Singles & Dating - 21 August 2007

My boyfriend and I have been in a serious and committed relationship for three years. We have bothed smoked pot since we were in highschool and enjoyed getting baked together. However, I quit smoking pot over a month a go because it is expensive and bad for your health. I want him to quit too. I haven't asked him because I don't think it is fair for me to decided one day that I don't want to do something and then force my view on him. And he is so accomadating, he doesn't smoke it around me and hides all the pot supplies and doesn't talk about it to me. But I just wish he would quit because it is bad for his health. I should also note that he quit smoking cigarettes because I asked him too 2 years ago. Really, do I even have the right to ask him to quit just because I want him to?

2007-08-21 07:52:14 · 18 answers · asked by niffer_69_2000 1

when I'm away she puts her makeup on the shelf.

2007-08-21 07:45:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 07:38:00 · 16 answers · asked by Shazam 3

online or phone

2007-08-21 07:37:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend asked me to take this week off for her. I promised her I would so I would be able to spend time with her before she leaves for college. She leaves on Saturday. I don't leave for school until September 4th.

All I asked her was if we had to spend the entire 9 days together that I took off and if I could go to a friend's beach house from Saturday night - Monday. She seemed to be very upset that I'm not including her but I can't. It's my one guy friend and his family! He doesn't want anybody else!

I PROMISED HER I would be home by Monday Night!! She asked me if she could stop by early today and I made up a lie that I wanted to sleep. She sadly caught me in that lie. Truth be told I stopped off at another friend's house who lives close by for the night. It was raining and I didn't feel like driving and wanted to hang out with him. I know i PROMISED HER I'd be home last night but does it really make a difference if I'm home by this afternoon or this evening?

2007-08-21 07:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by BadToTheBone 1

Yesterday I woke up and realized that I no longer really care if I have a man in my life. Most of the guys I have dated have made me more miserable than happy and I am just tired of game playing and excuses. I am not saying that I never want a relationship again, part of me would love to have someone special. I just don't want to get burned again and it has never seemed that I really fit with anyone. I am really happy with my life. I just keep attracting flakes. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

2007-08-21 07:32:39 · 30 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

2007-08-21 07:31:46 · 23 answers · asked by VINCENT B 1

Hey guys, i just asked my BF if he is gay or not then he got really mad && pissed off?

What do you think? thanks guys..

2007-08-21 07:27:51 · 1 answers · asked by Megan M 1

I AM A 24 YEAR OLD BI FEMALE, I AM LOOKING FOR ANOTHER GIRL TO HAVE MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WITH, I DONT KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT ASKING A GIRL ABOUT THIS.

2007-08-21 07:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by ♥ lookin 4 ladies ♥ 1

Does this girl like me or has feelings for me even if she has a boyfriend ??? PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!?
i've known this girl for almost a year. and now we consider ourselves best friends. but she knows that i have feelings for her and when i first met her she had a bf and i used 2 talk 2 her over AIM and we would give ourselves cute nicknames like bambam and pebbles. when she had a arguement wit bf she wud come 2 me for i can make her feel better.then one day she let me pick her up from school then i found out she had a crush on me too but didnt know what 2 do because she had a bf. she broke up wit her bf and when a while single. she came over 2 ma house and while we were watching a movie she let me lay my head on her shoulder and on her leg. and she would let me pick her up and play with her. then she gott bf before i even made a move and then she left for the summer. i felt bad because i really love her and i thought she didnt like me. now everytime i talk 2 her she calls me bambam again and its wierd because it feels like deja vu. so idk does she like me ??

2007-08-21 07:23:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

have sex with her. She got this summer job, working as a tee-shirt seller. shes 18. and she is completly oblivious. he throws parties at his house and tries to get her extremely drunk so she cant drive home and stuff. but she never gets to that extent. and now hes asked her to go to Cape Cod MA which is about 4 hours from where we live to go open and close his store out there. hell pay for her gas, and her food ect. and he has a house out there she can stay at. shes just excited to go to cape cod, and doesnt think anything of it. my mom and brother have tried to talk to her, and shes like ill be careful. do you think he wants her?

2007-08-21 07:20:24 · 14 answers · asked by mingosaysss 2

So I used to talk to this boy online and I fell real hard for him. We lost contact and I want to find him but its been a few years and all I know is his name, his birthday, his old email address, and thats about it...what are my options?

2007-08-21 07:19:59 · 5 answers · asked by Cassy B 1

I'm dating a woman who is in recovery from drug addiction. I myself am in recovery from addiction as well. Our dating relationship has been chaotic and intense and has lasted so far for about a month. Two days ago she broke up with me and told me it was because I wasn't as into her as she was into me. She wanted a committed relationship it sounded like. I wanted to date her more, hang out with her, and get to know her before making that decision. Since our "break up" she has been calling me and leaving long winded messages on my voicemail, and now wants to see me again. It feels more intense than I like it, and yet when we connect we connect at a very intimate level. It just takes time to get through all the BS. I told her that I need a little space and plan on getting back to her in a day or so, but right now I am not sure if I want to continue dating her, or if I want to let her go. Any suggestions?

2007-08-21 07:14:19 · 37 answers · asked by wonderboy 2

Alright this is kinda weird for me because usually I'm giving relationship help but this time I just really don't know what to do. I have been dating this amazing guy for 2 and a half years now. Everything is going great and we are really close, but sometimes I find myself thinking about other guys. It never used to be like that though. I would only be able to think about my boyfriend but now other guys are turning my head. I still love my boyfriend but I don't understand...it makes me feel unfaithful and that I don't love him as much as I used to.

Am I just growing out of the "I can only think about you all the time stage" and growing into a more realistic relationship or am I falling out of love with the only person I have ever cared about?

2007-08-21 07:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by blondie4life235 1

My boyfriend and i are going out tonight, just to the movies.. but i was thinking of wearing a skirt as opposed to my usual jeans and tshirt. I was also thinking that if i go without underwear.. good or bad? I'm very shy and this is completely unlike me so i don't know if it would come off as weird or trashy? what do you think? (Guys opinions preferred)

thanks

2007-08-21 07:09:39 · 50 answers · asked by starryeyed 5

2007-08-21 07:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Julie 1

I am 18 and I have never really dated. So I met this guy at the store and he asked me for my phone number. So I gave it to him and then we began texting each other. So he asked me why I didn't have a bf and I said because I have been homeschooled since I was 13. So he is alot more experienced than I am. So we just kept talking for the past few days about stuff about ourselves but nothing about dating. I finally just asked if he thought I was too immature for him and he said no. But I am afraid I showed my insecurities and that he won't ever text back. I am I telling too much info or what do I need to do?

2007-08-21 07:02:33 · 9 answers · asked by babyphat 2

Is It Weird That I Never Want To Get Married?

I Mean I would Like A Relationship One Day But I Cant See Myself Ever Getting Married... Does Anyone Thinks This Is Abnormal, Or Feel The Same Way?
The Thought Of Marriage Doesn't Appeal To Me..

2007-08-21 07:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i aint got no money i just want her 2 be my gf i really like her i wanna know if she likes me 1st. im baffled.

2007-08-21 06:58:53 · 1 answers · asked by st3ph3n_j0rdan 1

I was wondering how you would describe a woman that is bad in bed. What does she do/doesnt do?

2007-08-21 06:53:37 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, so I'm in high school and I can't seem to figure out how to ask girls out. I can make the girls laugh, smile, and make them want to talk to me more. Some of them even come and sit on my lap and stuff like that! I would really like to ask this one girl in particular out but I don't know how to do it. I just don't want to be like "Hey, wanna go out with me?"


Any advice would be great.



Thanks

2007-08-21 06:47:09 · 11 answers · asked by ellogovenor 1

2007-08-21 06:43:25 · 15 answers · asked by charmed 2

heartbreak is hard to deal with.. especially when ur with someone for 3 years.. ive been takin the past 3 months horribly since i got dumped.. i dont know what to do to get my ex back... the only problem with our relationship was the fighting.. but it was only over stupid crap like lack of space and jealousy.. stuff that can easily be fixed.. now that we've broken up.. we stayed friends.. but he lives in the basement of his married ex gfs place who has a kid.. her and i talked a lot but lately ive been bugging her too much and it upset her and now he's mad... i know i overstepped my boundaries.. and i feel like a fool.. i want to make it up to him.. but i wanna let him come to me when he's ready.. im not giving up hope.. so please give me and tips that might help to get him back

2007-08-21 06:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by mandersmo 1

I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR A YEAR. AT FIRST HE USE TO ASK FOR SEX ALL THE TIME. NOW THINGS HAVE COOL OFF. I WANT MORE SEX AND HE DOESN'T. HE SEEMS TO WANT IT WHEN HE ASK FOR IT NOT WHEN I WANT TO HAVE IT. WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM. HE SAY HE DOESN'T WANT ME TO GET PREGNANT BUT HE DOEN'T WANT TO USE PROTECTION. SO WHATS UP

2007-08-21 06:40:10 · 35 answers · asked by Feelsolost 3

I keep doubting that the guy I love feels the same about me. Please reassure me!! This is what he has done in the past:
1. He said hi to all my friends but I was the only one he asked how I was and he said it all soft n stuff
2. He stares at me all the time. I mean CONSTANTLY!
3. He has really good manners around me.
4. He tries to talk to me alot and be around me.
5. When he enters a room he slowly looks around.
6. He is always talking with my friends, family and especially my brothers.
7. He stood by me one time like maybe not even a foot away.

Is he obsessed??
Help.

2007-08-21 06:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by Cowgirl26 4

My girlfriend, and I were together since 4th grade. We are now in 7th and she cheated on me. my friend caught her and she told me. My gf did not know that my other friend had seen her, so I planned a surprise show up. When I showed up, I dumped her. I have a new gf and my ex will not leave me alone. She keeps begging me to take her back. She RUINED MY FIRST DATE WITH MY NEW GF. She got a new bf, and I was so relieved. But he dumped her for I don't know what reason. Does anyone know what I should say to her to get her off of my back for good?

2007-08-21 06:32:49 · 3 answers · asked by Mikole??!! 2

Ok so i met this guy named cody and he is totally adorable. we flirt alot. and he said my name was pretty. Also when we frist met he asked me to givve him a kiss on the cheek jokely though. But i think he did want it. And he also asked me for my number. and he commeted on my my pics on myspace and he said it was hott. and just now he called me and we talked on the phone for like an hour. So that means he likes me right??

2007-08-21 06:31:44 · 2 answers · asked by dancingurl_22 1

when i go out places, i see all these hot guys my own age and i cant get up courage to talk to them at all. i see them looking at me, but they dont come over either. i am a flirt at my school because i am comfortable there. (for background, im a white girl with a skater/punk look at a city school where there is 12% white kids) the guys i see are from the suburbs and i dont know how to get comfortable talking to them. even living with some of them at a program at a local college, i still couldnt talk to them. is there anything i can do to get up courage to talk to them or get them to come over to me?

2007-08-21 06:30:23 · 8 answers · asked by Ducky 3

Been dating or seeing this guy for a little more than a month. He seems into me but the other night said he didn't want me to stay the night bcause he wants to take things slow. He says in all his other relationships he's always JUMPED right in and been hurt. He calls when he says he will, he cooks me dinner, he holds my hand when we cuddle and always kisses me passionately. Are men really afraid of getting hurt or is this some excuse for being commitment-phobic. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. Please share your thoughts.

2007-08-21 06:26:14 · 5 answers · asked by anneboz 2

I can't believe this, my significant other told me he was going to visit his parents in another state, for about three weeks.
I went out last night and I seen him wearing some glasses and a wanna be cool hat sitting in the front seat of a beat up car that my friend use to have, I noticed him and drove around the street to meet him on the other side to get a better look. Well, for sure that was him and now he doesn't realize what this does to my trust for him and what my final decision will be, because of his deciet... I don't wonder anymore because I see his ways and slowly but surely I am drifting away from him, my question is why don't guys realize what they got until its gone? Why do guys feel women won't give up on them? Why do guys think you'll get over it?..I mean I'll never use or hate guys because of what I go thru but...I can't figure this out...

2007-08-21 06:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous