question to ask ex girlfriend?

Question

i might get back with my long distance girlfriend, however she did hurt me by leaving me for another guy who lived in the same city, and i understand that cos we were long long distance and i could see her as much as we wished, however one of her mates emailed me a long time ago and claimed that she was when he went out with her a very sexual person and another one of her mates told me she dated him he wont say any more but it plays on my mind, my worry is that she wasnt that sexual with me perhaps it was cos of the distance i dunno, she claims she never dated him
my question is should i just forget the past and dont think of it or should i ask her about it and if so how should i ask her, knowing her she will deny it but i wanna clear it up and move on with her - serious answers please

Answer 1

Long distance relationship cause a lot of insecurity in a relationship. You are better off finding a local girl that you can be sure of, and spend time with.

Answer 2

My experience is that something that has not worked in the past won't work in the future either. No matter what obstacles - time, distance etc, if you were really made for each other, and both felt the same, you would still be together.
It sounds like you already have doubts about her character, and about how successful your relationship was even when you were together. My advice is to leave the past in the past, and give up asking questions that you will never find satisfying answers to. I know myself how much a relief it can be when you learn to let go, of the doubts, the false hope, the expectations and disappointment.
And probably at the moment when you have reconciled your past and are really living in the present and getting to know yourself, you will find someone who really appreciates you for who you are, who would do anything to be with you - someone who deserves you. Good luck.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Ok I'm going to beat you like a red headed step child read you question and you will have your answer.

you wrote: should i ask her about it and if so how should i ask her, knowing her she will deny it .
Ok so tell us all again why you would want to be with someone who cant be honest with you and tell you the truth.

An ex is just that an ex what makes you think it will be any different next time around get a grip... look we are yahoo bros go out and find someone in your town you cant be that desperate. You better listen lol lol

Answer 5

Do you have solid agreement before distance put in place? you can confront her just to be sure of yourself before concluding on want the friends told you. tell her you need nothing but the truth. after which you discover the truth then it shall be the end for the both. correct the distance. forge ahead and forget the past. Good luck

Answer 6

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If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.

Answer 7

I think you should forget the past because it could up in a argument the past is the past you cant go back and change it and she lives long distance and she left you i would forget her although my boyfriend is in long distance and we love eachother and neva tlk bout the past so maybe you can contact her and dont mention the past and then your happy and she will realise who to really pick =)
Gd Luck x

Answer 8

You aren't going out with him anymore, so just ignore him in class. I know it will be hard for you to do, but that's the best thing to do. Just ignore him and move on. If he dumped you fro his ex, he will probably do the same to her again, and you don't need a fickle boyfriend. Find a boy that treats you the way you deserve to be treated.

Answer 9

One day I found a note on my ex boyfriend's pocket :"last night was great, but u gotta understand me..". We lived in diffenrent countries at that time.
He always denied doing anything with that girl. He said they only slept (which was enough for me to break up); but then I found evidence that they slept together more than once and other stuff... Well we tried to stay friends, but he never wanted to answer me and i needed to know the truth (like u) but ne never said anything. I don't see him anymore, I'll never know. It would be impossible for me to see him without asking again and again. So if it hurt you real bad, ask her, but you might lose her, not because she takes it badly but because if you feel she's lying you won't want to see her again.

Answer 10

If u like her do not ask any questions to her of the past. Each day is new also in relations. Knowing truth on past canoot give any positive solutions.