I meet this guy about 6 months ago. He’s 40, I’m 30. We have been dating & taking it slow. Both our ex’s cheated on us. It took me this long to let my guard down & I think he knows this. It seemed to me that he wanted to make sure that I considered him my boyfriend before we spend the night together. Last weekend we sleep together for the 1ST time. It was really sweet. I felt asleep after, but he constantly hugged me and looked at me.
He owns a business. I work, go to school and have a daughter. He txt me everyday & we have phone conversations 10-20 min long about 3 times a week. But, 90% of the time is me the one saying that we should go out.& suggesting where. He always pays though & makes himself available to me.
I’m not sure how invested is he into me? The fact that is me the one initiating the dates makes me wonder if he is just going along, shy, or is he really into me.
What do U think?
2007-08-22 21:08:03 · 7 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you & i need to pray for each other .. honestly you're biggest indicator is that he is making himself available to you. He may want to be respectful of your daughter and school schedule and allowing you to make the plans. just continue to have faith and be hopeful and trust yourself and let love blossom
Be blessed
2007-08-22 21:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed_One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't have a clue about where to take you. He is just following your lead. You should suggest that he make the plans next time, but don't be disappointed if it is somewhere you really don't want to go. He sounds like a nice shy guy, that probably had a controlling ex that wanted everything her way.
2007-08-23 04:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feeling shy about saying it out?
His action will tell u. texting maybe will do the trick? Guy tend to hide their feeling to their heart rather then saying out. Hope his action may moved U. gd Luck
2007-08-23 04:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Stars_122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he making an effort, just inhibit to show it.
he's forty,,,perhaps the flame is a bit low on gas.
believe he treasure this relationship.
you decide, go slow or hunt him down.....
to love is to act on it, believe in it, make it.
2007-08-23 04:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's really into you and is trying to start a serious relationship.
2007-08-23 04:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toooooo long of a story i didnt even read it.
2007-08-23 04:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by bienbuenote 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
naw
2007-08-23 04:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋