Singles & Dating - 20 August 2007

Ok, my girlfriend went with her family to another state for some time, it is now 5 weeks, we have contact through msn and myspace, phone. Ok, when I enter her myspace, there is some guy writing her comments like "My love, why so lost?" or "My life, love you."

She writes him back comments saying "Love you!" and she writes me comments saying "Hope you are ok" I write her I love you comments, but she doesnt to me.

Ok, and then, when I once connected to msn, her picture had the face of the guy and I told her who he was, she responded "Its my cousin."

Next day, I checked the mans profile to see what was the first comment my girlfriend left him, and this was it " Hello! I can see you and I have similarities, Nice to meet you! Take Care!"

Ok, that being her first comment to him...ARE THEY COUSINS????? Obvious they are not!! She lied to me, what do i do?? What are your opinions??

2007-08-20 18:30:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl at my college. Her name is Stacy. She is in my class and we have talked, on the phone, etc and been on dates. I really like her alot and she does do, she is my first girlfriend at age 20. This is the first time I really had the balls to go up and start talking to a girl, but she different. But I am introveted and basically have no real friends, and I am very independent. She is kinda of different etc, her friends think I am weird and everything but she doesn't care. I think I am falling for her, lol she basically the only person who makes me smile when I see them for no reason. But I don't want to get to close to her, and the way its going that were its headed. I don't want to go head over heals. What should I do?

2007-08-20 18:25:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

this mexican girl that speaks no english has worked at our family restaurant for a year until she quit recently in may. i speak some spanish but we mostly communicate through text message with translations from yahoo answers. a month after she quit i asked her to go out and we went out 3 times. i took her to the mall, bowling, aquarium. i kissed her on the third time we went out. one week later i took her to play tennis and we didnt go out for a month. we didn't communicate very much either after we kissed. then i asked her out to go shopping and said yes. i bought her a few things because she is poor and after i dropped her off she kissed me, (she made the move) i told her that i cared about her but i dont know what to do now. she is extremely pretty and has guys hitting on her non-stop. she is 23 and good good catholic girl. she is very very nice. i dont know if she likes me or she kissed me because i bought her some clothes. what to do?

2007-08-20 18:18:21 · 11 answers · asked by tray 1

2007-08-20 18:14:51 · 11 answers · asked by gregdean 1

my boyfriend and i lost our virginity to each other. and im embarassed to ask friends this cuz i dont want to sound stupid. is it bad when you vagina swells and becomes sore after you have sex for a long time at once?

2007-08-20 18:13:50 · 4 answers · asked by Blondie 2

This jerk tried to tell me how much he felt for me. He tried to get me to tell him that I loved him, but in the back of my mind something was not right. I asked if he had a gf, he said no, i asked if he had any complications in his life, he said no. What was that promise he made, "Oh baby, I would never lie to you." Today I find out that he has a gf, and about 5 other things that create way too much drama for me. Thank goodness I had the sense not to allow myself to fall for it.

What is it with these jerks anyway. How would he have felt if I tried to play him like he tried to play me? Don't they even care that we have feelings?

2007-08-20 17:56:55 · 1 answers · asked by PEGGY S 7

well the girl realy likes me but she wonts me to have sex with her i like her to and i wont to do it but the problam is i only 14 should i do it or not im so confuzed my body sais yes but my head says no wat should i do?

2007-08-20 17:33:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

during dry sex , heavy petting if bf is breathing heavily
[really fast]
moving really fast, pulling hair,biting lip and touching,rubbing back,and pushing penis against vagina as hard as he can and all thats a good thing right?
whats does it mean?
does it mean he wants to have sex with out clothes?

2007-08-20 17:32:18 · 3 answers · asked by cody 1

I'm having a debate with my best friend. I accompanied her to meet her new crush and I met his best friend. We had a great time together. There was lots of flirting and holding hands but I din't kiss him because kissing is special to me. Anyway, at the end of the night, he didn't ask for my number. I take it he's not into me, but my friend keeps arguing to give it time and he will come on his own. I don't really believe that cause to me, if a guy likes you, he will ask you out. What do you think?

2007-08-20 17:30:39 · 18 answers · asked by Drivenbydesire 1

I love her and I get the feeling she loves me still.

2007-08-20 17:30:06 · 15 answers · asked by Jonathan W 1

2007-08-20 17:29:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thank you all for helping! Well my boyfriend says that he loves me, and i adore/ love him too. But i dont know why i keep thinking that i love him more and that he might leave me soon. Because he does nothing to prove that, he always says how much he cares about me and how he wants to marry me, i want to marry him too! But i cant stop thinking that feeling. I dont know why either, can someone please tell me why i keep thinking this? How do i stop and make the feeling never come back ? I keep telling myself stop, but thats not enough, how do i really stop thinking this bad thought ? I am very happy with him, and he is with me, and everytime i think about it i get very very sad. Also everytime that i try to take my mind off of it, and try to do fun things that i like to do, the feeling just comes back, i really dont understand why this keeps happening. I want to be with him forever and ever, he also wants to be with me forever and ever. PLEASE HELP !!!!! THANK YOU ALL AGAIN !!!!! :)) !

2007-08-20 17:29:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is obsessed with my mobile and home phone bills and questions what I do down to the smallest details. I have trouble answering his questions to minor details as often I can't remember the small things I did last week for example. This is driving me insane. Do you think he is sick in the head?

2007-08-20 17:21:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alot of people says the first time hurts.
People also says when they first start using tampons it hurts.
When i first start using tampons it never hurt a bit not at all.. and it still dont .

Does this mean when i loose my virginity it wont hurt, most likely or what?

2007-08-20 17:21:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Weird question... but i'd like to know these things, you know.
lol,
Thanks.

2007-08-20 17:08:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I have been seperated since feb, since then, theres just been three phone calls, and just a recent invitation to her bros babyshower I attended for a short time. "She needed time to figure things out" was the reason we disengaged from a 2 1/2 year relationship. I respected it, but it was hard decision on me, at first i died trying to bring her mind back, but she was set on it. in the past few months I noticed that she wasnt thinking straight and calling me when shes drunk on two occasions, never talking about the past relationship, but just, hello's and how you doin's.the last call,I finally talked about what was left unsaid in the begining, and both agreed that we still love each other,When i saw her at the shower, I kept it casual, and mature. I dont get it! This girl broke my heart, but i love her, for I am so much better now, found my identitiy again.but, I'm wondering standing next to my phone if I could call her? or is that mistake? (i have feeling she misses me)

2007-08-20 17:07:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

First off, I'm 16. Okay, so there's this girl...we have some mutual friends, but I really have no clue who she is. I don't think I've even seen her before. She says I did...[wishful thinking?]. I can tell she likes me because of some messages and whatnot I got from her on the computer. She's 16 and has a 1 year old son. That's about all I know about her.

She keeps wanting to talk to me on the computer and stuff, but I've been trying to avoid her. I have no interest in her. I start my 1st year of college this year [and yes, I'm only 16], and not only do I not need a relationship, I'm just not attracted to her.

Any ideas? Things to say? Things to do?

Thanks for any help...

2007-08-20 16:58:45 · 44 answers · asked by That One Guy 3

Trying endlessly in denver, co.

2007-08-20 16:57:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

True

2007-08-20 16:56:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean she really is beautiful and I can't stop thinking about her. I know that there are many other hot girls in life but my cousin is different.. I have a special feeling towards her.. She's my mother's sister's daughter... She likes me too.. but do u think that there will be a problem if we get married? I know that there could be a problem and this is what disturbs me.. I love her and want to marry her without causing any problems.. Thanks.

2007-08-20 16:53:05 · 20 answers · asked by R10- Barca4Ever 3

My brother has been dating the same girl for about two years. She is about to finish medical school and is Filipino (sp?). My brother is just a tech guy for a company making an ok salary but not close to what she is making. He is not at the level of a doctor's intelligence.

I am worried that my brother is going to make a mistake marrying her (which there is talks of engagement throughout the family) and he'll end up in a divorce or something. He is not a doctor and his money will be peanuts after a couple years. Her family is also weird and may not be totally in love with him either. He is older than me and almost 30 so any input I have is considered worthless as I am only in my early 20s.

2007-08-20 16:51:32 · 7 answers · asked by MLeinart7 2

He contacted me on Friday. He sent me a very quick email.
I responded just as quick. It's now Monday and I haven't heard a word from him. He didn't respond to my response. Now, we broke up last week....I broke it off w/ him. He is very shy. I was his first girlfriend.

Thanks!

2007-08-20 16:50:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man and I have been together a while now. He finds himself recently unemployed and is having a problem finding a job. He is really down on himself and depressed because of it. Rather than turning to me, who should be a source of support for this type of thing, he has pushed me away saying that he is going to become intolerable soon. and he would rather end us on a high note. He is not cheating, and he says he still loves me. How do you just walk away from someone because you're going through something weird and temporary? I'm so confused. There is no pushing him or changing his mind. He is very strong minded and stubborn. What is the best way to handle this. I'm so broken hearted over this. Do I just let him go and see what happens?

2007-08-20 16:34:42 · 5 answers · asked by babyred 2

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2007-08-20 16:31:55 · 17 answers · asked by =smokeL 1

Fighting recently so he decided on a break while he got to ready to move here to college. It was just a let's not talk/see and it lasted 4 days ony because I helped him move into his apartment like we agreed on. Also we had not had sex in over 2-2.5 months because of a christian moral/long story short I wanted to but he was confused later saying he wanted to. So I stayed the night the first night and we ended up having sex and it was great. The next morning he didn't really cuddle like normal and just got right up although maybe because now he has roomates? He has not called me yet, even when I say call me after class and I call him everytime. He texted me once to invite me to dinner. He doesn't want to hold hands or cuddle nearly as much as we used to. Kisses are few and far between (only when I'm leaving basically or I go for it). I asked tonight how he was or did he want to talk. He said he was fine and he doesn't know what to say. I'm clueless so I told him to tell me if I'm

2007-08-20 16:27:08 · 17 answers · asked by misschick87 2

2007-08-20 16:27:08 · 15 answers · asked by Imani T 1

I know this is not all men and that women do it too. And not all relationships are the same. How come though it seems like guys are less willing to stick it out through tough times. I know there are other people out there you can just move on to, but is that really what you want to do? Im just curious as to why this seems to be.

2007-08-20 16:24:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

k so my girlfriend just broke up with me about an hour ago. we were together but every month we would breakup cuz we would want to see other people. ok so now its summer i havent seen her and she says oh i wanna break up cuz i never see you and i said its becuase u dont call me (i call her though..she never answers) so i was like were over, ok fine. then she texts me an says were cool right? i feel so mad! this ever happen to any1. she says when school begins we r gonna resume the relationship. i dont want to cuz i dont want to break up every month. can any1 help me move on.? thanks. also is she wrong for acting like thatt asking if were cool or am i just angry?

2007-08-20 16:18:49 · 22 answers · asked by Chuck Cartalono 2

How rich are you in comparison?

2007-08-20 16:08:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Apparently a very close guy friend i have thought we were dating though we agreed friends is all we'll ever be, but he gets mad at me cause I am considering a relationship with someone I like. We've always said we were just friends, nothing more, were not at all physical, except for maybe some major flirtation, but no kissing or holding hands no cuddling, like you would think a couple would. So he gets so mad and jealous of my other guy friend and he doesn't know him. So i tell him first of all, i didn't know we were dating and I had given up hope of anything with you anyways because you said friends is all well ever be. I feel so bad for hurting him like this but I've also hurt myself, I feel better to get away from this a little bit but hes all i think about now and I want to see him and talk to him so bad.

i was just looking out for myself i guess, i don't want anything serious with him, we are two very different people running opposite ways. How do I tell him that I want

2007-08-20 16:06:04 · 2 answers · asked by p_shell1987 2