Singles & Dating - 20 August 2007

I'm having small doubts in my long distance relationship. We've been together about 2 and half years and he's helped me through so much, but our relationship has become 'boring' and sometimes I just feel so trapped and I want to get out.

I think I'm in love with him. I mean I love him I'm just not sure if I'm in love with him anymore.

I feel like sometimes he looks down on me and belittles me. He's not smarter than me (we are about the same, although I'm doing better in my last year of high school than he did) but he's about a year older and I sometimes feel that he thinks he is superior to me.

Do I talk to him about it? I don't want to start any fights. Should I just shut up and be more appreciative that I have a guy who's there for me?

2007-08-20 23:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

2007-08-20 23:49:10 · 24 answers · asked by Thomas 2

...would you just drop her off at her doorstep, or come in if she asked you to?

2007-08-20 23:41:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl has called me up and offered to cook dinner for me, invited out for coffee, invited me over to walk dogs. After walking dogs she asked if I would like to watch a movie. We have never really hung out, I met her through her ex-boyfriend. I know him, but wouldn't say he was a friend more of acquaintance. Recently I saw her at a party as she was leaving and she invited me to another party. Anyway, we hung out a the second party. While there, she asked me to go sit out front with her, but when I sat down on the curb she moved away from me. She always seems distant from me, but in a nervous way. We have talked about what each of us want in someone. She is VERY shy and has admitted to being nervous around guys and not knowing how to flirt. Her roommate once told a guy we(me and the girl) were not interested in each other. Is the roomate just defensive? This girl is sending mixed signals. Acting flirty/saying she needs a friend and remaining distant. Is she just shy or what?

2007-08-20 23:35:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i will get straight to it,i was abused as a child by my babysitter and it haunts me even now 17 years later(i was 3) every 1st time with a new guy i freeze and cry and the flashbacks of the screaming and the pain,i cant block it out.i am a natural lover,i love cuddles and affection i need love,im 1 of those annoying people whose life runs better when she has a fella,but it never goes anywhere because men wont wait for me to get confident and trust them MEN AM I ASKING TOO MUCH,ITS A FEW WEEK,WONT YOUR HANDS DO TIL THEN?

2007-08-20 22:05:38 · 22 answers · asked by mancmilli 2

ok i dont mean to seem trashy but i need help... I have had sex 4 times but never once have i been able to have a real orgasim. you see all four times were with 4 different guys (that i was seeing)(not at the same time) and i dont understand why i havnt been able too... is there something wrong with me?? i think i need some tips on what i should do when my boyfriend and i decied its time. your see he is also a virgin so i have had a lil more experiance then him. and i need advice on what to do for our special night. please someone give me tips or advice...

2007-08-20 21:57:22 · 24 answers · asked by kay8807 1

i might get back with my long distance girlfriend, however she did hurt me by leaving me for another guy who lived in the same city, and i understand that cos we were long long distance and i could see her as much as we wished, however one of her mates emailed me a long time ago and claimed that she was when he went out with her a very sexual person and another one of her mates told me she dated him he wont say any more but it plays on my mind, my worry is that she wasnt that sexual with me perhaps it was cos of the distance i dunno, she claims she never dated him
my question is should i just forget the past and dont think of it or should i ask her about it and if so how should i ask her, knowing her she will deny it but i wanna clear it up and move on with her - serious answers please

2007-08-20 21:54:18 · 16 answers · asked by johnny 2

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2007-08-20 21:53:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-20 21:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by tony s 5

2007-08-20 21:51:44 · 6 answers · asked by tony s 5

got the best relationship of my life with a great man, who loves me and is sooooo compatible with me that life with him is amazing...recently he asked me to marry him...but i'd have to move...thousands of km....where his job is...another culture....leave my life and start another from zero...but with great love...
should i do it or just settle with a common guy and stay here?
what do you think?
i'd appreciate some objective points of view...
thanks

2007-08-20 21:49:39 · 10 answers · asked by lightening_fragrance 1

I've read a lot of similar questions, but none are exactly in this range.

Well, as the story goes, I fell in love. No, seriously, my first love. I still am, and I'm head over heels, can't stop thinking about him, he's the nicest guy I've ever known...But he lives in NY, and I'm in WA. Not even the problem. Hell, I was even in NY this year! But, we talked online constantly, everything was cool and we trusted each other...But one day, his account seemed to be hacked. And that was the last I heard of him. Not even on our mutual forum, his other online friends have heard less from him than me...It's terrible! And the pain is just so, well, terrible! It's as if everytime I'm truly happy I think about him and I ruin my own happiness. I'm not even this into guys, usually! Can anyone give me advice? I understand that this is a stupendously open question, but anything could help at this point. Please?

2007-08-20 21:46:07 · 13 answers · asked by davie_the_amazing 3

last year me and my partner split for 3 months in that time he saw someone else which is the reason we split. im pregnant with his child and he just moved in. he told me he got rid of all the pictures but i found on one of his cd's a folder titled her name with about 50 pictures some of them were them kissing and half naked. he looked happier. i confronted him he said for me to copy his cv and destroy the cd. and he said if he was happier with her he wouldn t b with me, now the split was a year ago. he said the reason was he needed to see he truly loved me and he realised im the one he wanted to spend his life with. hes so gentle and always caring for me hes over the moon about the baby. what shall i do

2007-08-20 21:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by vicky s 3

hey guys~

sigh.....this is a issue that always stand strong between me and my gf, im desperately need answers, my gf's mother is very very negative about her daughter going out, im 17 and she is 16, unforunatly for i gave her a very bad impression, that was when me and my gf in the library kissing and hugging and she was stalking us the whole time, and said all hk guys are no good and stuff, and say they are all players, im a very decent guy, i dnt smoke, dont do drug, and no im not a player, her mum started to say sending her back to taiwan(we live in newzealand for more than 10 yrs), i once said maybe we said go talk to her mother, but she said its a really bad idea...i can only see the issue damaging our relationship, and can do nothing,,,,guys i need help, give me answers please...thx

2007-08-20 21:43:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i have been txting this really cute guy and i always feel like our conversations get boring and i feel boring as well... so i need something cute, clever, and sexy to say to him.
something that tells him i want to date him and that im available but is still coy. Thanks to all who answer!!!

2007-08-20 21:36:08 · 12 answers · asked by bk_royals 2

was she in the right?

2007-08-20 21:33:48 · 21 answers · asked by bow_hunter110 2

2007-08-20 21:27:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

close friends for years and he's liked me since then; he's the "shy type" yet comfortable telling me things and never had girlfriend.
Beg of this yr, i fell for him deeply and we "got together" (gave him his first kiss, cuddles, holding hands, 1st base - innocent).
BUT we decided to stay friends and not rush things. After this, he was going through a hard time with tragedy and we haven't really talked.

about a month ago we texted, he heard about a guy liking me and just was asking about him (i think he wanted to hear my reaction) and after i said this line:
(i'll try w. someone else, its too bad he's far away) that's when he started acting like an A S S and telling me how to play the game and that i should be with other
guys so they could get with me - very rude.

Someone told me it's because he was jealous and was so hurt and sad that i had moved on - why would it bug him so much? The truth is, i never stopped loving him
but i don't want a relationship. If he "didn't care",why would it matter IF i did stop liking him?

2007-08-20 21:08:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there anything wrong in that???

2007-08-20 21:02:36 · 25 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

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2007-08-20 20:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by discoveryman 2

2007-08-20 20:30:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

they are not insulting you, just criticizing you all the time without supporting you for anything

2007-08-20 20:09:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there is this boy i like.. who we have the oddest relationship.. for instance.. we get in these huge fights and we stop talking, but he'll like after awhile he'll be like i miss you.. and he'll come in my work with this girl he used to like.. and he'll stare at me (people have caught him)or.. if i talk to another guy and leave with out saying good bye... he gets jealous. or he always comes in work when im working.. or i flirt wth another guy he'll be like you sooooo like him... and i can sometimes feel him watching me. you know? hes also a super flirt, and hes also told me i was in the "friend zone". what do you guys think?

he has the whole.. i dont want you, but i dont want anyone to have you aspect going on too.

2007-08-20 19:56:17 · 3 answers · asked by confused 1

Me and this guy are good friends now. I really like him. I think he may like me too. I mean he gives off the basic signs, makes eyecontact when we talk, touches my arm, etc. Also when we are talking to eachother and someone says stuff like its so obvious you like her or w/e, he sorta blushes and then quickly changes subject to something else.

Im pretty sure he likes me too but im just not 100% certain that he does. What do you think?

2007-08-20 19:20:59 · 4 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3

would black men rather b with white women or a black woman? and white guys would u rather b with a black woman or a white woman. asian man would u rather b with white women or asian or black women? please tell me ur ethnicity (white black or asian) and what kind of women do u like best!

2007-08-20 19:11:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says if its not me its noone else as "he is tired of all this". we r together for almost 2 yrs now and plans to get married soon. wat say? "he is tired of all this".

2007-08-20 18:55:55 · 13 answers · asked by bird 2

Okay, me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a really long time ago and we haven't talked at all (well sometimes when i called him). When we dated I was underage and I wasnt "allowed" to date him so it was really hard to see each other but he always said that he was going to wait for me until I turned 18. But then we broke up when I was 18 because we used to fight so much because he would lie to me about dumb stuff! he acts like a really big %^&*@#! when he is around his friends, like he doesnt care about me, but when its just me and him talking he is alot nicer. (But alot of guys do that) Anyways he has a girlfriend who goes away to school in a different state and I heard through the grapevine that she is a snob, a slut, and she cheated on all of her ex boyfriends! What should I do to try and get him to talk to me? I miss him so much & I really believe that we are meant to be together! Has anyone ever dated there ex again after breaking up for a while?? Please help!!

2007-08-20 18:53:33 · 13 answers · asked by BreakTheIce 1

I'm 13 and want to get a certain guy's attention. I've tried being nice and friendly, but it won't work. I've noticed he normally dates the sexier-looking girls. How can I make myself look sexy for him without looking TOO slutty (I'm ok with a LITTLE bit slutty but not too much).

2007-08-20 18:36:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that guys think we can't see through the BS they give us.?
This jerk tried to tell me how much he felt for me. He tried to get me to tell him that I loved him, but in the back of my mind something was not right. I asked if he had a gf, he said no, i asked if he had any complications in his life, he said no. What was that promise he made, "Oh baby, I would never lie to you." Today I find out that he has a gf, and about 5 other things that create way too much drama for me. Thank goodness I had the sense not to allow myself to fall for it.

What is it with these jerks anyway. How would he have felt if I tried to play him like he tried to play me? Don't they even care that we have feelings?

2007-08-20 18:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7

This really is a serious question. My girlfriend loves to give me oral sex, and it feels really good, but for some reason I can't come when she is giving me oral and when I don't she says "she feel inadequate". Other than that, we have a wonderful sex life. I don't know why I can't but I just can't so how do I explain it to her so she don't feel so inadequate?

2007-08-20 18:32:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous