Singles & Dating - 18 August 2007

Call 911 or go on a kill frenzy?

2007-08-18 22:40:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is NOT Racist. Im black, and at least 2 of my gfs last bf's were black, and she has several black male friends. Shes white and was raised in suburban australia. I know she honestly loves me for who I am, but I think she may have been initialy atracted to me for the fact im black, does she have jungle fever?

2007-08-18 21:50:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

let others get to them .. and why do girl's let their b/f's treat them like ****....or vise versa.. i dont understand.. thanks

2007-08-18 21:42:48 · 5 answers · asked by hope 2

2007-08-18 21:32:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like him a lot, but tend to wonder because I'm sexually unhappy. I've tried talking to him about trying new and different things, but he doesn't seem to grasp the concept. What should I do?

2007-08-18 21:31:06 · 3 answers · asked by Nae 2

2007-08-18 21:08:44 · 9 answers · asked by houstonguy 1

I'm a wreck and have been for the last 8 months.
I am completely in love with a woman who can not return that love.
I have cried rivers upon rivers of tears for this woman.
She is a sweet and kind and gentle creature however one that is out of my grasp.
She can go out at nite and live it up and I doubt she ever thinks of me during that time frame.
She has played mind games with me and manipulated me, she is not a complete princess as she certainly has her flaws.
At this point she uses me as an ego boost, i was told this by a friend but just couldn't grasp the concept and part of my mind still won't allow me to grasp that.
I have given SO MUCH to this woman and she has literally offered nothing in return except a dozen roses and 2 nites in a hotel and that is it.
I went to Cleveland to see her and she could not even come to the airport to see me. I ended up paying for a hotel that nite and taking the greyhound back home in the morning. I don't know if I can ever forgive her for that. Her reasoning for that is that she says she got an email from some woman telling her that she should leave me alone because i'm already involved with this mystery person.
She claims she went to NYC around March 17 I don't buy it as far as my tracking software is concerned she never even left.
I have been there for this girl whenever she needed me ALWAYS!
I bought her daughter a birthday gift because I care about this woman.
I rode the nasty *** greyhound to see her which was a 8 hour trip both ways.
I took the train to go see her and she had me wait at the station from 230am till 11am the next day. She could have picked me up if she wanted to...but she really didn't want to.
She acts like she is this innocent freaking damsel in distress but she is nothing more then a manipulative machine. And for the LIFE of me I just don't understand my allure and love for her.
She has a great laugh and can be sweet but she gives me almost nothing.
I'm now catagorized as "one of her best guy friends" and that insenses me and incites me to no end.
Why in the hell am I so drawn to this woman, what is my major malfunction and how in the hell do I distance myself from her without completely falling to pieces to the point where it effects my job and my interpersonal relationships with other people.
She stresses me so much that the only coping mechanism I have is to not eat. So effectively i'm wasting away into nothingness.

She does call every morning when she gets to work and I just don't get it...I know she would be very uncomfortable and probably shocked if I met someone else. She makes little digs like "so how many girls did you sleep with this weekend" and things like that.

I feel that she doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me either.

I just don't know what to do at this point, I do LOVE her with all my heart and I just don't know what to do.

Have you EVER been in a similar type of relationship and what did you do? Did you drop the hammer so to speak and let the other person know how you REALLY feel the good and the not so good thoughts? Do you just walk away? What did you do??

I am a strong man however this one really has a hold of me really badly.

I want her back in my arms

Any suggestions at all would be fantastic

2007-08-18 21:07:57 · 16 answers · asked by Ontime 2

you had done it. me i was 18-19 teen. at a party on a living room floor but i wanted it. i new the guy for a long time. im now 24 and fine wit it.

2007-08-18 20:56:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-18 20:55:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-18 20:42:08 · 1 answers · asked by Nurul 1

I would really like to know if girls go for rich guys or is it just some girls.

2007-08-18 20:29:37 · 19 answers · asked by Reece F 1

yes, i know im young, but im really tired of having a boyfriend one week, and then the next they think its perfectly fine to break up with me and date my friend, and act like nothing happened. this is how its been for a few years[started 3 years ago, and its now, more than ever.] and its totally accepted by everyone. im tired of this, ive had enough 'boyfriends' in the past year. i know it means something different to be dating when your 13 and when your 20, but still, i want a boyfriend, and not just one who kisses me one day, then my best friend the next.
sorry, this was kind of a rant. but i was wondering if im totally off here, and if this is how its supposed to be, right now.

2007-08-18 20:15:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

a new coworker that join out team. she was working on a paper that I felt that was not correct, I tried understanding where she was going with this. I gave her my opinion and told her that the paper was not good, and told her to re write it since I a responsible for her paper. she snapped and said I was demanding, I tried calming her down and said that she is making a big deal. management stepped in and we have to sit in with him. I told her i apoligized, but she kept going on said what i did was wrong. I accepted being wrong. but She keeps going on about what I did and it drove me crazy and because I am much older that her i just stood up and gave her a hug and said I was wrong for not explaining my self to get over the problem. My problem is, is that I'm am angy at myself and said i was sorry. It wasn't my fault as much it was her. She threaten me and told me over and over she is not going tolerate what i did. I just want her shut up.

2007-08-18 20:00:06 · 14 answers · asked by cafesoylatte 1

2007-08-18 19:59:53 · 15 answers · asked by shanicehird 1

I wonder if it is a strange thing that I don't really have friends. I grew up in Chicago and I went to the military after high school to escape the streets. Now I live in Cali and I'm out of the military. The two friends that I did have in cali moved back to other states where they were born. Now I haven't had friends or a date in about two years. I go to the theaters alone and mostly go to the gym and study and read in Barnes & Noble. Is this strange? Does it look weird that I don't have friends?

2007-08-18 19:54:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i called the boy i like and we had sometin to talk about and i wanted to know wat would be some good questions to ask him other then how r u doing and school cuz like i want sometin to talk to him about thanx! oops i posted this twice
we r friends to and hes my crush lol

2007-08-18 19:49:56 · 19 answers · asked by That Girrl♥ 4

2007-08-18 19:49:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anya 1

Guys what would you do if ur girlfriend/wife SMACKED you on the FACE....

Like SLAPPED u.....

What would be ur reaction...

2007-08-18 19:49:00 · 17 answers · asked by KK 3

2007-08-18 19:48:38 · 2 answers · asked by jeska102 1

Choose one from the list below,
Homer simson
Ned Flanders
Mr Burns
Smithers
Grounds keeper willie
Moe
Disco stu
P Skinner
Mayor Quimbie

2007-08-18 19:47:42 · 20 answers · asked by nickson faction 7

I wonder what goes through his mind.
I asked him if he liked my kisses or wanted me to stop. He said he liked my kisses and didn't want me to quit giving him kisses.


What could be going on in his mind?

2007-08-18 19:41:43 · 30 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6

what happened? did it work out?

2007-08-18 19:39:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

as a friend with benifit. I said No, but she didn't believe me. So we broke up. The next day, she accidentally saw me kissed a girl. I feel guilty. Should I feel guilty while she's the one who broke up with me first?

2007-08-18 19:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so my bf and me are sitting on the couch at my house watching tv and he looks at me with this really serious look and says " i love you" then i smiled and said "i love you too"
its not the first time hes said it. and weve been together for two months. kay. so then 5 seconds later he is reaching over and trying to feel me up. i got really mad at him and i was like "is that the only reason you said that? to feel me up. wow. okay" then i moved to the other side of the couch. kay i dont care if he feels me up. but bad timing jeeze. hes felt me up before but seriously. should i have been mad?

2007-08-18 19:34:22 · 29 answers · asked by nicole 2

What would u think if ur girlfriend/wife didnt want to work...

And u live together....

2007-08-18 19:30:28 · 5 answers · asked by KK 3

and i've been cheating on him since the day we met. i've had sex with over 50 different men. i don't think he's the father of my children and he has no idea! what should i do? should i go on maury???

2007-08-18 19:28:50 · 36 answers · asked by IDK 1

some people say that if you have a boyfriend then you would do ANYTHING in your power to see them.. is this true and Always the case?
because i got my first boyfriend on my First date with him (long story) but so i don't really know him that well.. but i agreed to be his gf and i like him a lot. and no i'm not saying i love him.. i'm only 17 and things like that need to progress.
but something happened on our date and he kept me out Way past curfew, and my mom was so worried she ended up calling the cops.. she has MS so it almost caused her to have an attack. and so i ended up getting terribly grounded... and then everyone keeps telling me that if you really like him your being grounded wouldn't matter and you would still find a way to talk to him and see him. but how the heck can i when i am not allowed to use my cell phone... my car... and my computer is restricted also....?! i don't get it. so am i doing something wrong by Not talking to him.. i thought i couldn't? i suck.

2007-08-18 19:24:46 · 14 answers · asked by sweetaction 2

2007-08-18 19:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been dating this girl for over 2 months. I just started kissing her on the cheek and occasionally I would give her a quick peck on the lips but I've never kiss her romantically. Her parents are gone for the weekend and she says that she'll probably give me the "big" kiss. When she said that, my heart stopped for a second. What if I suck at it or worst, what if she feels nothing. I really like her and I don't want her to break up with me because i'm a bad kisser.

2007-08-18 19:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by gambitleblanc 1

Just out of curiousity

2007-08-18 19:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous