i went out with this guy and for almost 2 years and we are each others first everything. things got shitty and we broke up after 2 years we began seeing each other again and after about a year now we've decided to get back together. now he drops this bomb on me telling me he has a crush on my sister and even suggested hooking up with her to get it out of his system. we talked about how that hurt me but i dont feel like he understands how thats crossing the line and i cant get that out of my head. i told that i have crushes too and we'll just leave it at that and that its fine. i dont know if im making a mistake or not by being with him again because i do love him and i know he loves me. am i overreacting or should i tell him that as long as those feelings are there this isnt going to work... ?
2007-08-22 20:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by xobabigrl87xo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the feeling will be there in any man, be thankful he didnt ask you to join him and your sister. the problem you have is he told you about liking your sister. he is suppose to keep that to himself.
kick him you know where, then dump him.
2007-08-22 20:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very common to be attracted to your lovers sister. You see similarities in her that remind you of your gf, but the differences are intriguing. It's also kind of a naughty and private little fantasy. His mistake was actually taking it seriously and making it not so private.
2007-08-23 03:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he she have told you that but wanting to have sex with the female family members of the girl you are dating is a pretty common thing for guys. Tell him not to mention it to you again.
2007-08-23 03:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by naked_lunch82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him. Otherwise, every time when he is there, and your sister is too, you will feel uncomfortable wondering if he still has a crush on her. It isn't going to work.
2007-08-23 03:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you can deal with your boyfriend thinking about your sister as you two kiss and whatnot, go for it.
But ask yourself this..if he was thinking about a different female while with you, would you put up with that?
2007-08-23 03:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by riding128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him that if the feelings he has for your sister get stronger he will loose you
2007-08-23 03:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some things are better kept to yourself... dump him now, i mean he his only your first, and its not like its going to last forever.... and make sure your sister doesnt go out with him either... to me he seems like an arrogant prick, and you deserve much better than that....
2007-08-23 03:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants to keep it in the family
2007-08-23 03:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by shck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn that sucks
2007-08-23 03:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋