My boyfriend and i are going out tonight, just to the movies.. but i was thinking of wearing a skirt as opposed to my usual jeans and tshirt. I was also thinking that if i go without underwear.. good or bad? I'm very shy and this is completely unlike me so i don't know if it would come off as weird or trashy? what do you think? (Guys opinions preferred)
thanks
2007-08-21 07:09:39 · 50 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, a skirt with no underwear? I guess a turn-on... For every guy in the theater!
I'd recommend underwear... What are you going to lose by keeping your privates private?
If you decide to go without, you'd better make sure there aren't any sudden breezes...
2007-08-21 07:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your relationship has already been *consummated*, AND he's not a prude or VERY religious, then it I think that he would definitely be turned on. If *it* hasn't been, or he *is*, then I'd say No, because it would be out of character for you, and he might think you're either a little bi-polar or a little trashy. I'm assuming it's the former, and he's a regular guy, so he'd probably be turned on by the flash o' gash.
But, like the earlier lady said, make sure the skirt is long enough so the unintended eyes don't catch a glimpse. Because that WOULD be trashy.
2007-08-21 09:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dsonuvagun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i would wear some simply for the fact that i just get reaaalllly turned on by my bf and get quite wet :S which is a bit icky if your not wearing underwear lol, but make them sexy, like french nickers with lace etc well you get the point! Underwear or not if your planning on giving him some and he wants some, the whole wearing/not wearing underwear is gonna make much difference cos he'll just slide them to the side anyways. If you can get away with it though, sure why not go without! It'll turn him on and won't look weird or trashy.
2007-08-21 07:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it makes sense to worry about what another woman would think about calling you "trashy", But i don't think that at all. i think you want to mix things up. a surprise for your man would definitely turn him on because it shows that you want your man to want you, which is a bonus for you and him. the underwear bit i would also do. but if your going to wear or " not wear" anything under your skirt i strongly recommend that you see a movie you don't mind leaving early, because hes gonna be ready if you spring that on him.
what i think you should do is tell him during the movie. not before. surprise him.
its not weird, and your not trashy.
break free from you shyness and have a good time.
good luck
nik m
2007-08-21 07:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by nik m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The skirt is a good idea.
You should wear underwear, though. Going without underwear in a skirt is pretty trashy.
2007-08-21 07:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Purl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi sweetheart, I'm not a boy, but ill give my opinion. When I go with my boyfriend every time we go I set a standard for myself. With the usual jeans and t-shirt he thinks its nice when i dress up everyonce in awhile, show off a little leg, not too much to where its trashy but enough. And, if you have a panty line, definete no no on the panties, just go with out um! However, if you cant see the line, and you wanna wear them, it'll be fine, justwear um. hope it helps!
2007-08-21 07:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for trouble?
First of all, if you dress like a hooker, you are going to get treated like a hooker.
You shouldn't be turning him on either unless you are married to the guy. Sex was originally intended, besides being the means of reproduction, as an expression of love between a couple who are married to each other. It wasn't supposed to be like a neighborhood dog looking for the other dogs in heat. If you have sex before marriage, you are guilty of the sin of fornication. It could cause you not to go to Heaven when Jesus returns to judge the world of its sin.
If you don't care, then let it all hang out. You will have every other guy besides yours looking. It could cause your guy some problems keeping them away. It could cause you to get pregnant, contract an incurable disease like AIDS, or something else you don't even want to think about.
Dress conservatively and you will be treated with respect and not as an object of lust.
2007-08-21 07:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are the plans? How would he know that your not wearing any underwear?
For me it wouldn't make a bit of a difference. I wouldn't think you were a $lut for not wearing underwear, but wouldn't really care if you were or not. Most the time attractive underwear would be more of a turn on then none at all.
2007-08-21 07:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by labken1817 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wear a skirt, if it makes you look sexxy to him. That is nice. But definitely wear some underwear. First of all, you don't know what could happen to you. It might get cold, and underwear helps. But seriouly, if you two become intimate, it takes only a few seconds to take it off if you need to...........Most of us Men love the feel of silky underwear on our Girls........
2007-08-21 07:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Herbert S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please wear your underwear. It's so disgusting not to.
For people that doesn't know, women's body discharge a white substance so it would clean out the vagi**. And not wearing underwear makes it very unsanitary which attracts germs/microorganisms.
This fact should make the guys think twice about girls without underwears. Yuck!
2007-08-21 07:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋