got the best relationship of my life with a great man, who loves me and is sooooo compatible with me that life with him is amazing...recently he asked me to marry him...but i'd have to move...thousands of km....where his job is...another culture....leave my life and start another from zero...but with great love...
should i do it or just settle with a common guy and stay here?
what do you think?
i'd appreciate some objective points of view...
thanks
2007-08-20 21:49:39 · 10 answers · asked by lightening_fragrance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, that's a toughie! Hmm.. if it were me, I would go with happiness, considering I haven't been happy in a long time. But I guess the best advice for you is: Go with what your heart tells you. :)
2007-08-20 21:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Sammers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in life worth while comes without risk! Always remember this. Life is all about risk, sacrifice and change...change is always good. How often do you get someone as special as this man, hey...hardly ever. If I felt about my lover the same way and know that things on the other side can be just as good then i'll go. As for the little bits on the side...there is compromise and love with understanding between you two to smoothen the sharp edges on the other side. Think for yourself...would you give your life for this person...or a kidney when it will save his life....if your answer is yes...then what is a few 1000 km's. You love him enough then all will work out fine. True love is worth it...take the leap :-) All will be well, you will see. Those who are afraid of Change cannot experience life to the fullest...never be afraid of change...it might just be what the Dr. ordered. Good luck :-)
2007-08-20 22:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing like great love.its surely worth travelling if u ask me.what if those locals dont give as much as u deserve.i think u are being a little selfish here.love shd sacrifice,if u really love the man u wld go w/o any hesitation.u just dont know how many pple wish they had that chance.u'd also probably do better than where u are now.Face the future and unknown with ur head up esp with Great Love on ur side.
2007-08-20 22:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by onel2k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know this man? If you only know him online or haven't spent that much time with him, there's no way to be sure that you are really compatible. He might seem perfect but you should spend time together in person to know for sure.
It's not impossible to have a relationship with a person from another culture, but it's more difficult. Be very, very careful.
Health and happiness to you.
2007-08-20 21:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I like to say is If you are really in love with the first one who is far off from you, you can contact him once again and say that you want to marry him.
If not, if you dont wish to move far off you mat stay back and start your new life with a new man without thinking about the past.
2007-08-20 22:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by prinish143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stumbled on my soul mate and he has died very unexpectedly. At this 2d in time i won't be in a position to even recover from dropping him. i don't comprehend that i could desire to ever opt to be with absolutely everyone else. in case you probably did locate yet another soul mate then i assume you will be able to desire to possibly have the two in the afterlife. :-)))
2016-10-16 07:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey-----------you should be asking yourself that question---we can advice but certainly cannot tell you what to do....if you love this man----it is in the respect of the relationship to go with him wherever it is if you want to be with him--------------on the other hand if you decide to let him go and maybe down the road you would re-conside and it could be too late---so really think hard---you must of known it was coming to that and you are still happy with him---you will always make more friends think hard it is your life remember this--okay GOOD LUCK
2007-08-20 21:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by lorr1941 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!!! You only live life once. It is hard to find true love so you must act on it no matter where or when it comes. Love your screen name by the way.
2007-08-20 22:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by natam426 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, pack you bag and go with your man...Just think of all the new adventures in a new place you two will have...Why settle when you all ready found the perfect man????
2007-08-20 22:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering you put so much information about the first and next to nothing about the second, then sounds like you've already made up your mind...
you want the second guy cos the first scares you on sooooooooo many levels!!! :D
2007-08-20 21:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋