I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY FOR A YEAR. AT FIRST HE USE TO ASK FOR SEX ALL THE TIME. NOW THINGS HAVE COOL OFF. I WANT MORE SEX AND HE DOESN'T. HE SEEMS TO WANT IT WHEN HE ASK FOR IT NOT WHEN I WANT TO HAVE IT. WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM. HE SAY HE DOESN'T WANT ME TO GET PREGNANT BUT HE DOEN'T WANT TO USE PROTECTION. SO WHATS UP
2007-08-21 06:40:10 · 35 answers · asked by Feelsolost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal for the sex to die down some.
I've realized a lot of men don't like it when the woman starts the sex. They say they do, but according to my friends & own experience, they don't.
Can you get on some birth control so that won't be an issue?
2007-08-21 07:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You already gave him want he wanted. SEX. He is using you. I'm sorry lot of guys do that. I'm also afraid he probably gave you a disease. If he doesn't want you to get pregant & won't use protection. He might gave you something. I would leave this relationship alone. Go to the health dept., clinic, & get test for all STD out there including HIV. I would also get test again 3-6mths. The clinic will tell you when you get test again. You will be hurt that normally. Somebody will treat him like a dog one day. What goes around comes around. Talk to your parents, pastor, etc. Learn the dating rules. Don't give up sex. Get into the Bible about sexually immorally. Since you the one can get pregant you need to be responisble esp. these days.
2007-08-21 06:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a very complicated person. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to have sex but he doesn't want to use protection nor does he want you to get pregnant... You could try using some form of birth control i.e. pills or the shot. It's kind of selfish of him to be willing when he wants to have sex but not when you do. You could try discussing a compromise with him as far as the amount of sex you two have. Or try to spice it up a bit so that he can't resist. But always use some form of protection.
2007-08-21 06:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by jamyj917 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off if he wants sex with out protection tell him to get lost....it sounds like he don't really care for you or your needs so you might want to rethink your relationship with him....he is not thinking of your well being or your needs....so id say don't give him no sex at all and see what happens...he will change his mind. give me an email and lets talk more....you are the one that can control the sex that is happening.
2007-08-21 06:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in a relationship the two of you are on different pages. It doesn't mean anything though. I remember for a few months everytime my girlfriend wanted to have sex I didn't and when I did, she didn't!!! It gets frustrating at times but it will pass. No worries.
2007-08-21 06:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he could be bored - just wanting a break from the ever so usual sex. next time he does want to do something, try spicing it up. go get some lotions or toys and do some different moves. if you need some help finding new moves, try watching an adult movie just for ideas.
2007-08-21 06:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by Just call me Mo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone like me that's always ready no matter what time of the day or where we are LOL. For me, just the fact that my woman is horny and desires sex a lot is a big big turn on !!!!!! Poor guy - he doesn't seem to realize what a gem he's got :-)
2007-08-21 06:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by this_big_one_is_4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe spice things up a little. Change the routine.
Catch him off guard or tease him for a while without having sex. Then see what happens.
2007-08-21 06:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay he is wrong, he want sex when he is horny but when h eis not he don't want to give you pleasure relax you which is wrong, even if he don't want sex he have to relax you because you need to be relax ,sex,so atlist he can make hot oral and give you hot pleasure, that means meybe he have some body else too,other women or even with other guy you never know, keep in your mind if you need sex and he said no he try to find some esxuse so he has some thing in his mind, is not about your peregants, he can use condoms all the time.or only oral, like me if my girl she is horny and I am not but still I make with her hot oral and make her *** and relax her,I never turn her down no matter what,
2007-08-21 06:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're making it just like a ritual now. Explore something different in style, positions and go some other places to release the love
2007-08-21 06:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by dalton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋