now he will probably do it again. Thirdly, I really doubt that he will move or wants you to move.
2007-08-23 00:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of fish in the sea and don't you want him to be happy ? U will find another guy don't worry calm down.
good luck
2007-08-23 00:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more info please,
have you ever met him? how long have you been talking to him?
etc.
because all im seeing right now is that, your falling for a guy thats already in another relationship aannd....?
2007-08-23 00:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by marshmellows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you don't need him you want him.. and if you really do need him you should wait for him.. maybe when hes single you and him could get together, maybe hes felt the same way for you but i don't think you should try to get him to dump her thats just mean... and if he doesn't feel the same im srry it wasn't mean to be
2007-08-23 00:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Karebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real,,,you are what give woman a bad rep.
Need I say more!
2007-08-23 00:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by live4_2day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's taken right ? so that means that you have enough respect for yourself to not go that low...
2007-08-23 00:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's taken! Period!
2007-08-23 00:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋