This girl has called me up and offered to cook dinner for me, invited out for coffee, invited me over to walk dogs. After walking dogs she asked if I would like to watch a movie. We have never really hung out, I met her through her ex-boyfriend. I know him, but wouldn't say he was a friend more of acquaintance. Recently I saw her at a party as she was leaving and she invited me to another party. Anyway, we hung out a the second party. While there, she asked me to go sit out front with her, but when I sat down on the curb she moved away from me. She always seems distant from me, but in a nervous way. We have talked about what each of us want in someone. She is VERY shy and has admitted to being nervous around guys and not knowing how to flirt. Her roommate once told a guy we(me and the girl) were not interested in each other. Is the roomate just defensive? This girl is sending mixed signals. Acting flirty/saying she needs a friend and remaining distant. Is she just shy or what?
2007-08-20 23:35:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is probably very nervous about moving too fast because of the previous split. Just take your time. Ask her out occasionally, and take her lead as to how close you can get.
2007-08-20 23:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's just coming out of a long term relationship, she probably still doesn't know what she wants yet. Be friends get to know her and spend more time with her, time will tell you all.
2007-08-21 06:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Heavens Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds confused (isn't sure if she wants a BF or a friend). I guess just hang out with her and give her some time. And maybe flirt a little.
2007-08-21 07:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by hrf1007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it slow.
time will tell.
for now just be there for her;
as a friend.
2007-08-21 06:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by susanna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question.
she asked for a FRIEND
2007-08-21 06:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just testing you... a bit of confusing...
2007-08-21 06:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's scared dude!
2007-08-21 06:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by babybear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋