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Question

My ex and I have been seperated since feb, since then, theres just been three phone calls, and just a recent invitation to her bros babyshower I attended for a short time. "She needed time to figure things out" was the reason we disengaged from a 2 1/2 year relationship. I respected it, but it was hard decision on me, at first i died trying to bring her mind back, but she was set on it. in the past few months I noticed that she wasnt thinking straight and calling me when shes drunk on two occasions, never talking about the past relationship, but just, hello's and how you doin's.the last call,I finally talked about what was left unsaid in the begining, and both agreed that we still love each other,When i saw her at the shower, I kept it casual, and mature. I dont get it! This girl broke my heart, but i love her, for I am so much better now, found my identitiy again.but, I'm wondering standing next to my phone if I could call her? or is that mistake? (i have feeling she misses me)

Answer 1

OOoooo the pains of love, realize buddy, that love is never the problem, find solice in that, find peace in that, becasue there well always be love! But thats not the point, thats not what you need to know, and thats definetly not all you need for a relationship. Let go of the hope, because you'll never be able to let go of the love, thats feelings for you! Also thats a cope-out (trying to figure stuff out) for a person who was also lost to began with, again love isn't enough, same for people and themselves to, which is what she is running away from....