Alright this is kinda weird for me because usually I'm giving relationship help but this time I just really don't know what to do. I have been dating this amazing guy for 2 and a half years now. Everything is going great and we are really close, but sometimes I find myself thinking about other guys. It never used to be like that though. I would only be able to think about my boyfriend but now other guys are turning my head. I still love my boyfriend but I don't understand...it makes me feel unfaithful and that I don't love him as much as I used to.
Am I just growing out of the "I can only think about you all the time stage" and growing into a more realistic relationship or am I falling out of love with the only person I have ever cared about?
2007-08-21 07:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by blondie4life235 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like your coming out of that euphoric feeling of being in love. The next step, in my opinion, is to remember what first attracted you to your current boyfriend, and what it is that you really like about him. Tell him you would like to make him feel more loved and ask him what you can do. Then let him know the same. True love is an action, not a feeling. I hope that makes sense! No relationship is perfect, and some honeymoon phases last longer than others, but a good relationship takes work. The question is whether we care about the relationship enough to make it work! Best wishes!
2007-08-21 07:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think just plain curiosity causes us to turn our heads however that certainly doesn't mean we are becoming unfaithful. If you have a good relationship with your B/F then keep on keeping on as successful relationships are rare in this day and age.
Good Luck!
2007-08-21 14:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by mandbturner3699 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who could truly answer this question, but IMO it's normal for you to be interested in other guys. I'd say it's normal to even fantasize about other guys, but if your heart is in this relationship then be happy with the one you have.
2007-08-21 14:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by labken1817 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im guessing you just want to see what else is out there. but that doesnt mean you dont love him anymore.. idontknow. tehe =)
2007-08-21 14:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋