I can't believe this, my significant other told me he was going to visit his parents in another state, for about three weeks.
I went out last night and I seen him wearing some glasses and a wanna be cool hat sitting in the front seat of a beat up car that my friend use to have, I noticed him and drove around the street to meet him on the other side to get a better look. Well, for sure that was him and now he doesn't realize what this does to my trust for him and what my final decision will be, because of his deciet... I don't wonder anymore because I see his ways and slowly but surely I am drifting away from him, my question is why don't guys realize what they got until its gone? Why do guys feel women won't give up on them? Why do guys think you'll get over it?..I mean I'll never use or hate guys because of what I go thru but...I can't figure this out...
2007-08-21 06:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"slowly drifing away from him"? Hello? He lied to you. He's a liar!!! You don't need to be with someone who is not trust worthy. That's the whole meaning of a beautiful
relationship...you love and trust them. Don't waste any more time on this guy...Go out and find someone who won't give you the run-around.
2007-08-21 06:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by mernalou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once the element of trust is gone, there is no basis for a relationship.
What ever you do, Don't go headlong into a relationship with him any more. Just play it cool and tell him that without trust there can be no further relationship and then back off. Stay away and see if he changes and the only way you will know that is to wait and see if he will come after yo. In the meantime, start going out with other boys and you just might be surprised that there are plenty of guys out there that are trustworthy. Good Luck!
2007-08-21 06:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by mandbturner3699 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think that most guys want it all. They want the nice girl to take home to mom but then they want the wild girl that can party all night. It's like once they meet their perfect girl they are longing for something else. What your guy did is totally wrong. It sucks but I would just get rid of him. No one deserves to be lied to. You can't let this guy think that what he did you will get over because its not right. Be honest and tell him how you feel. Hopefully, he will realize what a jerk he was. Good luck.
2007-08-21 06:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from the opposite side of the question, i realize that there are things that can drive a guy away. but if there is no extinuating circumstance the i have to say that we as guys are stupid and if we have been with a girl long enough then we get a bit arrogant. that is why. if you wan't to know the answer to anymore questions about guys, start thinking like us and you'll get ur answers. to put yourself in your aguys shoes is to know what we are. and to know our habits makes you smarter.
2007-08-21 06:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by gunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i kno exactly how u feel. guys like that are jerks. but i think i know why. my brothers and their friends get together all the time and do what they always do. (talk about girls, eat, and play video games) when one of them says that they only want to have one girl, they get clowned. so they go out and get more girls and lie to all of them and because their friends r praising them for that they think that no one will get hurt and that its not that big of a deal. why they think like that I honestly have no clue but thats how it is. but only some guys are like that not all.
2007-08-21 06:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are stupid. they feel that u won't give up on them because they know that females are stronger then they are.
2007-08-21 06:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by princessrav23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because he sucks. move on.
2007-08-21 06:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Amy E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋