Singles & Dating - 18 August 2007

Hi,I was in love for 3 years with my classmate during graduation & now i'm working. I believed the bonding was soooo gr8 though we had fights and all. We even had sex a dozen times and she always told that she consented for that bcos she was committed to me. I had made mistakes by being possessive & all and she broke up with me telling my friends that she was suffocated all this long. I tried in everyway i could to apologize for my mistakes and asked for one last chance. she behaved rudely whenever i asked sorry. She left me, leaving back lots of proofs that an annoyed ex-boyfriend can use to spoil her future. But she behaves like she totally trusts me. Didn't even ask them back. It's now about half an year since the breakup. Should i move on and find another girl? should i wait for her? How long? She means world to me. What if she comes back at a later time, realizing my sincerety? I heard that If a girl is gone, she's gone for ever? Does any body have a different experience? Plz help

2007-08-18 15:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by techyhere 2

All guys seem to run in the opposite direction before even getting to know me when they find out that I want to wait for marriage. I feel bad if I don't tell guys up front, I don't want to be a tease. What do I do?

2007-08-18 15:37:13 · 17 answers · asked by missladylyn16 1

okay I'm not a lesbian or at least i think i'm not but this girl dared me to kiss this girl at a party and i did and for some odd reason i liked it and i feel like i'm falling in love with her I feel weird now cuz i have a bf i don't know whats going on with me please help me

2007-08-18 15:29:38 · 44 answers · asked by Kitty 3

Right now I got like a short haircut like Keanu Reeves in Speed, but before yesterday, I had it kinda froish and a little bit long. So should I stick with the short hairstyle or the longer afroish hairstyle...thanks for the input

2007-08-18 15:22:33 · 12 answers · asked by I get buckets 2

My boyfriend and I got into a pretty nasty fight tonight. I really need some input from someone who knows him. I met his cousin a few months ago and she and I hit it off very well. I would like to ask her opinion. I would never want her to take sides, but since she is the only one I can ask who knows him also. Do you think it is wrong?

2007-08-18 15:16:43 · 6 answers · asked by Dee 2

What is the ultimate in foreplay a man can do for a woman? I am curious to hear from others what they prefer or know their partners enjoyed the most and was most excited by

2007-08-18 15:15:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sensual G 1

I have a boyfriend, but am attracted to another guy who I'm also pretty sure is attracted to me. I really have a crush on this guy and think about him a lot, but I love being with my boyfriend and would never cheat on him, but you can't help but find other people attractive sometimes.

So my question is, do you think it's wrong for to let this other guy know I find him attractive? I don't want to actually say it to him, but for some reason I don't want him to think I don't like him. Is this a bad idea considering he is also attracted to me? He knows I'm in a relationship but, I don't know if it would make him feel better or worse to know I do find him attractive. My boyfriend knows I have a crush on him, so it's not really a big secret, but he's not the type to get really upset by something like that. What do you think?

2007-08-18 15:12:48 · 4 answers · asked by melissa 5

2007-08-18 15:07:07 · 3 answers · asked by peghill55 1

my friend wants your response

2007-08-18 14:55:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-18 14:55:15 · 5 answers · asked by ames 3

2007-08-18 14:53:42 · 4 answers · asked by andrew h 1

Have a good time tonight ladies and be safe!

2007-08-18 14:50:42 · 2 answers · asked by Balrog 2

I want to send a personalized gift to my guy friend in the military. I'd like to make something homemade. Something that will let him remember the good times we've had and he can keep when were not together.

2007-08-18 14:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Abby S 1

A little bit about me: I'm a guy, well educated, with a dream job lined up after graduating from a top-tier business school, and was recently voted by all the girls in my class as one of the "hottest" guys in school. But I'm finding it real hard to meet girls. It just seems like whoever I meet that is interesting is already taken or is not interested in me. And if they're interested in me, I'm not interested in them. I think I deserve a girl who is genuine, good looking, laid-back, chill and just a lot of fun to be around. But I just can't seem to meet anyone. I go to house parties and seldom see anyone attractive. I keep seeing so many guys who have gorgeous girlfriends, fiancees, wives... and can't help but wonder how they got these girls. I do get a little self conscious around very pretty girls (because I have a slight stutter in my speech). I find it hard to be interesting and "on" ALL the time during the date. I'm starting to feel inadequate and worried for the future. Any tips?

2007-08-18 14:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by riddler 1

2007-08-18 14:11:16 · 1 answers · asked by Kirk B 1

2007-08-18 14:01:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy.
yeah.
i know.
one of THOSE questions.

but I'm really confused..
could you guys tell me how to tell if a guy likes you?

2007-08-18 13:58:04 · 5 answers · asked by sk8tbrdswdtw 4

A coworker of mine was asking about my relationship status via another coworker. This female coworker I barely knew approached me and asked me point blank if I had a boyfriend.

I responded yes I do, and asked why. She just said someone wanted to know and walked away. I'm pretty sure of who it was that wanted to know, he was the only male there that day and the two of them had been working together that day. I don't know him that well or talk to him very often, but there are a few other indications that he is interested, which I won't go into now, but I'm 99% sure it's him.

He's acted kind of strange since this happened and I don't know how to handle the situation exactly. The female coworker is gone (she only worked there a week and I never saw her again) so I can't ask her about it. I'm just curious, do you think he was really interested or do guys just ask about any girl they find attractive?

2007-08-18 13:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by melissa 5

She won't say your too young, she said I'm a kid still.
It's a girl who will be 15 in October, and I'll be 14 in April. She will not be going to the same High school as me. She used to like me , now she says I'm just too young, and believe me she told me in a very subtle way, very. I want her, no one else to have her. She likes older guys, all they want to do is "Shizzle her Wizzle" in bed. That's why I want her and I like her!

So what shall I do about this, have not called her in about 4 or 5 months, I talk to her on myspace but, I hate that. I predict that she will come back to me after she realizes what a 16 yr old boy wants, but I don't want to lose her because of my pride.

2007-08-18 13:35:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think you only have one true love in a lifetime? Could your first love be your one and only? Did any of you marry your high school sweethearts?

2007-08-18 13:26:54 · 11 answers · asked by questionz 3

I know this sounds like a high school question, but I'm 28 and was wondering do guys still like to play games. I thought that after high school the games would stop, boy was I wrong. Do you guys prefer a girl to put her feeling out there, or "play hard to get"?

2007-08-18 13:26:41 · 16 answers · asked by Jay Girl 2

I am happy i am a woman.

2007-08-18 13:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have cerebral palsy and use a wheelchair to get around. I can walk with help. I am a fully functional guy. I have never had a girlfriend in my life for several reasons. For the first time in many moons, I feel great about every area of life.

I have known this girl for over seven years and I don't understand how I feel about her. I really enjoy being around her. She is wonderful person. She is very pretty. I even feel at ease with her helping me at the gym. I let her help me work on standing up. I hold her hands. I find her attractive off and on, even though I think she is breath-taking. I think about her alot. My fear is people will look at her differently because of my handicap. I am willing to risk those thoughts for a chance with her.

Basically, I feel at peace in her presence. Do you think I like her in that special way or just as friend. I am shy so how do I ask her someplace?

Thanks for your help.

2007-08-18 13:01:29 · 15 answers · asked by Michael B 2

ok her parents know the guy and theyve known him for three years and her parents are the ones that said she could go and know everything about him

2007-08-18 12:58:49 · 7 answers · asked by Womeninmydreams 1

I am 46 and my g/f 36 we have been together 8 years but not living together. I want to move the relationship forward by moving in together she does not,
she wants to wait another two years. While I respect her decision I feel that in 2 years time she will still not want to. We use to have an amazing sex life and that has now gone is that a sign she is drifting away please help

2007-08-18 12:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a quiet fella, i only go out now and again. And i keep myself to myself when i do. " I have had a hard life"
About 5 years ago i meet a girl, i fell for her straight off. She is funny, caring, talkitive, full of life, and absolutly beautiful! She has picked me up and let me down so many times, i find it hard to trust her. "but i want to"
We share common friends.
One of my mates gave her my number last weekend. So she must have deleted my number from her phone. We have not spoke in months. But tonight she txt me to tell me she has started her own hairdressers shop. She seems keen to know what i am doing!
What do you make of this?

2007-08-18 12:52:30 · 22 answers · asked by markyc 2

this guy she went to work with is 54 yrs old she is 15 years old and hes the oldest of a bunch of little girl siblings and he delivers packages all over indiana and hes always touching my girlfriend and his work hours are from 8 at night till 3 in the morning and hes always telling her shes pretty and out of all her siblings shes the only one he talks to and hes telling her that hes gonna take her out into the country and let her drive his car and i just dont know what to do someone plz help me contacting the cops is a no cuz he hasnt done nething and oh yeah his car when he locks the dors the only way to unlock them is from the remote hes got on his key and when he locks them the locks dissapear into the door panel someone plz help me

2007-08-18 12:51:53 · 18 answers · asked by Womeninmydreams 1

I have been divorced for 3 1/2 years and made a clean break from my ex husband and his friends. I recentley ran into one of his best friends, and I realized how much I liked him. He has no idea, and might never ask me out...but if he did...would that be ok?

2007-08-18 12:47:48 · 31 answers · asked by Ginger B 1

My cousin is 17 and her boyfriend is 18. They've been together for over a year and yes, they have sex. Both of their parents have known about the relationship all along (but not about how intimate they get). Now my cousin is worried that it's illegal since her bf turned 18. But i've heard that 17 is the age of consent, although I'm not sure. Can her parents really put the boyfriend in jail if they find out something?
They live in California.

2007-08-18 12:36:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anita 3

2007-08-18 12:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7