Singles & Dating - 21 August 2007

what do you do when you know your boyfriend is not treating you the way your suppose to be treated but you still want to stay with him because you feel like there's still something there.....

2007-08-21 17:59:08 · 28 answers · asked by lost in love . 1

2007-08-21 17:57:00 · 6 answers · asked by honey 5

i really dont understand how people can even have the nerve to say "i've loved him for 3 years blah blah blah and he doesn't even notice me!" it's like okay? you dont LOVE him-you haven't even kissed/hugged most likely..why would you tell me you're in love with him when you guys are just friends? that confuses me. i mean i have a major major crush on this guy for a year now..just everything about him, the way he looks at me, his body, his face, his mind..everything about him just blows me away..but i'd never say i loved him..because we haven't even kissed! (i think hes begining to like me now but thats besides the point) i mean i just really dont understand it. i guess i'm old fashioned and wouldn't even say it was REAL love if the person that you're in "love" with didn't love you back either. what do you guys think about people like this?

2007-08-21 17:54:48 · 8 answers · asked by Jay babe 3

2007-08-21 17:53:34 · 20 answers · asked by Plucker 2

Guys, if you are in a relationship and you really love your gf but you know that you are not the type who will ever make a commitment for the long term, would you leave her now better than later. My bf and I are really great together, I love him so much but he says that coz he loves me, he doesnt wanna hurt me because the more we are together the more I love him everyday. He would be ok if we break up now or after 10 years but he knows that Im the one who will be dead for that. Whenever we talk about this I start crying and he freaks out when I cry coz it breaks his heart so we end up pending the issue. I don't want commitment now but sure I will want to have a family one day. He will never want that coz simply he doesnt care, I know he is very selfish but I really love him. I don't know if I should leave him now? how can I be friends with the only man I really loved, he wants us to be friends if we broke up but isnt this too much?

2007-08-21 17:47:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my Mom will be moving to Florida in a few weeks. A few week ago she said that once the closing on her house was final she wanted to give me 500.00. nice right?
Well today she calls and says that she want me to use the 500.00 on me. Nice right?
Then she says to me "you need to get better fitting bras with some lift . And you need to get a proffesional facial. The last I saw you your pores were so large. You always had such beautiful skin" Which is not true. I have noticed that my Mom is loosing it. Should I let it go? My mom is also a very insulting person that always comments on how people look and dress. She never wanted her bday acknowleged because she was in fear of getting old. She has also has a few plastic surgery's to turn back the clock...
What are you thought's or comments?.

2007-08-21 17:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by annynoumous 2

im 15 and is it wrong to think this way? I dont have time for movies, going out and all that other BS

2007-08-21 17:43:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I could deal with it before, but now its not what i want at all. How do i tell him that he needs to stop acting this way, that he will seriously take in what i have to say?

2007-08-21 17:28:51 · 38 answers · asked by mimi_sweethart 2

ive decided i wanted to be a vegan and all my friends are making fun of me and such.

but my family is supporting me, so should i ignore my friends? or are they right?

2007-08-21 17:26:47 · 5 answers · asked by Meeesh 2

ok.....im 14 and in 10th grade..and im the only one whos young for there grade....oh and if u want can someone make me an outfit.....if u feel like it........thnx

2007-08-21 17:13:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell deep into this feeling of mine with him. I felt so safe,secured, and felt as though I can tell him anything. And I wanted to be his angel that he would turn to as the world came crashing down. I spoke of my feelings to him...and he spoke the same feelings to me too.

I was so happy, I was able to put my head on his shoulder, hug him and he actually ment it when he smiled and said I Was the best....we never dated or anything, because we both agreed to wait. And wait we did...a few weeks after those wanderful moments...I could feel my heart break and feel numb.

He told me he had no more feelings anymore, he didn't want to date me...and that's when I knew I had lost him. I feel so lost now...I want to move on...and i'm starting to like this other person..but how do I know i'm not likeing him only because i'm trying to replace the only person I told my feelings to, the only person that actually held onto me tightly and said I was special. I still have feelings for him.

2007-08-21 17:09:07 · 9 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1

A while ago I had unprotected sex several times w/ someone I was dating. We preferred not to use condoms and to use the pull out method. I could have pushed the condoms on him but I got too comfortable with this routine. I now realize what an idiot I was. I have gotten tested for STDs and I am clean. I was lucky enough not to get pregnant. But now I feel this horrible guilt, I feel irresponsible and dirty as I wasn't in a relationship and I didn't have the sense to protect myself. I enjoyed dating this person but now all I can think of is what would have happened if I werent so lucky. How do I get over this??

2007-08-21 17:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a 36b/34c.... im not out very far as far as the 34 inches go...my cup size is just bigger. i know people say that there is complications with boob jobs, but i have everything else as far as a good lookin body ..thats what my fiance says, but i dont think my boobs are porportioned to my body...dont get me wrong, they are a nice set...but i have looked at them so long that i dont know whether ornot they actually "fit" my body....should i or should i not do this?? i feel my confindence would sky rocket but im scared of them busting or whatever?

2007-08-21 16:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by lysendon20 1

A boyfriend I had in college just called me back 5 years after our breakup, which was quite painfull for me at the time (for him quite less, because he was a lot in his 'ego trip' and being quite a player). Though, a lot have been going on in my life since then and I was quite happy to see him and know what he had become. He hugged me at the end of our meeting and seemed sincerely enthousiastic about seeing me. Of course, there was no 'love in the air'.. it was a reunion, nothing more.

Is it true that at some point, if you do not call back, your exes will always want to get in touch with you after a while? Have you experienced it?

2007-08-21 16:55:20 · 7 answers · asked by Azucar 1

2007-08-21 16:13:05 · 45 answers · asked by Shorty babii 1

Am I a total loser if I haven't met a guy that i liked that liked me back, the only kid Ive ever met that liked me is in kindergarden and is the little brother of the guy i hate, im 5'10 in 8th grade, i play volleyball and basketball, i have a lot of friends, and no joke im liked by my peirs. but i cant seem to get any guy to like me... im always myself around guys anmd i dont intend to act different.. but am i a loser? wats ur op?

2007-08-21 16:11:40 · 12 answers · asked by =) 2

2007-08-21 16:06:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I want to lett a friendd tell a guy thatt i likee himm, andd i'm havingg secondd thoughtss aboutt itt noww......
Idk, wat doo youu thinkk, shouldd i lett herr tell himm, orr nott!?!
causee i'm havingg doubts that hee won't likee mee anymoree, and it's thiss guy i haven't seen inn a longg timee, and back then(a couple monthes ago)he liked me, cause i could tell, andd i didd, but didn't expectt itt.....

Soo, bassically i'mm sayingg thatt, i wantt him to know that i liked him back then, but was playing hard to get, but, i'm afraid that he won't have any feelings for me again, cause he did once after not seeing me again, and i could TELL he liked me, but, idk.....
What do you think, should i let my friend tell him that i still have feelings for himm, or, nott.........

2007-08-21 16:03:46 · 27 answers · asked by TempoBronze124 3

Before you answer, consider the following.

You are a well-educated, successful, financially independent woman. You have a stable career, you own your own house, car and you are quite capable of taking care of yourself. Attracting men is not a problem, because you exude a sexy yet confident air that makes them stop and stare -- even if you intimidate them and they don't speak.

In other words, you're an independent, self-made woman.

So which would you choose, given these circumstances? Great sex or a boring life with a stable companion?

And for those who think both are possible, think again. Been there, done that, and know from experience it just doesn't work.

2007-08-21 15:59:04 · 43 answers · asked by HappyBunny 1

ok. i like this guy but we r just friends and i wanted to ride with him but my parents r so protective of me that they wont let me ride with him. how do i convince them to let me???

2007-08-21 15:50:55 · 16 answers · asked by shayy♫ 2

I'm a junior in high school and when I'm around my friend's friends and around girls sometimes I just seem to float to the back of the crowd. How can I avoid doing this without being annoying or obnoxious.

2007-08-21 15:47:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 15:43:06 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 15:40:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 15:37:38 · 17 answers · asked by Zorba N. 1

It's very difficult for me to move on and accept the fact that i almost gave everything to him (including the only thing that I can only give to my husband to be) I was only 17 and I this really bothers me. I dont know how to forget him. and besides he got a new girl friend days after we quarreled. I find it so hard because we always spent time to be with each other too often before. I cant accept why he left me like a rag. He's so insensitive to say those words!! Plz I really need help. I have a heart disease and I dont want to get this thing worse because of him!

2007-08-21 15:36:12 · 1 answers · asked by Aira 2

I just found out that my ex from many years ago--probably the only person I every really loved--has moved back to my city.

We exchanged warm letters about 2 years ago. At the time he was engaged to be married. He told me that he might contact me when he returned to town (he was living in a distant city) but that did not happen. I'm afraid this might be because he found out that I (stupidly) drunk dialed one of his family members to get his contact info...or maybe his fiance didn't want him to talk to me, as we had been pretty serious at one time.

I found his phone number and email address online. I want to contact him but am terrified of doing so or of having him say he doesn't want to be in contact with me. It would hurt because to this day I still have feelings for him. If he's married, that's fine, but I just wonder if there's a chance that he isn't and don't know how else to find out.

Should I contact him? How?

2007-08-21 15:34:44 · 12 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

There's a younger women that likes me alot. I don't think its right as of yet because she's younger than I am physically and mentally. I am attracted to certain things about her, but I can't get over the age difference. What should I do to tell her that I don't feel that its appropriate see her because she's too young. In the future, maybe...but not now. I seriously believe that this girl has feelings for me unlike a usual "teenage crush". I don't want to hurt her. I'm stuck and I would like some advice.

2007-08-21 15:32:46 · 5 answers · asked by nikeforged_69 1

why would my ex be contacting me now? We broke up a year ago and only talked here and then a couple times... I've been in a relationship with someone else for 9 months now and he contacts me today :( and wants me to come see him? I don't understand why! We never had sex so please don't say it's because of that ... I am sexually active with my current bf.. and we're getting engaged.. My ex knows of my bf so I don't know why he would contact me now after a year and expect me to come see him ... please give me some advice ???

2007-08-21 15:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this guy who is the lead singer of his band. on our first date he tried to get me to sleep with him and i wouldn't. when I came home i figured that was the end of it. he called me the next day and asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend. i said yes. he told me that because i didn't give it up he wanted to be with me. I really love him but I hate the groupies that hang around him and his band. They are out only to “BANG” the band. They have no respect for me or the fact that we are together. i love him. Why is being with a rockstar so hard?

2007-08-21 15:23:47 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

I am a senior...and have never had a bf before. I doubt that I will get one this year. I do have a crush on some guys but I am way too shy to ask anyone out. Just because I don't date in high school does that mean that I will NEVER get a date and does that mean that people are going to start thinking I am a lesbo when I am totally straight?? Do you kno anyone that didn't date in high school but got a relationship after high school?

2007-08-21 15:07:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous