Alot of people says the first time hurts.
People also says when they first start using tampons it hurts.
When i first start using tampons it never hurt a bit not at all.. and it still dont .
Does this mean when i loose my virginity it wont hurt, most likely or what?
2007-08-20 17:21:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah... im 15 to answer one persons question and to answer another my boyfriend is very careful with me and he would be gentle hes a sweet harte
2007-08-20 17:28:03 · update #1
You may have already torn your hymen with tampon insertion
2007-08-20 17:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you can't lose your virginity from a tampon. Secondly, if a girl is so small that using a tampon hurts, she should see a doctor before she tries to have sex and ends up in the hospital. Thirdly, yes, it probably will still hurt when you lose your virginity. Even if you use tampons. Heck, even if you masturbate, which I did. When I first started having sex, it hurt like the first 10 or 12 times. Not like outrageous, unbearable pain. But like, definite soreness. And some chafing. Basically, when you start having sex, you start using a set of muscles that haven't ever really been used before. And that's gonna cause some bearable pain until those muscles become accustomed to the new levels of activity. It's just like when you play a sport, but don't keep it up during the off season. Then when it's time to go back the next year, all that stuff makes you sore for the first couple weeks until you get used to it again. So...not to make sex seem as casual as running cross country or playing soccer, but that's basically what the pain associated with sex is about. Yeah, when the hymen breaks it will be sore for awhile, too, but mostly it's about using muscles that have been idle for however many years.
2007-08-20 17:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Amber L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the two things aren't related. Tampons shouldn't hurt the first time, I'm surprised people say it does. Losing your virginity doesn't hurt ALL that much, just a little. If you pop your zits, you're used to pain. Just go slowly and have the first time be with someone really special whom you love.
2007-08-20 17:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time it hurts because either the guy is too rough, or the girl isn't relaxed. Then there's also the hymen being broken issue. However, if you're already using tampons I doubt you will feel much pain at all.
It's different for everyone though.
2007-08-20 17:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Chalice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tampons never hurt me at all I think most people that say they hurt put them in when they weren't on their period or weren't putting it in right. Sex for me wasn't the biggest pain ever. It stings every time a **** goes inside of me of course. But the pleasure is worth the pain. It's just a sting that you get used to after a while.
2007-08-20 17:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some guys maybe a little or lot bigger than a tampon, so I wouldn't go by that. If it does hurt it won't last long, soon you won't even thinkk about it.
2007-08-20 17:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by SEXY BLACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never felt a thing. What a disappointment.
2007-08-20 17:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it is different for everyone, in my case it didn't hurt at all.
2007-08-20 17:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by lady butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person
2007-08-20 17:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask it your to young to know.
2007-08-20 17:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~<3~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋