I loved this guy for 4 years. We were like best friends, then he found out i liked him and everything changed. I tried to get over him for 2 years and i just officially got over him like 2 or 3 months ago. I haven't liked any other guys (except for celebrities and that kind of thing, no REAL guys) since then. I have seen girls all over this guy, and i thought it was funny because he didn't even know most of their names, and I've known him since he was 7 and no girls liked him, and I'v seen him become the guy that he's become now (the babe magnet) But the problem is that I just started my first year of High School 3 days ago. and i met this guy that I've known of for a while, but i'm just now getting to know him better. he's really cute, and i really like him. We seem to have a lot in common from what I've picked up, but I'm scared to really like him. I keep telling people that i'm just "in like" with him. I know that i don't love him or anything since i don't even hardly know him.
2007-08-22 16:44:42 · 4 answers · asked by JesusFreak777 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to continue here, because i ran out of room. So This guy, I think i'm scared to fall in love with him, or anyone for that matter. I'm scared to have my heart broken and I haven't even had a boyfriend yet. I loved the 1st guy, but he broke my heart like i had been with him forever. I just don't know how to make myself not scared to like soeone else, but at the same time, I don't know how interested he is in me, and I'm scared to put my heart out there again. It's just hard to not like him, but I really don't want to. What do you guys think?
2007-08-22 16:53:59 · update #1
Listen cutie, You've just started high school. There's a lot out there and no time for pursuing a relationship. Take the pressure off yourself. Study hard, make friends, have fun. Have you decided on what you're going to do with your life after high school? Set goals. Make something of yourself. No one has to have another person to complete themselves. There are way too many people out there just looking for sex. Don't get tangled in that trap. Stay true to yourself and seek after God's guidance. You'll be glad you did.
2007-08-30 03:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have alot of ups and downs but the first thing to remember why does it have to be love? no one can fall in and out of love that quick. you see you have to get to know someone and sometimes can take a very long time and then once you know the person you have to be friends and then you can at least trust him or whatever. but it all takes time and why can't you do that instead of this falling in love i mean hey play the field and get to know a bunch of guys with out anythign to keep them tied to you and then you ca slowly pick and choose and be careful but you will get hurt cause that is why life is like that. you learn and live and that is how it goes. so just keep looking and learing to meet others and find out what the other side has to offer there are so many guys out there you will find the right one and be happy.
2007-08-30 21:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to matters of the heart time is the best healer
Don't try to rush this relationship or feel that you need to fall in love - savior the growing friendship - get to know him and then let things happen.
2007-08-30 22:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well love just happens... u can't stop falling in love!!!....
2007-08-23 01:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Krish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋