How to move on and forget about the past relationship?

Question

It's very difficult for me to move on and accept the fact that i almost gave everything to him (including the only thing that I can only give to my husband to be) I was only 17 and I this really bothers me. I dont know how to forget him. and besides he got a new girl friend days after we quarreled. I find it so hard because we always spent time to be with each other too often before. I cant accept why he left me like a rag. He's so insensitive to say those words!! Plz I really need help. I have a heart disease and I dont want to get this thing worse because of him!

Answer 1

Well then you shouldn't of married someone at 17 like that every works, lol. Really this is going to come down to some self-education or else you just going to be stuck in the same frame of mind, making the same mistakes. A good frist step is requinizing that you scarred yourself enough that you'll always love him, such is the nature of love, that doesn't mean crap thou, becasue as you just found out, love ISN'T enough. Also time to start developing yourself, life is more then cars, drugs, shopping, and tv, time to explore some other avenues I'm more then sure you neglected (hence why your in this situation and no I don't mean church, cope out) such as the sciences, langungues, history, and just reading up on some fiction, or non-fiction it doesn't matter. Its about explaning that mind to hopfully see past the hope you still have for this guy, becasue hunnie thats what stings the most, and letting go of that is the most you'll ever be able to do. Also time to take some self-discovery and find out why you picked this jerk, don't just say becasue you love'd him, because thats a cope-out and you havn't looked deep enough, love is never the issue, again, its how we use it. Now go learn about the world or yourself, the only other alternative is were your at now, and wouldn't a change of pace do you fine?