my girlfriend asked me to take this week off for her. I promised her I would so I would be able to spend time with her before she leaves for college. She leaves on Saturday. I don't leave for school until September 4th.
All I asked her was if we had to spend the entire 9 days together that I took off and if I could go to a friend's beach house from Saturday night - Monday. She seemed to be very upset that I'm not including her but I can't. It's my one guy friend and his family! He doesn't want anybody else!
I PROMISED HER I would be home by Monday Night!! She asked me if she could stop by early today and I made up a lie that I wanted to sleep. She sadly caught me in that lie. Truth be told I stopped off at another friend's house who lives close by for the night. It was raining and I didn't feel like driving and wanted to hang out with him. I know i PROMISED HER I'd be home last night but does it really make a difference if I'm home by this afternoon or this evening?
2007-08-21 07:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by BadToTheBone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you also did wrong by lying to her. You got caught. Accept it. She has a right not to trust you now, so yes, it's probably a big deal if you're home by this afternoon or this evening.
2007-08-21 07:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the truth and stop making promises you cannot keep. That is the problem.
2007-08-21 14:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kabu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course you wanna hang out with your friends but she probably felt like you lied to her because you don't want to hang out with her.. never lie!
2007-08-21 14:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Winifred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She perceives that she is not your top priority. And really, it sounds like she is right.
2007-08-21 14:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by beautifulirishgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋